Why are so many metalheads ugly and sexless?

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Let me say that i don't hate heavy metal, i listen to some bands. But i've never seen so many unwashed, unkempt, ugly fat dudes as i have at a heavy metal concert.

Also, it seems like the metal community has the smallest amount of hot women.

So my theory is: Heavy metal attracts social outcasts. And those social outcasts became social outcasts in the first place partly BECAUSE of their bad looks.

Thoughts?
 
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Let me say that i don't hate heavy metal, i listen to some bands. But i've never seen so many unwashed, unkempt, ugly fat dudes as i have at a heavy metal concert.

Also, it seems like the metal community has the smallest amount of hot women.

So my theory is: Heavy metal attracts social outcasts. And those social outcasts became social outcasts in the first place partly BECAUSE of their bad looks.

Thoughts?
Me I like metal, punk and goth music.
Yes social outcasts gather there.
It's the most non NT music full of ugly people, the only group who has decent looking women are darkwave/post punk but it's mostly because they're mentally ill or depressed.
 
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Same reason why ugly af dudes gravitate towards marvel movies, nintendo, and reddit

Their brains guide them to copes society is comfortable with them having

That’s why women are turned on by red flags like
sex addicts, and drinking/ partiers

You have to meet a certain looks threshold to be allowed to have those pursuits
 
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I went to a metal type of show and they were many tall guys and even tall women. I was one of the shortest guys there at 5'10" and also the ugliest guy there.
 
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I went to a metal type of show and they were many tall guys and even tall women. I was one of the shortest guys there at 5'10" and also the ugliest guy there.
There are a lot of tall metal heads tho you are right about that

I know one person that is heavy into metal and he’s 6’4
 
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There are a lot of tall metal heads tho you are right about that

I know one person that is heavy into metal and he’s 6’4
I even saw women who were between 6'0" and 6'2", it's crazy.
 
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I even saw women who were between 6'0" and 6'2", it's crazy.
Yeah very keen observation

It’s always something I’ve kinda noticed too in the back of my head but I never verbalized it
 
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I think it's because heavy metal is stereotypically a "manly" thing, most songs are about violence, alcohol, driving, sex (I have old school metal in my mind right now) So therefore it type of music that average person would not relate to. Also I have noticed that listeners to said genre tend to act anarchistic, so wearing proper clothes, groomed hairs, self care are big no for them so they choose to be outstanding from society.

Just look at the band "tankard" do you think that fans won't look similiar to them since they share same views and thoughts?
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Beside how band members looks like, see how metal covers look like
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It's something that will scare off normies since is often showing vulgar images or meaning which mean it only apeal for "manly" audience
 
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They're just like me
 
Heavy metal attracts social outcasts. And those social outcasts became social outcasts in the first place partly BECAUSE of their bad looks.
You answered your own question.
 
For sexless part I can say that times have changed and modern women aren't that attracted to those kind of rebel dirt men anymore. Most metal fans are boomers who settled down now and young fans of metal don't much with said aesthetic anymore, they are more nerdy, shy kid type looking
 
Let me say that i don't hate heavy metal, i listen to some bands. But i've never seen so many unwashed, unkempt, ugly fat dudes as i have at a heavy metal concert.

Also, it seems like the metal community has the smallest amount of hot women.

So my theory is: Heavy metal attracts social outcasts. And those social outcasts became social outcasts in the first place partly BECAUSE of their bad looks.

Thoughts?
Well said. I made a thread on this just now
 
There are a lot of tall metal heads tho you are right about that

I know one person that is heavy into metal and he’s 6’4
Tall, but never GL
 
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@Always Stay You EDM and hip hop tend to have more GL white males in the fanbase
 
@Always Stay You EDM and hip hop tend to have more GL white males in the fanbase
Yeah they do, especially EDM. When I imagine an EDM/techno fan I imagine a high-class, NT guy who looks Dutch and has a good hair
 
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Yeah they do, especially EDM. When I imagine an EDM/techno fan I imagine a high-class, NT guy who looks Dutch and has a good hair
I've also noticed that the better-looking the male, the more juvenile, baby bat or non-existent his rock music tastes are.
Wonder if that's why some alt women don't end up with GL men.
 
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Let me say that i don't hate heavy metal, i listen to some bands. But i've never seen so many unwashed, unkempt, ugly fat dudes as i have at a heavy metal concert.
I've seen few of them in my life time. All looked like ogres. Basically pic related

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Also, it seems like the metal community has the smallest amount of hot women.

It's not mainstream. Barely anyone listens to it.
 
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cuz its cringe music

meanwhile avg edm enjoyer

 
metalheads are some of the ugliest, smelliest subhumans alive and they have a BAD music taste
 
Because Metal was popular in the 80s and seen as rebellious, since then most fans have aged up and its now seen as a boomers choice of music
 
I have never met an incel one and the nerd kids were never into any kind of rock subculture.
Incels are generally "people pleasers" so not into this kind of subculture.
 
Let me say that i don't hate heavy metal, i listen to some bands. But i've never seen so many unwashed, unkempt, ugly fat dudes as i have at a heavy metal concert.

Also, it seems like the metal community has the smallest amount of hot women.

So my theory is: Heavy metal attracts social outcasts. And those social outcasts became social outcasts in the first place partly BECAUSE of their bad looks.

Thoughts?
 

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