I wouldn’t know I never interact with women tbh.
when I look on Reddit groups most people who seem to complain about being pumped and dumped are white women between 24 - 35 who are washed up blaming it on their anxious attachment.
I mean a lot of these foids say they want an LTR from the get go even when they're young and the guy still pumps and dumps them.
I think it’s just whore personality. It all depends on upbringing, how many boys they had access to in school etc
and yet anxious attachment foids are the ones most desperate for an LTR.
yes and why is it 90% of the time they're anxious or fearful-avoidant?
Well, girls with attachment issues are normally clingy unless is the avoidant attachment syndrome, if you're reffering to that maybe that's the reason they can't get a man because they can't express feelings even if they want to
correct
Weirdly I've seen foids with the avoidant-dismissive attachment style in LTRs/marriages EVEN MORE so than anxious attachment foids.
Bpd whores
They must know their partner since a long time ago tbh, they are maybe really patient and comprehensive
I wonder why.
I mean the foids that do get commitment are either of a secure or dismissive avoidant attachment style. Rarely fearful avoidant or anxious, though these two types want LTRs the most.
Yeah, u would think it's contradictory but if they do have that disorder then it's actually rather sad, because expressing their feelings is not in their control, it's mostly because of lack of attention in childhood years
Who, the foids with anxious/fearful avoidant attachment style?
Yup, most men don't want to commit if they don't show feelings or are "cold" but you can't also tell them to be more comprehensive if they don't want lmao
well he right
no no, anxious attachment/fearful avoidant foids ALWAYS show feelings. Secure are more grounded, dismissive avoidant rarely show feelings. Yet Dismissives and Secures get commitment
anxious always are desperate for LTR but get pumped and dumped relentlessly.
Is normally avoidant's who don't show feelings and is a personality trait of that disorder being extremely cold, if they just are fearful of being alone or something they will show feelings, and a bit too much (clinginess)
correct. But even so avoidant foids still manage to get into LTRs and not so much anxious. I wonder why.
correct.
Tbh that's weird, stacylites can obviously slay but being in a ltr being cold is weird, unless the partner is extremely devoted or just another abused dog that doesn't want to be alone neither so he sticks with her
yeah I wonder why. Most foids I see with a dismissive avoidant attachment style are either Stacylite+ or LTB femcels
