Why am I a social retard

[easternpill]

Im always trying to act nonchalant and serious when im with new people or just people that I know but im not really close with. I never goof around it’s almost like im another person with them compared to my day ones and I hate it
Im kinda not like myself

 

[CertifiedGoy]

I think everyone is similar to that

 

[snuswarrior]

Why would you want to act like a goof with people you barely know

 

[iamaincel]

Im always trying to act nonchalant and serious when im with new people or just people that I know but im not really close with. I never goof around it’s almost like im another person with them compared to my day ones and I hate it

everyones like that ds

 

[easternpill]

Why would you want to act like a goof with people you barely know

I just never like joke around, I’m basically not myself

 

[easternpill]

To everyone say that’s how everyone is. I don’t think so cuz I’m not even myself atp i Think im trying too hard

 

[Deleted member 76506]

Im always trying to act nonchalant and serious when im with new people or just people that I know but im not really close with. I never goof around it’s almost like im another person with them compared to my day ones and I hate it
Im kinda not like myself

im lowkey the same but recently ive been more like happy with people instead of non chalant like smiling more while talking and its made interactions way better icl

 

[easternpill]

im lowkey the same but recently ive been more like happy with people instead of non chalant like smiling more while talking and its made interactions way better icl

I have a natural resting face where I look sad or some people even say mad

 

[Deleted member 76506]

I have a natural resting face where I look sad or some people even say mad

yeah u gotta change that like force it to be more happy but not too much

 

[easternpill]

yeah u gotta change that like force it to be more happy but not too much

This how I look resting my face

 

[Deleted member 76506]

This how I look resting my face

grown out hair + get leaner and u would be a tiktok pretty boy

 

[freedommaxxer]

Acting nonchalant and serious makes u look like an insecure incel unless ur hmtn+, instead, try acting more relaxed, ask more questions, pretend youve known the person ur talking to for years

 

[easternpill]

Acting nonchalant and serious makes u look like an insecure incel unless ur hmtn+, instead, try acting more relaxed, ask more questions, pretend youve known the person ur talking to for years

Exactly that’s why I don’t like it

 

[easternpill]

grown out hair + get leaner and u would be a tiktok pretty boy

Why does everyone keep saying I should grow it out?its already very long imo but ye I gotta lean/debloat

 

[Deleted member 74902]

Im kinda not like myself

i feel like nobody is themselves
I mean i seek friends but when i see how they are, one becomes envious how fun they have. So you act or become like them but in reality you dont want to act like that.

 

[freedommaxxer]

Exactly that’s why I don’t like it

You look decent (questionable lightning)(could lean a bit) so ur face isn't THAT big of an issue. try some psychology methods, watched a youtube tutorial on how to keep conversations going a while back, they kind of sounded like a interview but its a great starting point

 

[easternpill]

You look decent (questionable lightning)(could lean a bit) so ur face isn't THAT big of an issue. try some psychology methods, watched a youtube tutorial on how to keep conversations going a while back, they kind of sounded like a interview but its a great starting point

I have good skills on how to have a convo and how to keep it going but the problem is me trying to act “cool”

 

[easternpill]

i feel like nobody is themselves
I mean i seek friends but when i see how they are, one becomes envious how fun they have. So you act or become like them but in reality you dont want to act like that.

Exactly and I kinda feel stuck because it’s har to find people like me

 

[Deleted member 74902]

Exactly and I kinda feel stuck because it’s har to find people like me

i have found people like me but u wanna be myself around them

 

[SoundnVision]

I have a natural resting face where I look sad or some people even say mad

Yeah most people that have that end up on here I'm the same

 

[easternpill]

Yeah most people that have that end up on here I'm the same

Twin🫩

 

[easternpill]

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[easternpill]

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[gimmedatacc]

your doing the right thing. trying to act goofy will make you look like a bigger retard