Why are women so off putted by men that don’t like to socialize

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Women get so offended when you don’t act friendly and chirpy if they’re giving you that energy

And normies love to be fake nice then talk shit when the person leaves. Why not just cut through the bullshit and be upfront? If you don’t like someone, don’t socialize with them. That’s how grown adults with backbones should act

Years ago I used to deliver packages, I dropped it off at this house with the front door open. I hear some white women, probably in her 30’s, calling out “thank you!”. I didn’t respond. As I’m taking a pic of the package, I hear her yell thank you again but more aggressively. Still don’t respond. As I’m leaving, she yells it a third time with a rude tone.

Bitch, I delivered your package and you thanked me for it. That’s the end of the transaction. Life is not LazyTown or a fucking commercial. You’re not owed a cherpy “You’re welcome!” from a grown man
 
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Women get so offended when you don’t act friendly and chirpy if they’re giving you that energy

And normies love to be fake nice then talk shit when the person leaves. Why not just cut through the bullshit and be upfront? If you don’t like someone, don’t socialize with them. That’s how grown adults with backbones should act

Years ago I used to deliver packages, I dropped it off at this house with the front door open. I hear some white women, probably in her 30’s, calling out “thank you!”. I didn’t respond. As I’m taking a pic of the package, I hear her yell thank you again but more aggressively. Still don’t respond. As I’m leaving, she yells it a third time with a rude tone.

Bitch, I delivered your package and you thanked me for it. That’s the end of the transaction. Life is not LazyTown or a fucking commercial. You’re not owed a cherpy “You’re welcome!” from a grown man

Why didn't you just acknowledge the toilet thanking you?

I do it not because I have to but maybe I might get a tip or lemonade or something?

It's zero effort, more or less, and sometimes they are just lonely foids.

Over if you don't see it that way and try to milk them for something.

A divorced woman in her 60s once gave me a branded wallet that belonged to son that doesn't talk to her anymore left behind.

All because I listened to her ramble one day whilst delivering her stuff.
 
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Why didn't you just acknowledge the toilet thanking you?

I do it not because I have to but maybe I might get a tip or lemonade or something?

It's zero effort, more or less, and sometimes they are just lonely foids.

Over if you don't see it that way and try to milk them for something.

A divorced woman in her 60s once gave me a branded wallet that belonged to son that doesn't talk to her anymore left behind.

All because I listened to her ramble one day whilst delivering her stuff.
I don’t have the mental energy for that.

I don’t care about small talk or lemonade from a stranger. What I need is Jewish money. That “fuck you, pay me” money.

If people are going to assume you’re an asshole by not wanting to socialize with them, then at least be rich doing it, because then it becomes socially acceptable to not want to associate with normies

You ever really listen to conversations people have? There’s no actual substance. Just a collection of ideas put into their heads by social media and large corporations. And thoughts that get constantly regurgitated by normies, like one long change of human centipedes

The worse part is people are so narcissistic, that they all believe they’re living the right path. A guy in some shitty village in Thailand thinks he has it made bc he’s the village hero. Drop him off at Rodeo Drive and see how he feels then
 
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I don’t have the mental energy for that.

I don’t care about small talk or lemonade from a stranger. What I need is Jewish money. That “fuck you, pay me” money.
Fine fair enough.
If people are going to assume you’re an asshole by not wanting to socialize with them, then at least be rich doing it, because then it becomes socially acceptable to not want to associate with normies
You ever really listen to conversations people have? There’s no actual substance. Just a collection of ideas put into their heads by social media and large corporations. And thoughts that get constantly regurgitated by normies, like one long change of human centipedes
The worse part is people are so narcissistic, that they all believe they’re living the right path. A guy in some shitty village in Thailand thinks he has it made bc he’s the village hero. Drop him off at Rodeo Drive and see how he feels then
This is how gigolos and high end escorts make their money. Professional counsellors, therapists and salespeople too.

Job comes with listening, agreeing and stoking the ego of the yapper.

make people feel good and appreciated = higher chance of getting their business
 
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Women get so offended when you don’t act friendly and chirpy if they’re giving you that energy

And normies love to be fake nice then talk shit when the person leaves. Why not just cut through the bullshit and be upfront? If you don’t like someone, don’t socialize with them. That’s how grown adults with backbones should act

Years ago I used to deliver packages, I dropped it off at this house with the front door open. I hear some white women, probably in her 30’s, calling out “thank you!”. I didn’t respond. As I’m taking a pic of the package, I hear her yell thank you again but more aggressively. Still don’t respond. As I’m leaving, she yells it a third time with a rude tone.

Bitch, I delivered your package and you thanked me for it. That’s the end of the transaction. Life is not LazyTown or a fucking commercial. You’re not owed a cherpy “You’re welcome!” from a grown man
Pls be nice



Being bitter doesn't benefit anyone
 
Women get so offended when you don’t act friendly and chirpy if they’re giving you that energy

And normies love to be fake nice then talk shit when the person leaves. Why not just cut through the bullshit and be upfront? If you don’t like someone, don’t socialize with them. That’s how grown adults with backbones should act

Years ago I used to deliver packages, I dropped it off at this house with the front door open. I hear some white women, probably in her 30’s, calling out “thank you!”. I didn’t respond. As I’m taking a pic of the package, I hear her yell thank you again but more aggressively. Still don’t respond. As I’m leaving, she yells it a third time with a rude tone.

Bitch, I delivered your package and you thanked me for it. That’s the end of the transaction. Life is not LazyTown or a fucking commercial. You’re not owed a cherpy “You’re welcome!” from a grown man
Also grumpy people are unattractive on both genders
 
Women get so offended when you don’t act friendly and chirpy if they’re giving you that energy

And normies love to be fake nice then talk shit when the person leaves. Why not just cut through the bullshit and be upfront? If you don’t like someone, don’t socialize with them. That’s how grown adults with backbones should act

Years ago I used to deliver packages, I dropped it off at this house with the front door open. I hear some white women, probably in her 30’s, calling out “thank you!”. I didn’t respond. As I’m taking a pic of the package, I hear her yell thank you again but more aggressively. Still don’t respond. As I’m leaving, she yells it a third time with a rude tone.

Bitch, I delivered your package and you thanked me for it. That’s the end of the transaction. Life is not LazyTown or a fucking commercial. You’re not owed a cherpy “You’re welcome!” from a grown man
U could have said monotonous U R WELCOME
 
Fine fair enough.



This is how gigolos and high end escorts make their money. Professional counsellors, therapists and salespeople too.

Job comes with listening, agreeing and stoking the ego of the yapper.

make people feel good and appreciated = higher chance of getting their business
Professional ass kissing is the one of the most lucrative personality traits. You could even go so far as to becoming the President of the United States if you appeal to the right audience

Maybe, it’s like that episode of Black Mirror, Fifteen Million Merits. Where the guy running on the treadmill for a living sees through all the bullshit and hypocrisy life has to offer and last minute he decides to become a grifter to get himself out of that lifestyle

It wouldn’t be surprising if grifters like Andrew Tate were in cahoots with the government. Politicians and CEO’s see it how it is. They probably get off to profiting off the degradation of society

Gigolo is the only answer

Break the backs in of wealthy, old grandmas for a living. At least you could sleep with a clear conscious and some strawberry filled candies in your pocket
 
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Lack of social proof. From an evolutionary perspective women like men that have lots of friends because it’s shows they are ‘socially dominant’ and have access to people that can help them etc.

Just imagine way back to where attraction was hard wired. You think the alpha in a tribe had no friends??

Being introverted and not socially dominant as a guy makes women see you as weak and beta regardless if you’re good looking.

It’s why ugly guys with high social proof can slay very hot girls
 
You had me until you gave the example at the end. Who the fuck doesn't reply to three thank yous? That's not socialization. It's just treating other people like human beings. I get not wanting to get locked in endless small talk with people who don't matter, but it's turboaspie to not even acknowledge other people in basic ways.
 
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Lack of social proof. From an evolutionary perspective women like men that have lots of friends because it’s shows they are ‘socially dominant’ and have access to people that can help them etc.

Just imagine way back to where attraction was hard wired. You think the alpha in a tribe had no friends??

Being introverted and not socially dominant as a guy makes women see you as weak and beta regardless if you’re good looking.

It’s why ugly guys with high social proof can slay very hot girls

You had me until you gave the example at the end. Who the fuck doesn't reply to three thank yous? That's not socialization. It's just treating other people like human beings. I get not wanting to get locked in endless small talk with people who don't matter, but it's turboaspie to not even acknowledge other people in basic ways.
That’s fair. I’d rather not socialize if I already see that the outcome of the interaction has no benefit to my needs. Irl I’m only good at socializing with women if they’re attractive and if there’s flirting involved or sexual undertones, and they have to reciprocate in a submissive way. If not I completely shut off emotionally and they turn invisible

This probably comes across as sassy, maybe even feminine, bc I assume this is similar to how women perceive and interact with sub8 men
 
only explanation i can think of is that you are very ugly and short.
 
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Its because NT men GIVE opportunities and experiences. Its not a woman who shows a man the world but a man who shows the woman the world, takes her places and experience things together under his will. Its not a womans job to have a prominent circle and lead
Women get so offended when you don’t act friendly and chirpy if they’re giving you that energy

And normies love to be fake nice then talk shit when the person leaves. Why not just cut through the bullshit and be upfront? If you don’t like someone, don’t socialize with them. That’s how grown adults with backbones should act

Years ago I used to deliver packages, I dropped it off at this house with the front door open. I hear some white women, probably in her 30’s, calling out “thank you!”. I didn’t respond. As I’m taking a pic of the package, I hear her yell thank you again but more aggressively. Still don’t respond. As I’m leaving, she yells it a third time with a rude tone.

Bitch, I delivered your package and you thanked me for it. That’s the end of the transaction. Life is not LazyTown or a fucking commercial. You’re not owed a cherpy “You’re welcome!” from a grown man
 
That’s fair. I’d rather not socialize if I already see that the outcome of the interaction has no benefit to my needs. Irl I’m only good at socializing with women if they’re attractive and if there’s flirting involved or sexual undertones, and they have to reciprocate in a submissive way. If not I completely shut off emotionally and they turn invisible

This probably comes across as sassy, maybe even feminine, bc I assume this is similar to how women perceive and interact with sub8 men
This isn't about socializing. It's about respect. When someone acknowledges your presence, you need to reciprocate or you're disrespecting them. You just come off like a stuck up asshole in the story youre telling.
 
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It’s because NT men GIVE opportunities and experiences. It’s not a woman who shows a man the world but a man who shows the woman the world, takes her places and experience things together under his will. Its not a womans job to have a prominent circle and lead
Waste of time. I’d rather just get my bread up so I can hire outcall escorts to be waiting in my living room after I come back from work

Maybe I’ll put on some headphones on too like, Leonardo DiCaprio
 
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Waste of time. I’d rather just get my bread up so I can hire outcall escorts to be waiting in my living after I come back from work

Maybe I’ll put on some headphones on too like, Leonardo DiCaprio
Non nt trait
 
Ugly popular guys can slay Stacy?
No if they don't have status which is different than being popular, you can be the most known manlet of the club and not slay shit. They have to be decently attractive, idk where this ugly man Stacy cope comes from. @WishIwasChico
 
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This isn't about socializing. It's about respect. When someone acknowledges your presence, you need to reciprocate or you're disrespecting them. You just come off like a stuck up asshole in the story youre telling.
So you’re also saying people are socially obligated to say thank you after they sneeze and someone says bless you? And if not, they’re assholes? What is this, Seinfeld
 
So you’re also saying people are socially obligated to say thank you after they sneeze and someone says bless you? And if not, they’re assholes? What is this, Seinfeld
Have respect man
 
So you’re also saying people are socially obligated to say thank you after they sneeze and someone says bless you? And if not, they’re assholes? What is this, Seinfeld
Can you follow a conversation? I said that it's rude to not acknowledge someone's presence after they acknowledge yours. A sneeze has nothing to do with that.
 
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Can you follow a conversation? I said that it's rude to not acknowledge someone's presence after they acknowledge yours. A sneeze has nothing to do with that.
I didn’t ask to be acknowledged. It’s actually ruder to force someone into an interaction and assume they’ll play the role you’ve assigned them
 
imagine modeling your behavior after a fictional neurotic jewish man :forcedsmile:

there are ways to extricate yourself from social situations, not acknowledging someone's presence is probably the most autistic way to do it. if you're unable to demonstrate basic manners, people are going to think something is wrong with you, which is likely justified, because there's probably an evolutionary precedent for weirdo faggots from other tribes coming to your tribe to try and poison the well while not understanding any of the customs
 
imagine modeling your behavior after a fictional neurotic jewish man :forcedsmile:

there are ways to extricate yourself from social situations, not acknowledging someone's presence is probably the most autistic way to do it. if you're unable to demonstrate basic manners, people are going to think something is wrong with you, which is likely justified, because there's probably an evolutionary precedent for weirdo faggots from other tribes coming to your tribe to try and poison the well while not understanding any of the customs
What does being Jewish have anything to do with this
 
Fine fair enough.



This is how gigolos and high end escorts make their money. Professional counsellors, therapists and salespeople too.

Job comes with listening, agreeing and stoking the ego of the yapper.

make people feel good and appreciated = higher chance of getting their business
That’s called being a kiss ass or a cocksucker. You’d be putting on a front to achieve x goals, living a lie.
 

Why are women so off putted by men that don’t like to socialize who are short and ugly*​

 
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Women get so offended when you don’t act friendly and chirpy if they’re giving you that energy

And normies love to be fake nice then talk shit when the person leaves. Why not just cut through the bullshit and be upfront? If you don’t like someone, don’t socialize with them. That’s how grown adults with backbones should act

Years ago I used to deliver packages, I dropped it off at this house with the front door open. I hear some white women, probably in her 30’s, calling out “thank you!”. I didn’t respond. As I’m taking a pic of the package, I hear her yell thank you again but more aggressively. Still don’t respond. As I’m leaving, she yells it a third time with a rude tone.

Bitch, I delivered your package and you thanked me for it. That’s the end of the transaction. Life is not LazyTown or a fucking commercial. You’re not owed a cherpy “You’re welcome!” from a grown man
You don't understand shit or why they do that on purpose
 
if there was a purge, that old lady will spray nano particle trackers on your head:

 
Shy girls are cute
Shy boys aren't (for most people) but I kinda find them cute :oops:
 
I didn’t ask to be acknowledged. It’s actually ruder to force someone into an interaction and assume they’ll play the role you’ve assigned them
You're always being assigned roles whether they're verbalized or not. If you're dropping off a package at someone's house, your role is basically servant or miserable low-class worker. The person acknowledging you is trying to help you out and make your role closer to that of equal human being. When you blank them, you're now saying you think you're above them. Roles are constantly being addressed. It's pure autism to think that only strict verbalization sets roles.
 

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