Who else is fucking sick of their iqcel parents

[vietmtn]

Parentpill is real and its fucking brutal and I'm talking about asian parents specifically. Im viet and i absolutely despise this part of my culture. Most of these parents cant emphasise or communicate to their kids at all. They fucking shout at their toddlers and beat them and it carries on to your teen years unaware of all the trauma they cause. These iqcel shitheads arent even aware of the damage theyre causing to them.

I was high inhib, anxietymaxxed and nd as shit before i came accross looksmaxxing and some great friends but who knows what i couldve become without being aware of how fucked my brain is all thanks to my childhood. The shouting still happens even though im 17 and my mum still treats me like im a fucking kid. just fucking sick of it. I still get cortisol spikes from it and my inhib is still lingering around all thanks to her.

I get jealous when I hear my white friends talk about their relationship with their parents. i wish i was able to have a normal convo with my mum about anything about my life like my day in school, my plans for the future just literally anything normal without her just complaining. but all her fucking shouting just makes me despise her voice so fucking much, it makes me fucking angry to hear her even say a fucking word near me and i just wished she stfu when im around and i just get cortisol spikes when im around her.

all u white kids be grateful for what u have some asian out there is wishing to be in your shoes

vented this out cus my mum caught me on my phone at 00:30 and now its confiscated everynight at 22:00. fucking crazy bitch. any asians who can relate to this

 

[maximuslaid]

Im viet

Me too

but all her fucking shouting just makes me despise her voice so fucking much, it makes me fucking angry to hear her even say a fucking word near me and i just wished she stfu when im around and i just get cortisol spikes when im around her.

yea but you cant really blame them. They have been working every single day providing for you and they dont complain do they? So obviously there is going to be stress, making them angry and lash out at you.

Ofc that doesnt excuse their inability to control their emotions in front of their kids.

But still instead of always despising your parents, i think being grateful of the home the food they give you and all the things they do is better for your mental health overall.

Have you ever told your parents you love them and are grateful for what theyve done for you?

I might be wrong about your situation and what youre going through but thats just what i think

 

[Deleted member 177727]

oh my days, murder her in sleep so you won’t continue to be a stresscel

 

[HighLow]

Parentpill is real and its fucking brutal and I'm talking about asian parents specifically. Im viet and i absolutely despise this part of my culture. Most of these parents cant emphasise or communicate to their kids at all. They fucking shout at their toddlers and beat them and it carries on to your teen years unaware of all the trauma they cause. These iqcel shitheads arent even aware of the damage theyre causing to them.

I was high inhib, anxietymaxxed and nd as shit before i came accross looksmaxxing and some great friends but who knows what i couldve become without being aware of how fucked my brain is all thanks to my childhood. The shouting still happens even though im 17 and my mum still treats me like im a fucking kid. just fucking sick of it. I still get cortisol spikes from it and my inhib is still lingering around all thanks to her.

I get jealous when I hear my white friends talk about their relationship with their parents. i wish i was able to have a normal convo with my mum about anything about my life like my day in school, my plans for the future just literally anything normal without her just complaining. but all her fucking shouting just makes me despise her voice so fucking much, it makes me fucking angry to hear her even say a fucking word near me and i just wished she stfu when im around and i just get cortisol spikes when im around her.

all u white kids be grateful for what u have some asian out there is wishing to be in your shoes

vented this out cus my mum caught me on my phone at 00:30 and now its confiscated everynight at 22:00. fucking crazy bitch. any asians who can relate to this

Tldr summary

 

[jaycc]

me! my parents call me a disappointment and then refuse to take accountability for my depression and stress seizures

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Multiculturalism (within the family) and it’s consequences jfl

 

[hauntohalic]

parents make me backgroundcheck every1 i go with when i go out so i just dont bother anymore

 

[ybuyhgui]

They have been working every single day providing for you and they dont complain do they? So obviously there is going to be stress, making them angry and lash out at you.

But still instead of always despising your parents, i think being grateful of the home the food they give you and all the things they do is better for your mental health overall.

He never asked for any of that. His selfish parents had him as an excuse to keep living their depressing lives. His parents are selfish and horrible people; you would think that people have kids when they’re comfortable and happy but the opposite is true, the places with the highest birth rates are the biggest shitholes on the planet, and why is that? Because people have kids as a coping mechanism in the search for meaning in order to keep living their depressing lives without committing suicide. In order to make their lives less miserable and have an excuse to keep going they have kids and project their own inadequacies onto them, saying things like ‘we work so hard for you’ and ‘be grateful’ in spite of the fact that the kid never had a choice in the matter.