why are men usually attracted to girls that look similar to them?

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is it something to do with familiarity and compatibility, or is there some crazy biological backing to this? if so, why is this not the case for all men?

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for example, im not really attracted to blondes, or black girls. or women with dark coloured eyes as much as i am attracted to brunettes. all my previous girlfriends were brunette
 
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is it something to do with familiarity and compatibility, or is there some crazy biological backing to this? if so, why is this not the case for all men?

@EvilSatanArseRapist @satangoy @PSLbbc @xzylecrey @barambo
Incest
 
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some philosopher once said this idk who
 
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Idrk what you mean but i think i heard zherka say something like guys like girls who look similar to their mothers or something.
 
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Idrk what you mean but i think i heard zherka say something like guys like girls who look similar to their mothers or something.
like, i mean. most men are usually partners with girl that look like them. or have similar features / characteristics that match their own.

that's an interesting thought too
 
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something to do with familiarity and compatibility
Probably.

It's not the case for me tho tbh.
I think i could like some1 from every race aslong as they aren't black or too brown.
 
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Doubt
 
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I would litteraly sell my soul for my former oneitis but she doesn't look like me at all

She was pale and had very straight dark hair
 
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like, i mean. most men are usually partners with girl that look like them. or have similar features / characteristics that match their own.

that's an interesting thought too
Idk i dont think so but there could be patterns
 
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Probably.

It's not the case for me tho tbh.
I think i could like some1 from every race aslong as they aren't black or too brown.
fair enough tbh :owo:

i looked a bit more into it, and it's something called assortative mating, specifically positive assortative mating, whereby people preferentially choose partners who are similar to themselves :feelscry:
 
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I would litteraly sell my soul for my former oneitis but she doesn't look like me at all

She was pale and had very straight dark hair
fair enough man, i hope you find her again one day :FeelsLoveMan:
 
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is it something to do with familiarity and compatibility, or is there some crazy biological backing to this? if so, why is this not the case for all men?

@EvilSatanArseRapist @satangoy @PSLbbc @xzylecrey @barambo

for example, im not really attracted to blondes, or black girls. or women with dark coloured eyes as much as i am attracted to brunettes. all my previous girlfriends were brunette
I think it called genetic attraction
Thats why men who are in touch with their natural side are intensely attracted to their sisters.

I'm personally most attracted to girls with my same hair and eye color
 
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they want to fuck their sisters :eek:

but if i had to guess it's probably something to do with phenotypes and being attracted to what you've been accustomed to. it might also be based on the environment you're born in. if you're some white bwoi but you're born into a black neighbourhood you might grow up with a stronger preference for the sheboons.
 
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fair enough man, i hope you find her again one day :FeelsLoveMan:
Oh I know where she at it's just that she hates me we used to be good friends
 
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is it something to do with familiarity and compatibility, or is there some crazy biological backing to this? if so, why is this not the case for all men?

@EvilSatanArseRapist @satangoy @PSLbbc @xzylecrey @barambo

for example, im not really attracted to blondes, or black girls. or women with dark coloured eyes as much as i am attracted to brunettes. all my previous girlfriends were brunette
Because looksmatch is law
 
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why does she hate you
Idk, I may have an idea on why but it's still weird to me

I would still kill for that hoe tho
 
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because we are narcy
 
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is it something to do with familiarity and compatibility, or is there some crazy biological backing to this? if so, why is this not the case for all men?

@EvilSatanArseRapist @satangoy @PSLbbc @xzylecrey @barambo

for example, im not really attracted to blondes, or black girls. or women with dark coloured eyes as much as i am attracted to brunettes. all my previous girlfriends were brunette
hmmmm honestly bro I absolutely get ur statement and allat but I don't know how to react really I've just now realized this might be a true and real event :bigbrain: but it might be that when you keep seeing urself in the mirror and your family with similar genetic traits you subconsciously treat those traits as the ones that are closest to you or some shit like that idk if I'm making sense :forcedsmile: anyway you get used to those genetic set of features and treat them like "home" i guess i don't even know how to put this into words hope I'm making somewhat sense but basically the familiarity principle which brings comfort which makes you pick what ur similar too
 
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is it something to do with familiarity and compatibility, or is there some crazy biological backing to this? if so, why is this not the case for all men?

@EvilSatanArseRapist @satangoy @PSLbbc @xzylecrey @barambo

for example, im not really attracted to blondes, or black girls. or women with dark coloured eyes as much as i am attracted to brunettes. all my previous girlfriends were brunette
I think its just natural

You would reproduce with your tribe in nature
You grew up around these girls so its what you are used to and what you desire
 
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hmmmm honestly bro I absolutely get ur statement and allat but I don't know how to react really I've just now realized this might be a true and real event :bigbrain: but it might be that when you keep seeing urself in the mirror and your family with similar genetic traits you subconsciously treat those traits as the ones that are closest to you or some shit like that idk if I'm making sense :forcedsmile: anyway you get used to those genetic set of features and treat them like "home" i guess i don't even know how to put this into words hope I'm making somewhat sense but basically the familiarity principle which brings comfort which makes you pick what ur similar too
yeahhh that makes a lot of sense. probably just bcs it's family so we automatically assumed that it's good, and therefore attractive :feelscry:
 
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