Who here was bullied in school And why were you bullied?

[Deleted member 77954]

I was my whole life then I NTmaxed and it stopped

 

[sub5outsider]

i wasnt bullied but i was ignored and was a outsider and from time to time people were making fun of me

 

[Deleted member 77954]

i wasnt bullied but i was ignored and was a outsider and from time to time people were making fun of me

Hmm, I'd call that bullying tbh if no one respects you and makes fun of you. Is it because your looks or autism?

 

[sub5outsider]

Is it because your looks or autism?

both

 

[baerr]

In elementary school they bullied me because I was the only fat kid. After that I went to boxing and started bullying other kids until 9th grade, it stopped there.

 

[Deleted member 78221]

then I NTmaxed

how?

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Yes for being 5"6 not past middle school tho I became evil after that and they knew not to.

 

[heightmaxxing]

Dick was to big they thought I was constantly erect. They called me bonner constantly

 

[MoggerGaston]

I was bullied because I was fat and also wore glasses during most of my childhood. I also wore poorly fitting clothes (my poverty parents only bought second-hand oversized garbage-bin clothing for me)
Fatness was also entirely the fault of my parents. My mother was extremely mentally ill and force-fed me under the threat of abandonment. If I didn't eat what she wanted me to eat, she would tell me I didn't appreciate her, she regretted having me, she would abandon me, etc.
Dealing with that as a 10yo kid is impossible so you develop mental illnesses and obesity as a response.

My dad was a weak submissive cuck who just let this all happen and didn't do anything. He also has blame in this story.

Bullying stopped around ~20yo when I finally managed to break free from the emotional torment of my mom, lost weight and started putting more attention to my styling/clothing.

I am now 29yo and haven't spoken to my mother in 4 years and I don't plan on ever speaking to her again.

 

[Deleted member 77954]

In elementary school they bullied me because I was the only fat kid. After that I went to boxing and started bullying other kids until 9th grade, it stopped there.

Great comeback tbh

how?

I started to read social cues and acted more like nt people learned to go in the perfect inbetween of talkative and quiet so I'm neither quiet nor annoying. Started testing it in conversations (my bullying was never extreme) then switched schools and started over now I'm neither popular or bullied so chilling

 

[Darkeningstar]

ugly, non nt. Then it got better

 

[Deleted member 77954]

I was bullied because I was fat and also wore glasses during most of my childhood. I also wore poorly fitting clothes (my poverty parents only bought second-hand oversized garbage-bin clothing for me)
Fatness was also entirely the fault of my parents. My mother was mentally ill and force-fed me under the threat of abandonment. If I didn't eat what she wanted me to eat, she would tell me I didn't appreciate her, she regretted having me, she would abandon me, etc.
My dead was a weak submissive cuck who just let this all happen and didn't do anything. He also has blame in this story.

Bullying stopped around ~20yo when I finally managed to break free from the emotional torment of my mom, lost weight and started putting more attention to my styling/clothing.

I am now 29yo and haven't spoken to my mother in 4 years and I don't plan on ever speaking to her again.

I feel bad for you man hope things will do better

ugly, non nt. Then it got better

Great

Yes for being 5"6 not past middle school tho I became evil after that and they knew not to.

Heightpill is brutal

 

[MoggerGaston]

I feel bad for you man hope things will do better

Great

Heightpill is brutal

I think the most brutal thing is that I was actually a mogger personality-wise even while being a fat ugly bullied subhuman kid.
I would also bully other kids and jestermax hard, I was extremely socially active and involved everywhere.

Everyone knew who I was, but not often in a positive light. Regardless I would often be at the center of discussion, bullying, drama, fights, etc. And because I was somewhat big for my age at that time, I could assert dominance/protection with the threat of violence.
This was 7-13yo.

In my teenage years, 13-19yo, I became depressed from the constant social rejection, and also the romantic/sexual rejection, + the parental child abuse started wearing me down, and thus I developed severe self-esteem issues. I started socially isolating and stopped being involved socially with people my age.

Nowadays I feel like it's over tbh. My self-esteem is completely destroyed and I have an insane list of mental issues/disorders to the point where I don't want to socially interact with people anymore whatsoever. I just want to cope in peace and be left alone.

 

[Deleted member 77954]

I think the most brutal thing is that I was actually a mogger personality-wise even while being a fat ugly bullied subhuman kid.
I would also bully other kids and jestermax hard, I was extremely socially active and involved everywhere.

Everyone knew who I was, but not often in a positive light. Regardless I would often be at the center of discussion, bullying, drama, fights, etc. And because I was somewhat big for my age at that time, I could assert dominance/protection with the threat of violence.
This was 7-13yo.

In my teenage years, 13-19yo, I became depressed from the constant social rejection, and also the romantic/sexual rejection, + the parental child abuse started wearing me down, and thus I developed severe self-esteem issues. I started socially isolating and stopped being involved socially with people my age.

Nowadays I feel like it's over tbh. My self-esteem is completely destroyed and I have an insane list of mental issues/disorders to the point where I don't want to socially interact with people anymore whatsoever. I just want to cope in peace and be left alone.

I can feel you. In elementary and middle school I was also the centre of attention in elementary me and another kid used to fight daily (30+ people watched) and everyone always rooted for the other kid while I usually lost then I got homeschooled for the last year of elementary. In middle school I tried to make friends with the wrong group and I was too autistic so they started bullying me screaming my name in a mocking way every time they saw me everyone at school everyone knew they bullied me I only had 2 other friends at the time I'm still bros with them they're Real ones.

The fact that you actually had a good starting point and got ruined by looks and external factors is sad, the childhood forms who you become as an adult.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I can feel you. In elementary and middle school I was also the centre of attention in elementary me and another kid used to fight daily (30+ people watched) and everyone always rooted for the other kid while I usually lost then I got homeschooled for the last year of elementary. In middle school I tried to make friends with the wrong group and I was too autistic so they started bullying me screaming my name in a mocking way every time they saw me everyone at school everyone knew they bullied me I only had 2 other friends at the time I'm still bros with them they're Real ones.

That's fucked man. Sorry to hear that. Happy to hear you have 2 long-lasting friends at least. A lot of people don't have that, cherish this.

Sometimes I feel sad about the past like: 'If only I had beaten up my bullies it would've stopped and I would've had a good life.' but it just doesn't work like that because I would've still been ugly and fat.
You are just a kid and extremely susceptible to outside factors in the end, especially from your own parents, that you have little to no self-agency.

Only in your teenage years, and young-adulthood, do you start developing self-agency, responsibility, etc. You slowly stop being reliant on your parents, authority figures, etc. But now you get to personally deal with all the trauma and personality-disorders you developed dealing with your shit childhood, your shitty parents and circumstances.
Things you never learned to deal with in a health way. Brutal.

The fact that you actually had a good starting point and got ruined by looks and external factors is sad, the childhood forms who you become as an adult.

I am increasingly uncertain whether it's even possible to 'turn your life around' in your 20s/30s when your childhood/teenage years were ruined/destroyed.

Like just one of many problems is that I walk around my university campus with the belief that nobody likes me and everyone is hostile towards me. This is 'normal' to me, something I learned from my past. I automatically assume people don't like me so I avoid social interaction.

I have worked a lot towards improving my social interactions with others, yet it was never able to overcome and change this idea of 'nobody liking me', it seems to be deeply rooted in my brain.

Fuck man.

 

[Litekiller11]

I was bullied heavily for being 4'11 in 16
Also the years past them

 

[General Alek]

the most common way they bullied me was by telling me I had no friends

 

[Michael-Davis]

In high school, short stature is the main common attribute among those who suffer from being bullied.

 

[Esteban1997]

I was bullied because i was the quiet kid but for some reason i was popular at the same time

 

[mob477]

Middle school i was pushed around a lot (mainly cuz I was built like a twig and the 8th graders were like 6 foot ) but i was mainly picked on cuz I acted heavily autistic

It stopped when I befriended this one gl kid who I stole his whole personality and mimicked his speech patterns and slang. I’ve been able to larp NT ever since

 

[PeakIncels]

I was my whole life then I NTmaxed and it stopped

I got bullied during elementary a lot, in middle school I was just shy and minded my business with my friend group of 4, pretty boring, in all honesty I was prolly bullied for my looks or idk, I was nd asf too

 

[Deleted member 77954]

That's fucked man. Sorry to hear that. Happy to hear you have 2 long-lasting friends at least. A lot of people don't have that, cherish this.

Sometimes I feel sad about the past like: 'If only I had beaten up my bullies it would've stopped and I would've had a good life.' but it just doesn't work like that because I would've still been ugly and fat.
You are just a kid and extremely susceptible to outside factors in the end, especially from your own parents, that you have little to no self-agency.

Only in your teenage years, and young-adulthood, do you start developing self-agency, responsibility, etc. You slowly stop being reliant on your parents, authority figures, etc. But now you get to personally deal with all the trauma and personality-disorders you developed dealing with your shit childhood, your shitty parents and circumstances.
Things you never learned to deal with in a health way. Brutal.

I am increasingly uncertain whether it's even possible to 'turn your life around' in your 20s/30s when your childhood/teenage years were ruined/destroyed.

Like just one of many problems is that I walk around my university campus with the belief that nobody likes me and everyone is hostile towards me. This is 'normal' to me, something I learned from my past. I automatically assume people don't like me so I avoid social interaction.

I have worked a lot towards improving my social interactions with others, yet it was never able to overcome and change this idea of 'nobody liking me', it seems to be deeply rooted in my brain.

Fuck man.

I'm really grateful for my 2 friends I still have from those years
You should focus on your mental health do things you enjoy and if there's anything good about your childhood you did like a hobby that makes you feel nostalgic. For me personally it's being out in nature without my phone, swimming in a lake several kilometers out in the forest where there's no one else.good luck on your life man

 

[The Grinch]

Never in my life have I been bullied in real life

 

[Deleted member 77954]

I was bullied heavily for being 4'11 in 16
Also the years past them

I'm sorry man, a guy at my school gets bullied for being 5'7 people call him mini Pekka and short and the girls say he will have a hard time getting a gf cause it looks weird standing next to him

the most common way they bullied me was by telling me I had no friends

Sad, I hope you tried to make some

In high school, short stature is the main common attribute among those who suffer from being bullied.

It's common but not the most common way, more common to bully people for their weight and autism

Middle school i was pushed around a lot (mainly cuz I was built like a twig and the 8th graders were like 6 foot ) but i was mainly picked on cuz I acted heavily autistic

It stopped when I befriended this one gl kid who I stole his whole personality and mimicked his speech patterns and slang. I’ve been able to larp NT ever since

Great job, i did a similar thing just a mix with more kids so people won't point out that you are basically the same as that one guy, was hard to larp in the beginning but have larped NT for over 6 months now and it's getting more and more natural

I got bullied during elementary a lot, in middle school I was just shy and minded my business with my friend group of 4, pretty boring, in all honesty I was prolly bullied for my looks or idk, I was nd asf too

Tbh better to be invisible than bullied I had an invisible year in middle school and it was alot better than being bullied

Never in my life have I been bullied in real life

Lucky

 

[Michael-Davis]

It's common but not the most common way, more common to bully people for their weight and autism

It may differ, however, those types of bulling are mainly verbal and will never escalate to the level of being physically dominated and harmed and humiliated.

 

[PeakIncels]

I'm sorry man, a guy at my school gets bullied for being 5'7 people call him mini Pekka and short and the girls say he will have a hard time getting a gf cause it looks weird standing next to him

Sad, I hope you tried to make some

It's common but not the most common way, more common to bully people for their weight and autism

Great job, i did a similar thing just a mix with more kids so people won't point out that you are basically the same as that one guy, was hard to larp in the beginning but have larped NT for over 6 months now and it's getting more and more natural

Tbh better to be invisible than bullied I had an invisible year in middle school and it was alot better than being bullied

Lucky

true, better being invisible than bullied, wise

 

[Deleted member 77954]

It may differ, however, those types of bulling are mainly verbal and will never escalate to the level of being physically dominated and harmed and humiliated.

I've personally never been beaten up because of bullying. I only think you will be if you're aggressive back against the bullies and take the first punch. I always thought of doing it but pussied out cause there were 20+ of them and I'd probably get beaten up hard

 

[Juandigomigo22]

I was my whole life then I NTmaxed and it stopped

Cuz my dick was too big, it would hang out my pants n shit

 

[Michael-Davis]

I've personally never been beaten up because of bullying. I only think you will be if you're aggressive back against the bullies and take the first punch. I always thought of doing it but pussied out cause there were 20+ of them and I'd probably get beaten up hard

Bullies are insecure individual who feed off of receiving attention and dominating others.
One could simply ignore them, granted that he is physically seen as a threat.

 

[Deleted member 77954]

Bullies are insecure individual who feed off of attention and dominating others.
One could simply ignore them, granted that he is physically seen as a threat.

Bullies are mostly NT, good looking and physically big (tall and bulky) they definitely don't struggle the way us incels and autists do but they may have some personal mental problems or family problems but overall they definitely life mog. The guys that bullied me were the popular guys that was mostly GL people they partied and slayed alot.

 

[Michael-Davis]

Bullies are mostly NT, good looking and physically big (tall and bulky) they definitely don't struggle the way us incels and autists do but they may have some personal mental problems or family problems but overall they definitely life mog. The guys that bullied me were the popular guys that was mostly GL people they partied and slayed alot.

Interesting, I have never seen such bullies in my personal life‌, such guys in my high-school could care less about bulling incels or autists.

 

[Michael-Davis]

Bullies are mostly NT, good looking and physically big (tall and bulky) they definitely don't struggle the way us incels and autists do but they may have some personal mental problems or family problems but overall they definitely life mog. The guys that bullied me were the popular guys that was mostly GL people they partied and slayed alot.

Bulling is a part of human nature, and all men are born as bullies granted if they are at the top of the genetic hierarchy.
It is a deliberate attempt to eradicate genetic failures and lower the mating competition.

 

[6ft4majesticincel]

I was my whole life then I NTmaxed and it stopped

i was the short fat nerd kid

 

[ElTruecel]

In high school, short stature is the main common attribute among those who suffer from being bullied.

No it isnt muh feel bad for manlets. Yea average manlet can go fuck emselves have you ever actually been around pesky manlets. These little gremlins are annoying and disrespectful as fuck irl I remember this 1 MANLET gook at work when I was 15-16 who’d project calling me short. I was about 3 inches taller than this gook.

Bullies are mostly NT, good looking and physically big (tall and bulky)

No they’re not stop watching HS movies. Stereotypical Bullies are rarely even common irl but most of the time it’s not this.

the most common way they bullied me was by telling me I had no friends

Just seems like you got disrespected. Most of us aspies just get disrespected or jestermaxx in social circles. Actual bullying isn’t common though idk who would unironically let themselves get physically abused

 

[Michael-Davis]

No it isnt muh feel bad for manlets. Yea average manlet can go fuck emselves have you ever actually been around pesky manlets. These little gremlins are annoying and disrespectful as fuck irl I remember this 1 MANLET gook at work when I was 15-16 who’d project calling me short. I was about 3 inches taller than this gook.

Yes, such men have been treated like powerless children all their life and have developed extreme insecurities and mental illnesses, hence why their company seems to be the worst.

 

[Deleted member 77954]

Bulling is a part of human nature, all men are born as bullies granted if they are at the top of the genetic hierarchy since it is an attempt to eradicate genetic failures and to also lower the competition.

That's quite sad, I need to become good looking to survive I still get comments on my looks although I'm not bullied anymore


(I've claimed to be decent looking in the past and I was wrong)

i was the short fat nerd kid

You're 6'4 or larping?

No they’re not stop watching HS movies. Stereotypical Bullies are rarely even common irl but most of the time it’s not this.

I'm talking about the guys bullying me they are good looking and get girls

 

[ElTruecel]

Yes, such men have been treated like powerless children all their life and have developed extreme insecurities and mental illnesses, hence why their company seems to be the worst.

This is cope. Manlets aren’t uncommon in hs nor are they necessarily losers.

Only the sperg non NT types tend to really care about their height or really short ones

 

[Deleted member 31971]

I was autist

 

[ElTruecel]

I'm talking about the guys bullying me they are good looking and get girls

if I were you I would’ve massacred their families and then tortured them

 

[Deleted member 77954]

This is cope. Manlets aren’t uncommon in hs nor are they necessarily losers.

Only the sperg non NT types tend to really care about their height or really short ones

If you're below 170cm people tend to bully you for your height especially if you're cocky and loud

if I were you I would’ve massacred their families and then tortured them

I'm not a sociopath

 

[Akhi]

i was the guy who bullied others

 

[Deleted member 77954]

i was the guy who bullied others

Why did you bully?

 

[Akhi]

Why did you bully?

the guys who allowed people to bully them.

 

[Deleted member 77954]

the guys who allowed people to bully them.

Wdym allowed to be bullied?

 

[Akhi]

Wdym allowed to be bullied?

people dont keep on bullying people that defend themselves (be it verbally or physically)

 

[Deleted member 77954]

people dont keep on bullying people that defend themselves (be it verbally or physically)

I tried to but it usually made things worse probably cause I may have mild autism. But still why do you feel the need of bullying people that don't defend themselves?

 

[aerooooo]

I was my whole life then I NTmaxed and it stopped

i never got bullied

 

[6ft4majesticincel]

That's quite sad, I need to become good looking to survive I still get comments on my looks although I'm not bullied anymore


(I've claimed to be decent looking in the past and I was wrong)

You're 6'4 or larping?


I'm talking about the guys bullying me they are good looking and get girls

im 6ft4 now yes, i had a late puberty i think i might reach 6ft5 considering my grandpa was 6ff7

 

[Akhi]

I tried to but it usually made things worse probably cause I may have mild autism. But still why do you feel the need of bullying people that don't defend themselves?

its not something you do consciously as a kid

i mean your aware of it but back then i didnt have that much remorse

obviously i regret it nowadays

 

[Deleted member 75035]

I was my whole life then I NTmaxed and it stopped

was always left out and not rlly cared abt or involved such as going out w friends cuz was fat and short, proud to say all those "friends" i used to talk to get mogged on the daily