Where are you supposed to "go outside"?

[Deleted member 7725]

Any ideas? I can't think of anywhere to go that doesn't involve friends tbh...

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Me personally I go out to rap3 a few subhumans and then go back in, normies probably go to the mall, parks, smoke weed, clubs, etc

 

[Iasacrko]

Me personally I go out to rap3 a few subhumans and then go back in, normies probably go to the mall, parks, smoke weed, clubs, etc

Ur gay

 

[SubhumanCurrycel]

Go for hikes or jogs outdoors it’s a good habit

 

[Deleted member 24938]

just walk outside and you will magically have friends, bro

 

[romanstock]

just to go for a walk or sit at the beach. thats it

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Ur gay

I meant subhuman women

 

[Iasacrko]

I meant subhuman women

All women are beautiful

 

[Deleted member 24278]

All women are beautiful

Only high testosterone men understand this

 

[Allornothing]

I used to walk outside at night and get iois it’s very relaxing. Maybe go clubbing by yourself but tbh mainly focus on getting a social circle.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

I used to walk outside at night and get iois it’s very relaxing. Maybe go clubbing by yourself but tbh mainly focus on getting a social circle.

how? ive never had any friends.

 

[AlexBrown84]

how? ive never had any friends.

It’s lonely at the top

Just like uzi said, all my friends are dead

 

[Allornothing]

how? ive never had any friends.

I assume you’ve finished uni

 

[Deleted member 7725]

I assume you’ve finished uni

ye

 

[Allornothing]

ye

Then I don’t know tbh there must be a way, though I don’t see it happening at work.

 

[Cali Yuga]

wander around in the woods

 

[ChiraqJihad]

The outdoors is just outside your front door. There may be a loading screen.

 

[Splinter901]

I've spent the last 6 years getting out of the house all the time and it's always just me walking around, idiots that say to you ''just go outside'' don't have your problem, don't understand your situation, don't truly care about you or your problems and they have never followed their advice.

 

[Dr. Bludy]

Just go beg people for money bro

 

[𝐀𝐬𝐬𝐲𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐖𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫]

Any ideas? I can't think of anywhere to go that doesn't involve friends tbh...

Parks, forest tripping since you’re in Russia
Swimming

If I were you I would drive all the way to Siberia to enjoy the nature along the way

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Parks, forest tripping since you’re in Russia
Swimming

If I were you I would drive all the way to Siberia to enjoy the nature along the way

I'm not in Russia anymore lol. i came to pendostan for a trip and now im stuck in this shithole.

 

[Gonthar]

Back in my days, just "going outside" was legit, there was nothing to do inside - no Internet, no smartphones, no computers, no cable TV, nothing! People stayed inside to sleep and eat and the rest of the time was usually spent outside. In my town each apartment building had benches in front of it, people would sit there and chat, play chess, cards, etc. There were other similar spots everywhere were people would just hang out - in parking lots, street corners, outside bars, stores, barber shops, etc. There were also parks, alleys, beaches, etc. were people also went to walk, chat, play games and sports, etc. and you could simply start talking to others, join a game or invite others to play with you.
These were the so called third places and they are disappearing fast, everyone is now online, kids and teens just don't go out now anymore to simply hang out for hours, all those casual interactions and socialisation that happened outside is now on Facebook, Tiktok, Whatsapp, group chats, etc.

 

[Deleted member 16453]

Back in my days, just "going outside" was legit, there was nothing to do inside - no Internet, no smartphones, no computers, no cable TV, nothing! People stayed inside to sleep and eat and the rest of the time was usually spent outside. In my town each apartment building had benches in front of it, people would sit there and chat, play chess, cards, etc. There were other similar spots everywhere were people would just hang out - in parking lots, street corners, outside bars, stores, barber shops, etc. There were also parks, alleys, beaches, etc. were people also went to walk, chat, play games and sports, etc. and you could simply start talking to others, join a game or invite others to play with you.
These were the so called third places and they are disappearing fast, everyone is now online, kids and teens just don't go out now anymore to simply hang out for hours, all those casual interactions and socialisation that happened outside is now on Facebook, Tiktok, Whatsapp, group chats, etc.

Excellent post here friend, the worlds changed significantly, people are more isolated than ever

 

[7zyzz7]

Lindy walking in the woods

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Countin' up this new money, every single day I'm home
I ain't worried 'bout what they be on
You do what you can, I live a lifestyle on the daily, homes
Bracelets on my right wrist, I got eighty on, my fragrance strong

 

[Deleted member 21735]

It’s low effort normie advice

 

[Registered Nursecel]

Back in my days, just "going outside" was legit, there was nothing to do inside - no Internet, no smartphones, no computers, no cable TV, nothing! People stayed inside to sleep and eat and the rest of the time was usually spent outside. In my town each apartment building had benches in front of it, people would sit there and chat, play chess, cards, etc. There were other similar spots everywhere were people would just hang out - in parking lots, street corners, outside bars, stores, barber shops, etc. There were also parks, alleys, beaches, etc. were people also went to walk, chat, play games and sports, etc. and you could simply start talking to others, join a game or invite others to play with you.
These were the so called third places and they are disappearing fast, everyone is now online, kids and teens just don't go out now anymore to simply hang out for hours, all those casual interactions and socialisation that happened outside is now on Facebook, Tiktok, Whatsapp, group chats, etc.

What you wrote right there is why I enjoyed being a soldier so much. You always had friends, no one was had their phones and you just lived in the moment doing dumb shit like that and it was fine. Everyone was happy playing cards or talking shit and cracking jokes and you could spend hours in a ditch in a field in the rain without getting bored because you were too busy laughing and enjoying yourself.

I made a big blogpost about the rise of parasocial relationships but you're absolutely right "3rd spaces" are nowhere to be seen anymore, people go from home to their car to work and occasionally to dedicated leisure activities. I live in an inner-city apartment which has a pool, gym, a roof you can go on and I spend loads of time outside and I talk to everyone. I go out into my city and walk through the public parks, do my shopping in person and make sure I talk to one new person every day. The week I moved in I introduced myself to my neighbours, I still speak to strangers in elevators, in queues and on public transport. I live for those little genuine human interactions you can have with strangers and it's depressing just how far we've descended as a society.

Life hasn't changed for stacies and chads, they just no longer have to deal with or interact with people below a certain looks threshold.
People host parties and send invites through social media, there's no following the sound of the music to the house on the block where shit is going down, you only find out if you were wanted there in the first place and the party is being held in the penthouse of some baldcel redpill betabuxxer who thinks people care about his 'status'

Sub-8s have been forced into getting all of their socialisation online or through vetted channels like dating apps and hobbies where you have to pass a looks and NT filter in order to be accepted. If you're ugly or autistic you're fucked, your only option is to pay to participate in a designated hobby activity and even if you join a hobby, you're not going to find acceptance, a social group will form around you excluding you and you will quit the hobby and rot on a forum like this or if you're some bluepilled soyboy you'll crack open a beer on your saturday night and watch a 3 hour podcast of a group of friends filming themselves talking to each other and you'll laugh along like they're your real friends.

 

[Foreverbrad]

Some based replies in this thread.

It demonstrates very well that lookism goes far beyond dating and is entirely capable of ruining your life in every way.

Even if you do eventually pass the looks threshold there’s still a massive divide between being allowed in a group and being valued in a group. I’ve learned to live with virtually no socialisation and although sometimes I wish I could enjoy life like the normies I see, the truth is still that at my current looks level I would be barely tolerated and walking on eggshells with everything I say and do. It is honestly better just to not participate now.

Once you are at a looks level where people want to orbit you rather than the reverse, presumably doors will open. But I’m not there yet.

 

[Splinter901]

U go outside to go ER

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Help?

 

[Pikabro]

Back in my days, just "going outside" was legit, there was nothing to do inside - no Internet, no smartphones, no computers, no cable TV, nothing! People stayed inside to sleep and eat and the rest of the time was usually spent outside. In my town each apartment building had benches in front of it, people would sit there and chat, play chess, cards, etc. There were other similar spots everywhere were people would just hang out - in parking lots, street corners, outside bars, stores, barber shops, etc. There were also parks, alleys, beaches, etc. were people also went to walk, chat, play games and sports, etc. and you could simply start talking to others, join a game or invite others to play with you.
These were the so called third places and they are disappearing fast, everyone is now online, kids and teens just don't go out now anymore to simply hang out for hours, all those casual interactions and socialisation that happened outside is now on Facebook, Tiktok, Whatsapp, group chats, etc.

I remember being desperate for those third places in my teens/childhood, I should’ve tried harder to secure one