Who Else Had This Mindset Growing Up

[HTNcutecel]

Whenever you were engaged in any kind of competition you'd purposely lose or at most tie with the other person so you didn't make them feel bad. I did this consistently and avoided competition at all costs.

Curse my high empathy, this probably contributed to why I felt so low t growing up. Pair this with excessively high inhib, parents that coddled me, and religious devotion I didn't have it in my cards to develop into anything other than a cutecel (cutecel as in very low dimorphism).

it's over

 

[Deleted member 2998]

Losers mindset, those among us who won at all costs are making moves in life (obviously not me since I'm here)

 

[Naduk Baduk]

Sad mang

 

[Esky1911]

Fuck

Same. Lol, these losers who kept on losing are good for nothing. I'd downplay my achievements lol to just maintain a relationship with these people

 

[Avertion]

Whenever you were engaged in any kind of competition you'd purposely lose or at most tie with the other person so you didn't make them feel bad. I did this consistently and avoided competition at all costs.

Curse my high empathy, this probably contributed to why I felt so low t growing up. Pair this with excessively high inhib, parents that coddled me, and religious devotion I didn't have it in my cards to develop into anything other than a cutecel (cutecel as in very low dimorphism).

it's over

Complete opposite.

 

[Clark69]

Over. It probably affected them as well. Instead of developing a dawg work ethic from facing defeat and getting their hopes crushed in front of their peers, they got complacent and lazy because they know 50% of their effort was 'good enough' to win these competitions

 

[esrcel]

High inhib curse i do this to ngl overly concious of how others might feel

 

[Joka]

cuck mentality

 

[romanstock]

I had to lose purposely in several areas else I would win everytime and gain too much unwanted attention (the morning 20 questions in grade 6 where 20/20 got a star added to the chart, and the end of training penalty shootout competition in u12s when i had perfected passing the ball hard into the corner everytime.)

 

[HTNcutecel]

I had to lose purposely in several areas else I would win everytime and gain too much unwanted attention (the morning 20 questions in grade 6 where 20/20 got a star added to the chart, and the end of training penalty shootout competition in u12s when i had perfected passing the ball hard into the corner everytime.)

after reflecting on it I realized attention was the main thing that dissuaded me from wanting to win, even though I've been singing most of my life and am quite skilled I've kept my voice confined. There have been a multitude of times I've been able to show off to increase social standing but the thought of garnering such attention is disconcerting.