Why are things shifting from clubs to online?

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Recently I have not been going to clubs as much because my results there went down compared to before. Before I could go to a bar and find a girl that was dtf and it was my only source of lays.

However now I’ve started to notice when going to bars girls are not looking to meet guys as much and it’s more socializing with friends. Now all my results are from OLD.

Do you think things are shifting to OLD or it’s the same? Is going to clubs to find hookups a waste of time? What has caused this change?
 
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This is for LTRs as well-

Imagine what the says for causal sex are!

Probs rare for people to hookup at all in bars these days
I rarely see people making out in bars nowadays
 
Yeah that's been my experience. I really wonder how @New Poster consistently pulls via approaching IRL. Must live in a city center where you'll always run into new ppl
 
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I rarely see people making out in bars nowadays
I’ve noticed it’s happening yes-

I thought it might be a UK phenomenon but seems it’s worldwide

I wouldn’t go as far as to say makeouts are rare , but it seems people only make out with their bfs or guys from social cirlce- for slaying random girls, online is the way
 
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I’ve noticed it’s happening yes-

I thought it might be a UK phenomenon but seems it’s worldwide

I wouldn’t go as far as to say makeouts are rare , but it seems people only make out with their bfs or guys from social cirlce- for slaying random girls, online is the way
Yeah that’s what I’m saying I don’t see random people making out etc
 
Yeah that's been my experience. I really wonder how @New Poster consistently pulls via approaching IRL. Must live in a city center where you'll always run into new ppl
OLD is big in cities
 
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Yeah that's been my experience. I really wonder how @New Poster consistently pulls via approaching IRL. Must live in a city center where you'll always run into new ppl
Also JFL at paying for drinks, waiting in lines, approaching many girls just to hookup. OLD can be done from your couch while watching Netflix
 
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Also JFL at paying for drinks, waiting in lines, approaching many girls just to hookup. OLD can be done from your couch while watching Netflix
I think @New Poster runs some organic version of daygame. My IRL slays have been prettier than my online slays, but you can't spam approach IRL. Very unreliable.
You get more traffic online but way more flakes
 
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Bc women don’t want to get approached from sub7 men in real life. They can just block them online
 
I think @New Poster runs some organic version of daygame. My IRL slays have been prettier than my online slays, but you can't spam approach IRL. Very unreliable.
You get more traffic online but way more flakes
Yeah I agree. Online is more flakey irl is better quality. I may still go to clubs but less often
 
I think @New Poster runs some organic version of daygame. My IRL slays have been prettier than my online slays, but you can't spam approach IRL. Very unreliable.
You get more traffic online but way more flakes
Daygame is a meme bro
 
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If you have more than one ball real life is the only way. You get prettier girls there, the numbers you get are worth more with nearly now flakes and you see how the girl really looks and acts. Online they look 2 numbers better than in real and are often boring and most of that, how many matches you turn into Sex? If you are extremely good maybe 20%. But in reality 5% or 10%
And in clubs the bitchshield is too high, they feel like the princes and you think you are cool to get the 5 or 10th drunk girl you approached that night in a dark place with 1kg of makeup
 
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Do you think things are shifting to OLD or it’s the same? Is going to clubs to find hookups a waste of time? What has caused this change?
more shift to old but going to clubs is still good for social interaction and using height and frame halo if you have it
old is just more easy to cherrypick good photos and like girls have it easier and can literally swipe away at who they want or dont want
 
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I’ve noticed it’s happening yes-

I thought it might be a UK phenomenon but seems it’s worldwide

I wouldn’t go as far as to say makeouts are rare , but it seems people only make out with their bfs or guys from social cirlce- for slaying random girls, online is the way
Clubbing after university is dead tbh covid kind of killed the clubbing scene and krs not bounced back since
 
People have become introvert and anti social since covid
 
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it's not that OLD is taking over the bar scene, it's that the every scene is sinking: girls are getting less interested in guys.
 
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I’ve seen amnesia say this too
 
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Yeah that's been my experience. I really wonder how @New Poster consistently pulls via approaching IRL. Must live in a city center where you'll always run into new ppl
You have to live in a city -- preferably near a major university -- within walking distance of some place where attractive girls go like a coffee shop. I've been in buttfuck nowhere places, and, yeah, cold approach is a meme there. In little towns the average age is like 52 and no one goes outside. You need to live somewhere with a constant flow of young attractive women. If not, just kill yourself because then you're competing with gigachads on social media. Fuck that. Just get a place near hot girls and approach.
 
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You have to live in a city -- preferably near a major university -- within walking distance of some place where attractive girls go like a coffee shop. I've been in buttfuck nowhere places, and, yeah, cold approach is a meme there. In little towns the average age is like 52 and no one goes outside. You need to live somewhere with a constant flow of young attractive women. If not, just kill yourself because then you're competing with gigachads on social media. Fuck that. Just get a place near hot girls and approach.
Laycount?
 
Its been this way for years. Corona cemented it
 
because most people prefer things stripped down to their essence. online is to real life as strawberry candy is to an actual strawberry, or something along those lines. it's like calorically dense, except whatever the social equivalent to calories is. it's why most people prefer TV to books. ultimately it probably has something to do with conserving energy. that's why people prefer a rule you can apply across the board rather than dealing with things on a case by case basis. it's why retards here are always arguing over what's more important, this or that because they want to establish a rule in order to save time thinking about shit
 
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because most people prefer things stripped down to their essence. online is to real life as strawberry candy is to an actual strawberry, or something along those lines. it's like calorically dense, except whatever the social equivalent to calories is. it's why most people prefer TV to books. ultimately it probably has something to do with conserving energy. that's why people prefer a rule you can apply across the board rather than dealing with things on a case by case basis. it's why retards here are always arguing over what's more important, this or that because they want to establish a rule in order to save time thinking about shit
Very smart take
 

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