When being approached by girls

[MedMogger]

When out, I get approached by girls - saying they think I’m fit. But there’s been a lot of instances where after I start speaking/having a conversation with them, they lose interest in me.

Why do they lose interest? Is it possible that they are seeing some failos up close that they didn’t see from far away?

 

[IBlameEveryoneElse]

Is it possible that they are seeing some failos up close that they didn’t see from far away?

Yes, your autism

 

[MedMogger]

Yes, your autism

But they shouldn’t care about that though

When looking for a partner to reproduce with, all that matters is the man’s genetic qualities (like height, frame, looks, ethnicity). I don’t understand how autism can interfere with sexual attraction.

 

[Suns9999]

i just don’t think you got it like that tbh

 

[MedMogger]

i just don’t think you got it like that tbh

What do you mean?

So my hypothesis is right? They see a failo close up that they don’t like?

 

[Suns9999]

What do you mean?

So my hypothesis is right? They see a failo close up that they don’t like?

i don’t know, i wasn’t in your shoes during the interaction

 

[shitskinism]

Depends what your saying tbh. But you should keep the convo kinda brief, then try to close then and there or exchange socials.

 

[MedMogger]

Depends what your saying tbh. But you should keep the convo kinda brief, then try to close then and there or exchange socials.

I don’t know how to do that well.

Last time I did that I ended up in an LTR kind of situation. And I’m only looking to hook up right now. As I want to increase my body count before I settle down.

 

[Whatever]

This same thing has happened to me many times, although it's usually when an older above average foid approaches me, younger girls of all looks levels are much easier to talk to. I'm a voicecel so I've put it down to my voice and less than NT way of speaking giving them the ick, like they were expecting something else. Or maybe that the women were nervous to approach makes them trip up socially too. Either way I just hate this shit, I hate being teased with opportunity and then it gets taken away, legit keeps me up at night. Why can't it just be straightforwards.

 

[GreenHat500]

could be alot of things. your tone of voice, or if they feel you are unexperienced and/or have a low smv