pleasevanity
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i've seen countless tiktoks talking about how "you should run from controlling men" and how "its so draining and exhausting" but what's really the issue with being protective over a woman you care about and see a future with?
some of these hypergamous beasts don't give a shit about love when it's with a normie they only feel true affection and love for the chads they're so used to seeing on the internet.
i'm convinced these foids are oblivious to their own nature or are just straight up making shit up in their head for attention, they'd act as if they are being locked in a room 24/7 as some sort of pet or animal but in actuality it's hard to trust foids nowadays and the behaviours are often justified.
some of the behaviours that i think are justified but might be called "controlling" are:
not approving of her talk to any other men except yourself (with exceptions of family members or close friends)
having eachothers location at all times OR at the very least knowing where she will be going when she wants to go somewhere
knowing who her friends are and who she is speaking to when she's not with you
not letting her speak to anyone from her past who she's had romantic feelings for (water)
not letting her speak to anyone who objectively mogs you (water)
asking for proof of loyalty whenever there is reason to suspect that she's doing something with other people (e.g. infrequent response times, random mood changes throughout the day, irritability)
asking her to block anyone you ask if there is valid reason
ironically enough, nobody gives a shit whenever the woman wants to be "controlling" they'll label it as a "strict program" jfl and guys will hear that shit knowing that it means she cares about him yet flip the roles around and suddenly women are victims of controlling men. maybe because they're afraid of permitting certain patriarchal behaviours but regardless this double standard makes no sense and ill explain why
this is because most women have nothing to be insecure about i kid you not it's all in their head. there's so much women desire out of a man that said man can't change and he will forever feel inferior because of it. women are cruel and obliviously cruel at that. if i didn't make it clear, an insecure manlet has every reason to keep his girl safe from evil chad than as opposed to the foid who just didn't like how her makeup looked that day and thinks she doesn't look as good as other girls. i dont know if im low T but i dont have the urge to sleep with multiple women if i'm with someone i genuinely love. hypergamy doesn't affect me at all.
tl;dr/conclusion:
women don't feel love like you do. chad wants to rape and kill your gf but she still wants him because she's loyal to her feelings and it's okay to shield her from him being controlling should be the standard for manlets, that hypergamous bitch doesnt fucking deserve better
some of these hypergamous beasts don't give a shit about love when it's with a normie they only feel true affection and love for the chads they're so used to seeing on the internet.
i'm convinced these foids are oblivious to their own nature or are just straight up making shit up in their head for attention, they'd act as if they are being locked in a room 24/7 as some sort of pet or animal but in actuality it's hard to trust foids nowadays and the behaviours are often justified.
some of the behaviours that i think are justified but might be called "controlling" are:
not approving of her talk to any other men except yourself (with exceptions of family members or close friends)
having eachothers location at all times OR at the very least knowing where she will be going when she wants to go somewhere
knowing who her friends are and who she is speaking to when she's not with you
not letting her speak to anyone from her past who she's had romantic feelings for (water)
not letting her speak to anyone who objectively mogs you (water)
asking for proof of loyalty whenever there is reason to suspect that she's doing something with other people (e.g. infrequent response times, random mood changes throughout the day, irritability)
asking her to block anyone you ask if there is valid reason
ironically enough, nobody gives a shit whenever the woman wants to be "controlling" they'll label it as a "strict program" jfl and guys will hear that shit knowing that it means she cares about him yet flip the roles around and suddenly women are victims of controlling men. maybe because they're afraid of permitting certain patriarchal behaviours but regardless this double standard makes no sense and ill explain why
this is because most women have nothing to be insecure about i kid you not it's all in their head. there's so much women desire out of a man that said man can't change and he will forever feel inferior because of it. women are cruel and obliviously cruel at that. if i didn't make it clear, an insecure manlet has every reason to keep his girl safe from evil chad than as opposed to the foid who just didn't like how her makeup looked that day and thinks she doesn't look as good as other girls. i dont know if im low T but i dont have the urge to sleep with multiple women if i'm with someone i genuinely love. hypergamy doesn't affect me at all.
tl;dr/conclusion:
women don't feel love like you do. chad wants to rape and kill your gf but she still wants him because she's loyal to her feelings and it's okay to shield her from him being controlling should be the standard for manlets, that hypergamous bitch doesnt fucking deserve better
