Why are girls on dating apps so fucking weird?

[LongForgotten]

Seriously, I'm a decent HTN with some sexual experience. I'm 6+ft, muscular, 22 yo with a decent face and I do good when I go out clubbing. On Bumble I get plenty of likes, matches and even have girls occasionaly hitting on me... using pickup lines or women 10 years older matching me.

Then like a day later the same girls that were hitting on me, acting hella flirtatious suddenly switch up as soon as you propose a date or try to escelate things even a tad. Just today matched with a thick 30 year old lightskin girl with a massive ass and I asked her what she'd like to do with a guy my age, to which she replied: "Share my experience and knowledge ". 15 min later when I didn't reply yet she unmatched me. WTF?

It seems like most girls on dating apps are only there for 2 reasons:
1: Boredom/Fast validation.
Simply curious and as soon as they know they can have something and get to the point of planning a date, they get nervous and autistic and decide to end contact.
2. Chad, chad and chad.
They simply go for the best guy and she could even like you, but a guy 10cm taller or better looking came along.

Ngl I've never been closer to booking a hooker, at the end of the day you're paying one way or another anyway.

 

[Suns9999]

you are just too handsome for the apps bro!

 

[Amnesia]

@ascension124

There’s a reason women write in their tinder bio “This is my favorite game in the App Store”

They view is as not serious and just something to harvest validation from and flirt with guys for entertainment and no real intention of meeting up

OP same thing happens to a lot of guys on here.

 

[Esky1911]

Mogs me. Anyway, if you're looking for more success, I do believe irl is better than tinder.

I can't explain how it works but it'll increase your success

 

[Esky1911]

you are just too handsome for the apps bro!

How about me?

 

[LongForgotten]

you are just too handsome for the apps bro!

Nowhere did I say that, it just highlights how even above average ppl have a hard time on there. I'm not saying its impossible and I have 2 dates planned this week. But most girls on there are just there for bullshit.

 

[LongForgotten]

@ascension124

There’s a reason women write in their tinder bio “This is my favorite game in the App Store”

They view is as not serious and just something to harvest validation from and flirt with guys for entertainment and no real intention of meeting up

OP same thing happens to a lot of guys on here.

If you say that then it's 100% true. It's even more annoying when it was a chick you were actually planning to smash

 

[Suns9999]

How about me?

yeah esky you’re good

 

[Amnesia]

If you say that then it's 100% true. It's even more annoying when it was a chick you were actually planning to smash

It's happened to me and others on this site. Even girls who message first and are like "omggg ur so hot" and then by the 8th line of exchange ur not getting any response. Or u DO get their snap and they still are glazing u, but when u offer a hangout time and date its "oh I'm busy or I have work that day" and it fizzles

OR

u actually set a date and time and on that day ur left on delivered or canceled on last minutes

literally has happened a hundred times over the years to me. I used to setup 3 dates in one night off apps KNOWING at least 2 or even all will flake.

 

[LongForgotten]

It's happened to me and others on this site. Even girls who message first and are like "omggg ur so hot" and then by the 8th line of exchange ur not getting any response. Or u DO get their snap and they still are glazing u, but when u offer a hangout time and date its "oh I'm busy or I have work that day" and it fizzles

OR

u actually set a date and time and on that day ur left on delivered or canceled on last minutes

literally has happened a hundred times over the years to me. I used to setup 3 dates in one night off apps KNOWING at least 2 or even all will flake.

What did you do if all 3 were available?

 

[Whatever]

Same thing happens to me boyo, and to make matters worse it’s always girls that are my exact type (high FWHR blondes) doing it, got one just yesterday. And I’ve never gotten an actual date off the apps so this is all I know of them, it’s legit torture.

 

[Daddy's Home]

Same thing happens to me boyo, and to make matters worse it’s always girls that are my exact type (high FWHR blondes) doing it, got one just yesterday. And I’ve never gotten an actual date off the apps so this is all I know of them, it’s legit torture.

I usually make fake stacys accounts on such apps.. (I should make a separate thread about this)

Once out of boredom, 2nd because I like to see how I give these guys hope and then for me to see them crumbling after I flip the switch, and 3rd to test the waters to see the average men this days on how ''capable'' they are both as flirting, as well as having shit going on in their lives so they can convince a foid that they are the right men for them (basically I'm curious what happens and how an average guy react when the girl of his dreams actually swipe right on him, even talks to him proactively, and even is interested in his life and a possible relationship or sex)

The results were pretty disastrous, and I can say that 99% of guys on such apps deserve their fate (so it doesn't surprise me why average foids approach these apps the way they do)

Most of them can't even spell correctly. They have 0 rizz or general intellectual ability to keep the conversation interesting. Their personal life is total shit, they're usually poor to very poor, they have subhuman hobbies, and many of them even think that their shitty activities might be interesting for foids..

It's definitely over for the average guy in 2025..

 

[Puff Daddy]

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“Muh cAtZ” “Muh sEx tOyZ”

Imagine the backlash if a guy said pocket pussy > modern women JFL

 

[qazw]

Seriously, I'm a decent HTN with some sexual experience. I'm 6+ft, muscular, 22 yo with a decent face and I do good when I go out clubbing. On Bumble I get plenty of likes, matches and even have girls occasionaly hitting on me... using pickup lines or women 10 years older matching me.

Then like a day later the same girls that were hitting on me, acting hella flirtatious suddenly switch up as soon as you propose a date or try to escelate things even a tad. Just today matched with a thick 30 year old lightskin girl with a massive ass and I asked her what she'd like to do with a guy my age, to which she replied: "Share my experience and knowledge ". 15 min later when I didn't reply yet she unmatched me. WTF?

It seems like most girls on dating apps are only there for 2 reasons:
1: Boredom/Fast validation.
Simply curious and as soon as they know they can have something and get to the point of planning a date, they get nervous and autistic and decide to end contact.
2. Chad, chad and chad.
They simply go for the best guy and she could even like you, but a guy 10cm taller or better looking came along.

Ngl I've never been closer to booking a hooker, at the end of the day you're paying one way or another anyway.

Some girls on the apps expect to text for weeks before meeting to go on a date

 

[Whatever]

I usually make fake stacys accounts on such apps.. (I should make a separate thread about this)

Once out of boredom, 2nd because I like to see how I give these guys hope and then for me to see them crumbling after I flip the switch, and 3rd to test the waters to see the average men this days on how ''capable'' they are both as flirting, as well as having shit going on in their lives so they can convince a foid that they are the right men for them (basically I'm curious what happens and how an average guy react when the girl of his dreams actually swipe right on him, even talks to him proactively, and even is interested in his life and a possible relationship or sex)

The results were pretty disastrous, and I can say that 99% of guys on such apps deserve their fate (so it doesn't surprise me why average foids approach these apps the way they do)

Most of them can't even spell correctly. They have 0 rizz or general intellectual ability to keep the conversation interesting. Their personal life is total shit, they're usually poor to very poor, they have subhuman hobbies, and many of them even think that their shitty activities might be interesting for foids..

It's definitely over for the average guy in 2025..

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The one yesterday messaged me “hey handsome” and then unmatched me an hour later, before I even got the chance to reply. Completely irrational behavior even for a fish or a bot, which I considered that it might’ve been, but no, I think this is just how people behave nowadays, these apps just drive everyone crazy, yourself included when you’re doing shit like that.

As a guy, you can’t win on the apps. If you’re good looking then you’re a player/fuckboy, if not you won’t get matches. If you go on about your hobbies they won’t give a shit, if you don’t they’ll think you lack substance. The apps are extremely unnatural so they have a toxic effect.

 

[Gargantuan]

No sane woman uses OLD. If she does, she's already dead weight.

 

[iblamericky]

meet women irl

 

[Amnesia]

meet women irl

 

[Shahnameh]

Most are genuinely autistic

 

[Suns9999]

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yo..

 

[Shahnameh]

yo..

Look at the pics of the girls i matched with

100% aspie stare

 

[WeiWei]

They hate the mog to which you expose them, Son.

 

[ascension124]

Seriously, I'm a decent HTN with some sexual experience. I'm 6+ft, muscular, 22 yo with a decent face and I do good when I go out clubbing. On Bumble I get plenty of likes, matches and even have girls occasionaly hitting on me... using pickup lines or women 10 years older matching me.

Then like a day later the same girls that were hitting on me, acting hella flirtatious suddenly switch up as soon as you propose a date or try to escelate things even a tad. Just today matched with a thick 30 year old lightskin girl with a massive ass and I asked her what she'd like to do with a guy my age, to which she replied: "Share my experience and knowledge ". 15 min later when I didn't reply yet she unmatched me. WTF?

It seems like most girls on dating apps are only there for 2 reasons:
1: Boredom/Fast validation.
Simply curious and as soon as they know they can have something and get to the point of planning a date, they get nervous and autistic and decide to end contact.
2. Chad, chad and chad.
They simply go for the best guy and she could even like you, but a guy 10cm taller or better looking came along.

Ngl I've never been closer to booking a hooker, at the end of the day you're paying one way or another anyway.

Words spoken from my own mouth. Your experience is identical to mine, when I try to propose a date many of them flake or stop responding even if they are very into the convo. Yeah I didn’t respond to a girl for a day and she unmatched me

 

[ascension124]

The one yesterday messaged me “hey handsome” and then unmatched me an hour later, before I even got the chance to reply. Completely irrational behavior even for a fish or a bot, which I considered that it might’ve been, but no, I think this is just how people behave nowadays, these apps just drive everyone crazy, yourself included when you’re doing shit like that.

As a guy, you can’t win on the apps. If you’re good looking then you’re a player/fuckboy, if not you won’t get matches. If you go on about your hobbies they won’t give a shit, if you don’t they’ll think you lack substance. The apps are extremely unnatural so they have a toxic effect.

Fuck these apps man wtf they’ve literally ruined dating