Why do I have low social life

[adyyyyyyyyyy]

I gen think its up to looks but there are some sub5 with better social life than me

 

[Deleted member 52345]

I gen think its up to looks but there are some sub5 with better social life than me

 

[vermillioncorefan]

i have no social life try being me

 

[sub5outsider]

you probably not interesting

 

[adyyyyyyyyyy]

how do i become it

you probably not interesti

 

[Deleted member 23558]

Low interest in most people. I’m the same , normies are good at feigning interest

 

[spark]

low looks = low social life

 

[wollet2]

idk why but its over for u

 

[adyyyyyyyyyy]

low looks = low social life

im gen trying to think of a ugly person with high social life but i cant think of one

 

[Seth Walsh]

I gen think its up to looks but there are some sub5 with better social life than me

Its not looks - it's everything else.

 

[adyyyyyyyyyy]

Its not looks - it's everything else.

what

 

[Seth Walsh]

what

The reason you lack a social life is not because of how you look. It is more likely that everything besides your looks contribute to your lack of social life.

 

[adyyyyyyyyyy]

The reason you lack a social life is not because of how you look. It is more likely that everything besides your looks contribute to your lack of social life.

hmm how could I improve

 

[Seth Walsh]

hmm how could I improve

After highschool: Engage more actively with others, pursue common interests, and be open and empathetic. Attend social events, join clubs or groups, and use social media as a tool for connection, not just consumption. Work on your communication skills, be a good listener, and show genuine interest in others' lives. Regularly make time for social activities and maintain a positive, friendly attitude.

In highschool:

1. Join Clubs and Activities
   • Participate in clubs that match your interests. This could be anything from sports teams to drama clubs, robotics to debate teams.
   • Engage actively in these clubs by attending meetings regularly and volunteering for roles that increase interaction with others.
2. Attend School Events
   • Go to sports games, school dances, plays, and other gatherings. These are great opportunities to meet new people.
   • Try to go with a friend if you're shy, but also make an effort to talk to new people when you're there.
3. Be Friendly and Approachable
   • Smile and say hello to classmates and peers. Being friendly makes you more approachable.
   • Make small talk. Ask about their day, classes, and interests.
4. Improve Your Conversation Skills
   • Listen actively and show genuine interest in others' stories.
   • Ask open-ended questions that encourage more than yes/no answers.
5. Volunteer
   • Join community service groups or start a volunteer project. This can introduce you to people outside of your immediate social circle and also looks good on college applications.
6. Work on Self-Confidence
   • Participate in public speaking, theater, or debate to boost your confidence.
   • Practicing skills like speaking in front of others can make it easier to initiate conversations.
7. Use Social Media Wisely
   • Connect with your classmates on social media to keep up with events and share interests.
   • Be positive and supportive online; avoid drama.
8. Be Open to New Friendships
   • Don't limit your social circle to one group. Be open to making friends from different circles and backgrounds.
   • Sometimes, unexpected friendships can be the most rewarding.
9. Respect Differences
   • Be respectful of differing opinions and backgrounds. High school is a diverse environment, and embracing diversity can enrich your social experience.
10. Maintain Your Relationships
    • Stay in touch, make plans, and show up when you say you will. Good friends are key to a fulfilling social life

 

[adyyyyyyyyyy]

After highschool: Engage more actively with others, pursue common interests, and be open and empathetic. Attend social events, join clubs or groups, and use social media as a tool for connection, not just consumption. Work on your communication skills, be a good listener, and show genuine interest in others' lives. Regularly make time for social activities and maintain a positive, friendly attitude.

In highschool:

1. Join Clubs and Activities
   • Participate in clubs that match your interests. This could be anything from sports teams to drama clubs, robotics to debate teams.
   • Engage actively in these clubs by attending meetings regularly and volunteering for roles that increase interaction with others.
2. Attend School Events
   • Go to sports games, school dances, plays, and other gatherings. These are great opportunities to meet new people.
   • Try to go with a friend if you're shy, but also make an effort to talk to new people when you're there.
3. Be Friendly and Approachable
   • Smile and say hello to classmates and peers. Being friendly makes you more approachable.
   • Make small talk. Ask about their day, classes, and interests.
4. Improve Your Conversation Skills
   • Listen actively and show genuine interest in others' stories.
   • Ask open-ended questions that encourage more than yes/no answers.
5. Volunteer
   • Join community service groups or start a volunteer project. This can introduce you to people outside of your immediate social circle and also looks good on college applications.
6. Work on Self-Confidence
   • Participate in public speaking, theater, or debate to boost your confidence.
   • Practicing skills like speaking in front of others can make it easier to initiate conversations.
7. Use Social Media Wisely
   • Connect with your classmates on social media to keep up with events and share interests.
   • Be positive and supportive online; avoid drama.
8. Be Open to New Friendships
   • Don't limit your social circle to one group. Be open to making friends from different circles and backgrounds.
   • Sometimes, unexpected friendships can be the most rewarding.
9. Respect Differences
   • Be respectful of differing opinions and backgrounds. High school is a diverse environment, and embracing diversity can enrich your social experience.
10. Maintain Your Relationships
    • Stay in touch, make plans, and show up when you say you will. Good friends are key to a fulfilling social life

hmm im quite shy i might work on that thank you