why do people cope so much with everything?

[EdgyFashionist]

I literally don't get how people can live their whole life just coping about stuff they often can change. For example I see broke ass niggas who learnt shit at school and after school they basically got 0 worth skills and the next thing they do is cope that it's hard to get a job, it is hard for losers like you omg just learn something useful and don't be a retard.

Other thing is when they will NEVER say that they are ugly, when girls gave them cold rejects they always whine about their fucking personality or they need to go to the gym like no dude you are ltn manlet, you are just ugly go moneymaxxing that's your only chance in life.

Or when they cope about relationships. Girls are literally cheating on them, using them for free money or as plan B. IDK if they realize that or no but they usually cope saying some dumb bluepilled shit rather than just find another gf.

Idk honestly what is causing that in people, why do they can't just accept truth, work on themselves or something?

This retarded post made me think about it


like "Priorities. Not everyone has the resources for 50-100$ haircuts ever few months or gym memberships." muh im just a brokeass nigga that won't even do bare minimum. "Looksmax lol time to get off the internet for a while" yeah because improving yourself is so chronically online. "Not everyone is insecure about their appearance." then reddit is filled with posts like M30 KHHV should I kys?

literally only one sane person there

 

[forevergymcelling]

How do people cope that they'll never get this

 

[Deleted member 24235]

How do people cope that they'll never get this

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Who’s that

 

[EdgyFashionist]

How do people cope that they'll never get this

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they will say she's mid looking or whore

 

[Deleted member 24235]

I literally don't get how people can live their whole life just coping about stuff they often can change. For example I see broke ass niggas who learnt shit at school and after school they basically got 0 worth skills and the next thing they do is cope that it's hard to get a job, it is hard for losers like you omg just learn something useful and don't be a retard.

Other thing is when they will NEVER say that they are ugly, when girls gave them cold rejects they always whine about their fucking personality or they need to go to the gym like no dude you are ltn manlet, you are just ugly go moneymaxxing that's your only chance in life.

Or when they cope about relationships. Girls are literally cheating on them, using them for free money or as plan B. IDK if they realize that or no but they usually cope saying some dumb bluepilled shit rather than just find another gf.

Idk honestly what is causing that in people, why do they can't just accept truth, work on themselves or something?

This retarded post made me think about it


like "Priorities. Not everyone has the resources for 50-100$ haircuts ever few months or gym memberships." muh im just a brokeass nigga that won't even do bare minimum. "Looksmax lol time to get off the internet for a while" yeah because improving yourself is so chronically online. "Not everyone is insecure about their appearance." then reddit is filled with posts like M30 KHHV should I kys?

literally only one sane person there
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Looksmaxing doesn’t do shit bro

 

[EdgyFashionist]

Looksmaxing doesn’t do shit bro

I meant taking care about yourself so you don't look like discord moderator. Still won't make you a chadlite if you are ugly but saying that it's expensive is pure cope imo

 

[Deleted member 78221]

why increase the competition retard

 

[GreekGenes]

It's called ego and it's a natural part of our human psychology. We try to protect our self-image from external stimuli that can hurt us, our confidence and our trust, hence why we cope. We rationalise or deny things we do all kinds of shit.

And other people will also cope and not tell us the truth for reasons of social desirability. Hence why no girl will ever say she rejected a guy cause he was too ugly for her.

Source: Studied Psychology at uni

 

[EdgyFashionist]

why increase the competition retard

I didn't mean it like that. I am just asking why people prefer to cope rather than make shit done

 

[EdgyFashionist]

It's called ego and it's a natural part of our human psychology. We try to protect our self-image from external stimuli that can hurt us, our confidence and our trust, hence why we cope. We rationalise or deny things we do all kinds of shit.

And other people will also cope and not tell us the truth for reasons of social desirability. Hence why no girl will ever say she rejected a guy cause he was too ugly for her.

Source: Studied Psychology at uni

so they are getting cucked by their own brain

 

[GreekGenes]

so they are getting cucked by their own brain

correct.

look at the comments in that reddit post. The amount of self-deception is staggering. These people are literally trying to cope even on a half-anonymous board. They're so afraid to be associated with the term looksmaxxing that they pretend they don't know what it is or think it's ridiculous "time to log off the internet"

They're trying to virtue signal to the people around them that they are socially desirable and would never ever think about looksmaxxing.

 

[Yliaster]

correct.

look at the comments in that reddit post. The amount of self-deception is staggering. These people are literally trying to cope even on a half-anonymous board. They're so afraid to be associated with the term looksmaxxing that they pretend they don't know what it is or think it's ridiculous "time to log off the internet"

They're trying to virtue signal to the people around them that they are socially desirable and would never ever think about looksmaxxing.

You're pretty high IQ

Very well said,impressive

 

[EdgyFashionist]

correct.

look at the comments in that reddit post. The amount of self-deception is staggering. These people are literally trying to cope even on a half-anonymous board. They're so afraid to be associated with the term looksmaxxing that they pretend they don't know what it is or think it's ridiculous "time to log off the internet"

They're trying to virtue signal to the people around them that they are socially desirable and would never ever think about looksmaxxing.

For me it kinda look like subconscious or no crabs in bucket mentality. They for sure know that taking care of yourself will improve your life in many areas but somehow they won't say that out loud and they prefer to lie to other users so they also won't take care of themselves, like they are afraid to see some of them to success.

 

[6PSLcel]

How do people cope that they'll never get this

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I can't cope anymore

 

[ocy.qd]

then reddit is filled with posts like M30 KHHV should I kys?

Pretty much said it yourself. Reddit isn't where normies go, it's where the bottom of the barrel autistic ugly retards go to hide behind a screen and fraud normie-dom. It's hilarious because they think the average normie is some wide-eyed cuck fetishist in his thirties.

The average high schooler to college age normie falls anywhere between red and blackpilled. Most of my male normie friends have thrown around the word "looksmax" unironically at least a few times. "Lean is law" is common sense among everyone I know who goes to the gym (it's over for size copers JFLLLLLLL). Even the NT pill has reached normies - I asked them once what would a reasonable excuse for someone to not have had a girlfriend ever at 18 years old be and the first response was "autism". Humor is still somewhat being used to cope among normies but most normies have long accepted that personality is at best 25% of the equation, or at worst a complete and utter cope. Reddit obviously didn't get the memo because none of them ever go outside.

Where normies fail miserably is usually 1) rating (most normies are inconsistent as hell and their ratings (or compliments) mean close to nothing) and 2) willpower (most fat friends I have know that obviously lean is more attractive, and they tell people so, but they lack the willpower to do it themselves). Also they overvalue height to the point where they don't understand why I'm struggling as a 6'3 lMTN with autism.

I have yet to see a straight man (IRL, not on Reddit) that is actually bluepilled. This site just loves to pretend everyone else is stupid to inflate their God complex.

 

[ocy.qd]

I thank God every day that while I may be autistic I never made a Reddit account

 

[ocy.qd]

@gangiewangie what do you think

 

[superpsycho]

i quit coping

 

[superpsycho]

i quit coping

ive accepted my fate

 

[hunnidrounds]

Nigga I don't have 40,000 dollars for Sherbet+Rad. Hell I don't even have 8250 for a nose job. I can't have more than 2000 in savings or they shut off my benefits. Some of us are fucked