Why do I give off an “awkward” aura?

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Almost every foid I talk to always mention that they like my “weirdness” and how I’m awkward, I know I’m just saved by my looks and if I was Ltn I would’ve been one of the weird awkward kids. But how do I genuinely stop giving off awkward vibes, I’m not trying to be mysterious or anything but it looks like I’m just so ND when I’m actually not that bad idk
 
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Being awkward is just a combination of the bad looks, bad communication skills bad social calibration, and to some degree social inhibition.

If you look bad you're automatically awkward, if you don't know how to speak properly or convey you're ideas then you're awkward, if you don't have good social calibration (can't read subtle facial expressions, changes in vocal rhythm, body language, or can't make proper eye contact, and don't know when to step in and when not to in conversation) then you're awkward, and of course, if you're anxious during social interactions that's gonna show through, and you'll be awkward.
 
Almost every foid I talk to always mention that they like my “weirdness” and how I’m awkward, I know I’m just saved by my looks and if I was Ltn I would’ve been one of the weird awkward kids. But how do I genuinely stop giving off awkward vibes, I’m not trying to be mysterious or anything but it looks like I’m just so ND when I’m actually not that bad idk
Prolly because you're nd and if you experience it with ppl that know you from long time like the guys at your school it is because of your status
 
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Being awkward is just a combination of the bad looks, bad communication skills bad social calibration, and to some degree social inhibition.

If you look bad you're automatically awkward, if you don't know how to speak properly or convey you're ideas then you're awkward, if you don't have good social calibration (can't read subtle facial expressions, changes in vocal rhythm, body language, or can't make proper eye contact, and don't know when to step in and when not to in conversation) then you're awkward, and of course, if you're anxious during social interactions that's gonna show through, and you'll be awkward.
I get along well with most people and don’t have any of the consequences that comes with being low inhib and everything, no one really has a problem with me being awkward some even say it makes me different, it’s like it’s a personality trait and not really a negative thing. The only thing that pisses me off are the weirdos that keep saying I’m acting nonchalant.
 
Being awkward is just a combination of the bad looks, bad communication skills bad social calibration, and to some degree social inhibition.

If you look bad you're automatically awkward, if you don't know how to speak properly or convey you're ideas then you're awkward, if you don't have good social calibration (can't read subtle facial expressions, changes in vocal rhythm, body language, or can't make proper eye contact, and don't know when to step in and when not to in conversation) then you're awkward, and of course, if you're anxious during social interactions that's gonna show through, and you'll be awkward.
What if ur good looking but have bad communication skills?
 
Being awkward if you're attractive means you give off high inhib vibes.
 
Almost every foid I talk to always mention that they like my “weirdness” and how I’m awkward, I know I’m just saved by my looks and if I was Ltn I would’ve been one of the weird awkward kids. But how do I genuinely stop giving off awkward vibes, I’m not trying to be mysterious or anything but it looks like I’m just so ND when I’m actually not that bad idk
nd manneurisms from missing out on early crucial social interaction as a kid will do that to you, is still fixable if you just keep meeting new people
 

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