Why do normies get along and get so close to each other so fast?

[Vermilioncore]

Like at my old job there was this new person and she already started talking to everyone and hanging out with them and eating lunch together meanwhile I had been there awhile and was still avoidant and scared of interaction.

I see it everywhere.

Like when two strangers interact, their interaction sounds so normal and not forced.

I just wonder how they live with such ease

 

[Snicket]

Like at my old job there was this new person and she already started talking to everyone and hanging out with them and eating lunch together

It's a superficial friendliness.

meanwhile I had been there awhile and was still avoidant and scared of interaction.

Lack of experience.

I see it everywhere.

Like when two strangers interact, their interaction sounds so normal and not forced.

I just wonder how they live with such ease

It's an elaborate act and they have more experience.
They likely went through that trial and error of awkwardness in their teenage years.

 

[Darkeningstar]

Sometimes they think I'm unfriendly and/or mysterious, but I'm just a retard, not very social, not anti-social

 

[Foreverbrad]

They have social proof.

 

[brownmutt42]

Because they all have the same goal at the end of the day

 

[Vermilioncore]

Because they all have the same goal at the end of the day

What’s that goal

 

[brownmutt42]

What’s that goal

FSPP

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

Like at my old job there was this new person and she already started talking to everyone and hanging out with them and eating lunch together meanwhile I had been there awhile and was still avoidant and scared of interaction.

I see it everywhere.

Like when two strangers interact, their interaction sounds so normal and not forced.

I just wonder how they live with such ease

they are high in openness and extraversion

 

[Darkeningstar]

they are high in openness and extraversion

I'm high in dick size and introversion. I don't think they're high in "openness"

 

[superpsycho]

Sometimes they think I'm unfriendly and/or mysterious, but I'm just a retard, not very social, not anti-social

same

 

[superpsycho]

because they are neurotypicals and neurotypicals think alike like sheep

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

I'm high in dick size and introversion

Lose the introversion and project BDE. You gotta fake it till you make it. That's how most of them make friends

 

[Healthymaxxer]

we are just autistic

 

[Darkeningstar]

Lose the introversion and project BDE. You gotta fake it till you make it. That's how most of them make friends

I know, I've been doing it since I was three or four. I have little resistance

 

[R@m@]

They live automatically

You probably also want to socialize but you have toughts telling you no, they dont have those toughts

 

[Vermilioncore]

They live automatically

You probably also want to socialize but you have toughts telling you no, they dont have those toughts

What’s the demons name that’s doing this to me

 

[Vermilioncore]

I don’t know

The men want fishy pussy to fuck, the women want horse cock to fuck. That’s their goal to socialize. It gets them closer to their goal

 

[R@m@]

What’s the demons name that’s doing this to me

Idk, autism, too much self awareness

 

[Snicket]

What’s the demons name that’s doing this to me

Your Jungian shadow

 

[Vermilioncore]

Idk, autism, too much self awareness

The name that sat on him was death, and hell followed with him

 

[looksmaxxed]

when i see people having a smooth conversation as if it's entirely second nature and automatic, i think they must be low iq

 

[R@m@]

when i see people having a smooth conversation as if it's entirely second nature and automatic, i think they must be low iq

Actually true, if youre low iq youre not aware of social anxiety and its completely natural to you

But I also think theres shy people who can overcome their shyness and become more social

I can look at someone and tell when they are low iq and when they are self aware

 

[DarkAscender]

when i see people having a smooth conversation as if it's entirely second nature and automatic, i think they must be low iq

I honestly think we're just overthinking conversations. The dumbest ppl seem to have no problem conversating, maybe its really that simple.
Just turn your brain off and say the first thing thats on your mind. You might say some dumb stuff here and there, but its good practice.

After a few months of straight rotting I find myself picking dialogue options in my head, and reading them out loud in my voice. It's terrible. Life would be so amazing if I could just talk on auto pilot. (usually happens when I'm drunk or high)