Why do people treat me better when im angry?

[Kirby7000]

Usually everyday i wake up in pain but I find something to make myself happy and im full of joy. I go outside feeling good and happy wanting to say high to people and just being nice. Usually i get smacked back to reality these days and people laugh at me in public or are insanely rude. Then im sad again. Only time i get treated better if i have an angry scold and cold to others. I dont like it and it makes me sad but with each day people are treating me worse. Are people that evil? Even if i look ugly why do you have to get so mad and treat people like dirt just because they are happy? Maybe I should be a secret agent since people are ass cheeks at reading people and im feeling completely harmless and happy and people look at me with digust,fear, and anger. When im angry, sad they respect me and are nice to me?

 

[FaceandBBC]

People like seeing you angry and frustrated.

 

[isis_Bleach]

theyre afraid youll suck them up, kirby type shit

 

[slaters]

Usually everyday i wake up in pain but I find something to make myself happy and im full of joy. I go outside feeling good and happy wanting to say high to people and just being nice. Usually i get smacked back to reality these days and people laugh at me in public or are insanely rude. Then im sad again. Only time i get treated better if i have an angry scold and cold to others. I dont like it and it makes me sad but with each day people are treating me worse. Are people that evil? Even if i look ugly why do you have to get so mad and treat people like dirt just because they are happy? Maybe I should be a secret agent since people are ass cheeks at reading people and im feeling completely harmless and happy and people look at me with digust,fear, and anger. When im angry, sad they respect me and are nice to me?

Bro are you an Indian living in Sweden?
I see ltns happy everyday not being shunned by society

 

[aryan mogger]

Theyre afraid ur gonna beat them

 

[thedarkoverlord_666]

U probably just look evil and they think you’re gonna beat them up

 

[Kirby7000]

Bro are you an Indian living in Sweden?
I see ltns happy everyday not being shunned by society

black in america

 

[Kirby7000]

U probably just look evil and they think you’re gonna beat them up

i wont. I do look insanely big due to acromegaly but im the nicest person ever. I think its because my eyes look droopy all the time. When i lower my head to reduce uppereyelid exposure people are nice to me. I wore shades and people treat me normal. I guess i have to wear glasses 24/7. My eyes are only droopy because I cant get enough oxygen to my face due to my freakish proportions. I feel completely normal even though I make look evil or mean. Literally today a crackhead woman threw change on the counter for ice in a cup and the cashier didnt really have a problem with it. I put my chips down on the counter respectfully and put my head down knowing people find it uncomfortable to look me in the eyes so i dont try anymore. He snatched the chips with such anger and annoyance. Also a friend of the cashier got real close to me and put his water on the counter and started chatting with him. "Hey whats up" Pretty sure he was attempting to size me up or attempt to hold frame. I didnt even look at him as he was behind me but i knew he was at least a mtn black and I wasnt threatened at all as I knew he wasnt a threat (usually good looking people have enough sense to read people and are nicer to me). I think he just did that because the midget muslim cashier was giving such a stink face toward me so he wanted to give his buddy some support. are sub 90 iq people so dumb they see someone who looks different and get defensive or scared?

 

[batman1997]

Just beat them Up Bro if they disrespect you dont tolerate that shit from anyone.

 

[Kirby7000]

Theyre afraid ur gonna beat them

any advice to change this. I encounter lots of strangers in the hood everyday since I take public transportation. actually it doesn't even matter if they are strangers as "friends" and "family" who have known me for years will treat me poorly if i look particularly bad that day. Only thing I know that works if I make my eyes as wide as possible by taking lots of antioxidants to relax my painful body and wear the perfect outfit. (specific shirts that make my oversized body look good). If women think I look bad its a bad day and bad treatment from everyone that day. Might have to start spamming light blue because people treat me really nice and women seem to like it. I see the same people,cashiers everyday and act the same but the treatment is based 100% on my looks and not what i do or say.

 

[thedarkoverlord_666]

i wont. I do look insanely big due to acromegaly but im the nicest person ever. I think its because my eyes look droopy all the time. When i lower my head to reduce uppereyelid exposure people are nice to me. I wore shades and people treat me normal. I guess i have to wear glasses 24/7. My eyes are only droopy because I cant get enough oxygen to my face due to my freakish proportions. I feel completely normal even though I make look evil or mean. Literally today a crackhead woman threw change on the counter for ice in a cup and the cashier didnt really have a problem with it. I put my chips down on the counter respectfully and put my head down knowing people find it uncomfortable to look me in the eyes so i dont try anymore. He snatched the chips with such anger and annoyance. Also a friend of the cashier got real close to me and put his water on the counter and started chatting with him. "Hey whats up" Pretty sure he was attempting to size me up or attempt to hold frame. I didnt even look at him as he was behind me but i knew he was at least a mtn black and I wasnt threatened at all as I knew he wasnt a threat (usually good looking people have enough sense to read people and are nicer to me). I think he just did that because the midget muslim cashier was giving such a stink face toward me so he wanted to give his buddy some support. are sub 90 iq people so dumb they see someone who looks different and get defensive or scared?

Yeah people will always judge based off of looks whether conscious or not, really sad

 

[Kirby7000]

Just beat them Up Bro if they disrespect you dont tolerate that shit from anyone.

I know people carry guns and knives in the hood. Im pretty smart and know not to piss anyone off. I guess everyone else is playing chicken and pretending to be rude and hard, but i know for a fact lot of people have guns. When i played basketball at the courts some of the most unexpected non threatening people would ask to put their guns or knives in my backpack to store. Also when people roll in groups I cant really do anything. Maybe i can pull a jackie chan and beat up 3 highschoolers but one of them or their cousin will come back with a gun and end me. I guess I have to be braindead?

 

[Kirby7000]

Yeah people will always judge based off of looks whether conscious or not, really sad

insane. I know I must have done it in the past but not the extreme because I was always on the bottom of the totem pole. Even babies and kids wont look at me if i look ugly. This is proof humans are naturally evil

 

[Kirby7000]

Yeah people will always judge based off of looks whether conscious or not, really sad

i just wish I can get to a level where when i look bad I at least look like a 5. Having crackheads try you is when you know you truly are sub 5

 

[batman1997]

I know people carry guns and knives in the hood. Im pretty smart and know not to piss anyone off. I guess everyone else is playing chicken and pretending to be rude and hard, but i know for a fact lot of people have guns. When i played basketball at the courts some of the most unexpected non threatening people would ask to put their guns or knives in my backpack to store. Also when people roll in groups I cant really do anything. Maybe i can pull a jackie chan and beat up 3 highschoolers but one of them or their cousin will come back with a gun and end me. I guess I have to be braindead?

Just be yourself and if that pisses them off its their problem you dont have to deal with their shitty behaviour towards you if you have to fight end the fight quickly as soon as possible and dont let that fucker get Up until he is on the floor..

 

[Kirby7000]

Just be yourself and if that pisses them off its their problem you dont have to deal with their shitty behaviour towards you if you have to fight end the fight quickly as soon as possible and dont let that fucker get Up until he is on the floor..

as much as I want to do that my breathing put me into a fight or flight response quickly. I know I can beat them up physically but that dread feeling from not being able to breathe stops me. The caveat is that when I can breath a lot better and know i can pop off people dont mess with me. Its like humans are animals who can sense people and only try the weak. Nothing more than animals.

 

[Kirby7000]

Just be yourself and if that pisses them off its their problem you dont have to deal with their shitty behaviour towards you if you have to fight end the fight quickly as soon as possible and dont let that fucker get Up until he is on the floor..

i need a technique to make it to work everyday and go outside while im looksmaxxing (health maxxing). So much stress walking outside.

 

[Kirby7000]

as much as I want to do that my breathing put me into a fight or flight response quickly. I know I can beat them up physically but that dread feeling from not being able to breathe stops me. The caveat is that when I can breath a lot better and know i can pop off people dont mess with me. Its like humans are animals who can sense people and only try the weak. Nothing more than animals.

im glad i was able to learn human nature by being knocked so far down and want to remember to be kind and protect the weak when I get stronger. Its just that i need this treatment to stop now.

 

[batman1997]

as much as I want to do that my breathing put me into a fight or flight response quickly. I know I can beat them up physically but that dread feeling from not being able to breathe stops me. The caveat is that when I can breath a lot better and know i can pop off people dont mess with me. Its like humans are animals who can sense people and only try the weak. Nothing more than animals.

People are Evil Bro indeed but if you have that advantage when people dont mess with you when your angry thats your chance to say the shit that is off your chest to them be more assertive bro

 

[Kirby7000]

i need a technique to make it to work everyday and go outside while im looksmaxxing (health maxxing). So much stress walking outside.

i guess thats why people in the hood are so hard. I never grew up in the hood. All the stress and danger puts your body in constant fight or flight and forces your body to adapt. Like my voice is getting deeper, my body is getting bigger. I just dont want to have to deal with such conditions

 

[batman1997]

i need a technique to make it to work everyday and go outside while im looksmaxxing (health maxxing). So much stress walking outside.

Try meditation

 

[Kirby7000]

People are Evil Bro indeed but if you have that advantage when people dont mess with you when your angry thats your chance to say the shit that is off your chest to them be more assertive bro

yeah nobody messes with me, im just so afraid. Maybe some people havent been checked yet so they keep acting the way they do. (crackheads screaming and throwing fake punches at me on the train). Logically that person should be dead by now but i guess people dont take chances with aggresive people. I know i dont

 

[Kirby7000]

Try meditation

yeah ill try some prayer.

 

[batman1997]

i guess thats why people in the hood are so hard. I never grew up in the hood. All the stress and danger puts your body in constant fight or flight and forces your body to adapt. Like my voice is getting deeper, my body is getting bigger. I just dont want to have to deal with such conditions

Yea i know man im in brazil and here its dangerous everyday you dont know wether you might see the end of the day but you just have to be aware of your surroundings.

 

[Kirby7000]

People are Evil Bro indeed but if you have that advantage when people dont mess with you when your angry thats your chance to say the shit that is off your chest to them be more assertive bro

Like ive gotten a gun pulled on me and people trying to fight me even though I keep my head down and have a timid demeanor. Meanwhile my twin brother screams at people and acts way to confident for his genetics (im stronger than him, i guess way smarter so i think about my actions). I told him to chill out and that the guys friend definitely had a gun on him but he kept screaming and cursing. 10 minutes later the guy finally had enough and says hes going to drop his body and bury it on the court. Maybe I need to clock my brother one day for his own good and put him in this place. Hes going to get killed one day. Hes got crooked teeth and a narrower jaw than me but people respect him because he has really long dreads and assume hes dangerous

 

[Kirby7000]

Yea i know man im in brazil and here its dangerous everyday you dont know wether you might see the end of the day but you just have to be aware of your surroundings.

sounds like a nightmare

 

[Kirby7000]

Yea i know man im in brazil and here its dangerous everyday you dont know wether you might see the end of the day but you just have to be aware of your surroundings.

what do you do to stay safe

 

[batman1997]

what do you do to stay safe

I carry a pocket knife and I also watch my surroundings alot im basically surviving whenever I leave my House

 

[batman1997]

Like ive gotten a gun pulled on me and people trying to fight me even though I keep my head down and have a timid demeanor. Meanwhile my twin brother screams at people and acts way to confident for his genetics (im stronger than him, i guess way smarter so i think about my actions). I told him to chill out and that the guys friend definitely had a gun on him but he kept screaming and cursing. 10 minutes later the guy finally had enough and says hes going to drop his body and bury it on the court. Maybe I need to clock my brother one day for his own good and put him in this place. Hes going to get killed one day. Hes got crooked teeth and a narrower jaw than me but people respect him because he has really long dreads and assume hes dangerous

People are Evil Bro stay safe out there the only thing I can tell you is if your in a Life and death situation kill that dude its your Life or his..

 

[Kirby7000]

I carry a pocket knife and I also watch my surroundings alot im basically surviving whenever I leave my House

idk if i can do that. Way too stressful. How can someone live a life like that. I have no gf,no friends, no family and have to survive everytime i step outside. I cant do it

 

[Kirby7000]

People are Evil Bro stay safe out there the only thing I can tell you is if your in a Life and death situation kill that dude its your Life or his..

nah no way. Even i do kill someone i have no friends. They will comeback and kill me.

 

[Kirby7000]

People are Evil Bro stay safe out there the only thing I can tell you is if your in a Life and death situation kill that dude its your Life or his..

i live in black hood mentality. They roll in packs.

 

[batman1997]

idk if i can do that. Way too stressful. How can someone live a life like that. I have no gf,no friends, no family and have to survive everytime i step outside. I cant do it

You get used to It people where I live you can't go to a shop to buy the Windows are barricated like if its a prison..

 

[batman1997]

i live in black hood mentality. They roll in packs.

I know Bro but you can't keep living like a victim

 

[Kirby7000]

You get used to It people where I live you can't go to a shop to buy the Windows are barricated like if its a prison..

crazy how others live. I know my life is stressful but i know brazil has to be like a warzone

 

[batman1997]

crazy how others live. I know my life is stressful but i know brazil has to be like a warzone

You need to do something before something bad happens idk Bro its just my opinion

 

[Kirby7000]

I know Bro but you can't keep living like a victim

i wish i looked good and were tall and people would just leave me alone. If im wearing a good outfit, good hair, or look tall I get left alone and even better i get good attention. I dont want to hurt someone else just to protect myself.

 

[Kirby7000]

You need to do something before something bad happens idk Bro its just my opinion

any non violent solutions

 

[batman1997]

any non violent solutions

I dont know what to tell you lmao im struggling aswell to leave this shithole

 

[Kirby7000]

I dont know what to tell you lmao im struggling aswell to leave this shithole

come to the states.

 

[Kirby7000]

I dont know what to tell you lmao im struggling aswell to leave this shithole

like I would pay for you if I had it and your just a stranger on the internet. This too quick to help strangers on the street and giving them money gets me in bad situations. Like they would treat me worse than just ignoring them. Like i need to get stronger before I can help anyone, I cant even help myself.

 

[batman1997]

like I would pay for you if I had it and your just a stranger on the internet. This too quick to help strangers on the street and giving them money gets me in bad situations. Like they would treat me worse than just ignoring them. Like i need to get stronger before I can help anyone, I cant even help myself.

Ithanks Bro appreciate It I have a friend living in US aswell I Talk to him sometimes his dad never cared for him and now his father IS sick and he has to take care of this retard.

 

[Kirby7000]

Ithanks Bro appreciate It I have a friend living in US aswell I Talk to him sometimes his dad never cared for him and now his father IS sick and he has to take care of this retard.

never understood why people dont choose to be kind. I thought the whole altruism thing was to help people and be kind to them so they return the favor. People seem to just take the kindness and shit on the person as long as they can. Im writing down a list of people who were kind to me my entire life and imma add you to it when I become stronger

 

[batman1997]

never understood why people done choose to be kind. I thought the whole altruism thing was to help people and be kind to them so they return the favor. People seem to just take the kindness and shit on the person as long as they can. Im writing down a list of people who were kind to me my entire life and imma add you to it when I become stronger

Thanks man people just dont appreciate kindness its just how some humans were designed they mistake kindness for weakness.