What's worse? The pain of a rejection or the pain of a breakup?

[BadLuck7892]

Rejection. BY FAR.

At least with a breakup, the other party thought you were worthy at one point. With a rejection, they think you're garbage right off the bat.

The fact my self-esteem is about as low as New Orleans's elevation is certainly a major reason I take a flat-out rejection worse than a breakup.

 

[The Grinch]

Ask your therapist

 

[NoLongerHuman]

I've never personally went through a break-up, but I can imagine it to be more painful.

In a break-up, you've established a strong bond with another person, and now you're gonna leave it. It hurts a lot, because you've lost someone dear. Looking back on the memories made will probably just hurt even more.

With rejection, it's pretty swift, and unless you're an obsessive nigga, the paik of rejection doesn't last so long. When you end up reminiscing, you'll most probably just laugh it off

idk just jerk off tbh

 

[_MVP_]

probably breakup because u got used to the drug and then its cold turkey quit

 

[BadLuck7892]

I've never personally went through a break-up, but I can imagine it to be more painful.

In a break-up, you've established a strong bond with another person, and now you're gonna leave it. It hurts a lot, because you've lost someone dear. Looking back on the memories made will probably just hurt even more.

With rejection, it's pretty swift, and unless you're an obsessive nigga, the paik of rejection doesn't last so long. When you end up reminiscing, you'll most probably just laugh it off

idk just jerk off tbh

For those of us who get rejected the vast majority of the time (and as a result, have self-esteem as low as New Orleans's elevation), even one more rejections can do a Hurricane Katrina on our self-esteem.

I hate having a woman say no to such a severe degree, I buy prostitutes as a loophole to get a "yeah" out of a woman. I don't necessarily pay for the sex itself; I pay her to say yeah.

 

[NoLongerHuman]

For those of us who get rejected the vast majority of the time (and as a result, have self-esteem as low as New Orleans's elevation), even one more rejections can do a Hurricane Katrina on our self-esteem.

I hate having a woman say no to such a severe degree, I buy prostitutes as a loophole to get a "yeah" out of a woman. I don't necessarily pay for the sex itself; I pay her to say yeah.

I get ya, tho Id argue you could simply stop approaching for the sake of your low esteem. I've been rejected a couple of times and it hurts, but as it goes on I find it easier to stomach. Maybe you could desensitize yourself from the pain of rejection, easier to do that than desensitizing the pain of breakup

btw rep me nigga

 

[BadLuck7892]

I get ya, tho Id argue you could simply stop approaching for the sake of your low esteem. I've been rejected a couple of times and it hurts, but as it goes on I find it easier to stomach. Maybe you could desensitize yourself from the pain of rejection, easier to do that than desensitizing the pain of breakup

btw rep me nigga

Repped you

Everyone is different. Some men have an easier time desensitizing themselves to the pain of a rejection. I, on the other hand, have an easier time desensitizing myself to the pain of a breakup (I pretty much have desensitized myself to the pain of a breakup)

As for your suggestion I could always stop approaching broads (as a loophole to avoid rejection), I hear ya. I've barely approached any broads these past several years...for that specific reason. Yet I got a rejection this weekend; it drove me to slam 2 doors.

I've never had an aggressive reaction to a breakup, other than when my elementary school girlfriend dumped me.

 

[NoLongerHuman]

than when my elementary school girlfriend dumped me.

caged at this tbh

 

[Klasik616]

I've never had a breakup only rejections actually I've never been accepted

 

[BadLuck7892]

caged at this tbh

It's to be expected a 10 year old boy won't take it well when he gets dumped for the first time.

That being said, I've come to accept breakups through the years. I'm never going to accept rejection, however.

If I'd get away with it, I'd fasten a noose around the neck of the woman I got turned down by this weekend. Seriously.

 

[BadLuck7892]

I've never had a breakup only rejections actually I've never been accepted

Lack of acceptance sexually/romantically is crippling.

I've had some degree of success (but still strike out the vast majority of the time)

 

[BadLuck7892]

I've thought of getting a sex doll just because they don't say no.

Seriously.

 

[NumbThePain]

Both. I got used and numb to rejections. Can already tell from miles away a woman doesn't want me

So I guess breakup because you just lost something you probably never get back as a man. Plus breakups are more brutal for men because women can just jump instantly to the next guy on the same day and cuck you hard while the man is crying. Although I've luckily never experienced this before

 

[f1l426]

Rejection. BY FAR.

At least with a breakup, the other party thought you were worthy at one point. With a rejection, they think you're garbage right off the bat.

The fact my self-esteem is about as low as New Orleans's elevation is certainly a major reason I take a flat-out rejection worse than a breakup.

The pain of rejection is greater, you haven't managed to get attached to a person yet

 

[XxW33dSm0k3rxX]

break up

 

[BadLuck7892]

Both. I got used and numb to rejections. Can already tell from miles away a woman doesn't want me

So I guess breakup because you just lost something you probably never get back as a man. Plus breakups are more brutal for men because women can just jump instantly to the next guy on the same day and cuck you hard while the man is crying. Although I've luckily never experienced this before

Ehh, despite the fact a man finding a replacement is a lot harder, I've easily broken up with broads once they were no longer useful to me.

I can relate to telling from miles away a woman doesn't want me. Or perhaps a better way to put it (in my case): I have a tendency to convince myself a woman couldn't possibly be into me, no matter how many clues the woman drops.

As for why I'm convinced no woman could possibly be into me: Because of how many times I've been told how undesirable I am to the ladies.

 

[BadLuck7892]

break up

At least a breakup means the woman was into you at one point.