why are so many chads social autists irl?

[ripcordgod1]

every single chad i met irl is socially awkward af despite all the attention and love they get from everyone
they keep to themselves and conversate but are never really outgoing or loud
only the normies are the extroverts
whats up with that?

 

[looksmidder]

tbh its probably because they don't really need to a lot of the time, people just talk to them and carry the conversation bc of how good looking they are so they prob never had a chance to really learn how to talk to people

 

[volcelfatcel]

they aren't.

 

[FlyingElephant]

every single chad i met irl is socially awkward af despite all the attention and love they get from everyone
they keep to themselves and conversate but are never really outgoing or loud
only the normies are the extroverts
whats up with that?

I don't know where u are based, but personally here (Northern Italy) does not work like that.

 

[Foreverbrad]

This is normal socialisation.

Normies overcompensate to try and assert social dominance

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Cope.

 

[Yuno_howitez]

What? I’ve never seen this happen. Only ugly guys i’ve seen are awkward as fuck and stutter and shit

 

[Deleted member 20370]

another strange chad is autistic thread

 

[Deleted member 24940]

This is normal socialisation.

Normies overcompensate to try and assert social dominance

It's not overcompensating, it's just compensating.

Of course the 6'3 goodlooking guy doesn't have to develop charisma or learn how to carry a conversation, girls do it for him. Meanwhile average guys and manlets will literally be invisible and have no friends if they do not develop extroverted social skills and jestermaxx.

Every job or friend group I've been in has had super funny extroverted manlets and quiet laid back introverted chads. Of course even with this dry personality Chads still slayed, but sometimes the funny manlets got gfs via jestermaxxing.

 

[potentialzaddy]

as htn i have no social skills and the looks kind of wear off after a while i feel like girls realise im boring and retarded after a few weeks and move on

 

[ripcordgod1]

as htn i have no social skills and the looks kind of wear off after a while i feel like girls realise im boring and retarded after a few weeks and move on

vibes

 

[Pei]

every single chad i met irl is socially awkward af despite all the attention and love they get from everyone
they keep to themselves and conversate but are never really outgoing or loud
only the normies are the extroverts
whats up with that?

Because there’s a correlation between having autism and good facial bones.

 

[Deleted member 22381]

Never had to try much + your looks are your social skills

 

[Gandy]

This is normal socialisation.

Normies overcompensate to try and assert social dominance

I notice this too.

It's the average or ugly guys who try very hard to be "extremely social" to make up for their looks.

Model tier guys don't have to try that hard, they can just be themselves and talk when they have something to say.
They don't need to be grinning, laughing or jestering all the time.

It has nothing to do with autism. If anything, slightly autistic "normals" overcompensate too hard with jestering.

 

[badamj]

A lot of chads/Chadlites are chill, but they are usually clueless about how much their looks carry. I would guess that normal socialization looks like that, a calm but capable person. Not this over the top, zany shit we see from normies now

 

[VenatorLuparius]

Go ask Amnesia lol.

 

[sketchybusiness55]

I've thought about this a lot and here's your answer.

Some people are born with introverted brains and some people are born with extroverted brains. The people with extroverted brains try to get accepted by others. Of this bunch, the people who are good looking easily fit in while the people who are ugly don't easily fit in. Therefore, the people who are ugly have to compensate with a good personality and a charismatic attitude.

That's why you hear the common joke - the funny ugly kid who glows up and becomes a PSL god.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

I notice this too.
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It's the average or ugly guys who try very hard to be "extremely social" to make up for their looks.

Model tier guys don't have to try that hard, they can just be themselves and talk when they have something to say.
They don't need to be grinning, laughing or jestering all the time.

It has nothing to do with autism. If anything, slightly autistic "normals" overcompensate too hard with jestering.

I still disagree with the concept that they are "overcompensating". What is a 5'6 manlet supposed to do other than be the loud funny class clown and jestermaxx? He will get zero attention otherwise.

Yes it's sad that he has to grovel and beg for the same social treatment that Chad gets standing in the corner quietly doing nothing, but the manlet or ugly guy still has to do something and bring some value to the group unless he wants to be miserable, depressed, and alone.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

I've thought about this a lot and here's your answer.

Some people are born with introverted brains and some people are born with extroverted brains. The people with extroverted brains try to get accepted by others. Of this bunch, the people who are good looking easily fit in while the people who are ugly don't easily fit in. Therefore, the people who are ugly have to compensate with a good personality and a charismatic attitude.

That's why you hear the common joke - the funny ugly kid who glows up and becomes a PSL god.

Concepts like Introvert and extrovert are cope. There's only confident people, and neurotic shy people with social anxiety.

No one actually wants to be alone, sitting in their room reading books. Everyone wants to be popular and have a cool friend group to go out and do shit with.

 

[sketchybusiness55]

Concepts like Introvert and extrovert are cope. There's only confident people, and neurotic shy people with social anxiety.

No one actually wants to be alone, sitting in their room reading books. Everyone wants to be popular and have a cool friend group to go out and do shit with.

didn't think of it like this, thanks.

 

[klamus]

I havent noticed this. Sure Chads might not be the most social person in the room but they tend to be somewhere in the middle. Chad are very based though, they arent ashamed of making nazi jokes if the situation calls for it