@Shakysters
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Cold approach to the theory
Why do you have to cold approach? To get the girl you want? to show your friends you're not a pussy? I have a simple solution for you, you don't have to have you ever been pressured into walking up to a girl by your friends? You pussy out? Yeah, brother ive been there, we all have, we weren't born into being able to talk to women, it's built by who you're around, how your parents raise you, it's all social cues and who your friends are. There are different types of ways in which we actually obtain a female, and there's more than one certain way irl other than cold approaching, you can do, and I will explain all of the ones I could get research done on and my own experiences. Let's begin.
the friend effect
I would say this effect works the best, and it's the most convenient
If you don't want to do the others. Let me explain how this effect works. In my
freshman year, I had math with this one Lhtb and my friend Brayden at the
Time I was only lmtn-mmtn [Quick note that htb was my girlfriend for a year], you get it yet?
She was already presented to me, and there were no promises that we were gonna hit it off either
, but we did yk, because I was being myself, wondering how she was presented to me? because she was
Already in my class. She was already in my school. That can go for work or a club because you see
her often. If you're in New Jersey and you see a hot girl on the street and wanna go say hi to her,
the odds of you actually getting her number are pretty slim. I know you're not always gonna have a friend
, but to fix that problem, you need to start statusmaxxing. I will leave a thread for that.The more people you
know, the easier it is to get closer to the girl through connections. https://looksmax.org/threads/the-three-parts-of-status.1957681/
The underrated method
This method is the opposite of the other one presented above
This method actually makes it easier for you not to have status and to approach the girl
If you see her in public walking or in a public place, she's most likely going somewhere, so we're
gonna have to creepmax a little for this to work, follow her a little bit, don't make it noticeable, then notice the
way she's going to take a side angle to make you see each other bump into her, make her aware of your of
presence, then it's no longer a cold approach now for the next step, you have to be at least mtn now what
What you wanna do is ask her if she's ok, and when she says she's ok, ask where she was off to, easy convo
Then work your magic, very underrated method, do NOT do it if she's with friends. I have another theory for
The fridge also, but that's all for this one. success rate
If she's with friends
I'd say this one, by far, is the most valuable information
Because if she is with someone, it makes it significantly harder because there are so many more problems
that could most likely occur, and the main one is the fridge, and in most situations, there's most likely gonna be one
Or many of you will most likely find more success with her only being with one other person, but if you have the balls
Go do it with a group, just remember they're all gonna be looking at you while you're attempting to talk to them
friend, I would not recommend it, but here is the plan: if she's with one of her friends, step one, when you walk
Say hi to both of them, not just one of them. Doing this will give the other girl a false sense of herself
about to get hit on, she got attention not just from her friend, which will make her wanna share the snack, aka the girl
and proceed talking to the girl you want, but do not leave out the other, if you do, the main girl you're trying to get
will perceive you as rude, leaving the other out, which significantly ruins your chances of success.
Feedback is loved.
Why do you have to cold approach? To get the girl you want? to show your friends you're not a pussy? I have a simple solution for you, you don't have to have you ever been pressured into walking up to a girl by your friends? You pussy out? Yeah, brother ive been there, we all have, we weren't born into being able to talk to women, it's built by who you're around, how your parents raise you, it's all social cues and who your friends are. There are different types of ways in which we actually obtain a female, and there's more than one certain way irl other than cold approaching, you can do, and I will explain all of the ones I could get research done on and my own experiences. Let's begin.
the friend effect
I would say this effect works the best, and it's the most convenient
If you don't want to do the others. Let me explain how this effect works. In my
freshman year, I had math with this one Lhtb and my friend Brayden at the
Time I was only lmtn-mmtn [Quick note that htb was my girlfriend for a year], you get it yet?
She was already presented to me, and there were no promises that we were gonna hit it off either
, but we did yk, because I was being myself, wondering how she was presented to me? because she was
Already in my class. She was already in my school. That can go for work or a club because you see
her often. If you're in New Jersey and you see a hot girl on the street and wanna go say hi to her,
the odds of you actually getting her number are pretty slim. I know you're not always gonna have a friend
, but to fix that problem, you need to start statusmaxxing. I will leave a thread for that.The more people you
know, the easier it is to get closer to the girl through connections. https://looksmax.org/threads/the-three-parts-of-status.1957681/
The underrated methodThis method is the opposite of the other one presented above
This method actually makes it easier for you not to have status and to approach the girl
If you see her in public walking or in a public place, she's most likely going somewhere, so we're
gonna have to creepmax a little for this to work, follow her a little bit, don't make it noticeable, then notice the
way she's going to take a side angle to make you see each other bump into her, make her aware of your of
presence, then it's no longer a cold approach now for the next step, you have to be at least mtn now what
What you wanna do is ask her if she's ok, and when she says she's ok, ask where she was off to, easy convo
Then work your magic, very underrated method, do NOT do it if she's with friends. I have another theory for
The fridge also, but that's all for this one. success rate
If she's with friends I'd say this one, by far, is the most valuable information
Because if she is with someone, it makes it significantly harder because there are so many more problems
that could most likely occur, and the main one is the fridge, and in most situations, there's most likely gonna be one
Or many of you will most likely find more success with her only being with one other person, but if you have the balls
Go do it with a group, just remember they're all gonna be looking at you while you're attempting to talk to them
friend, I would not recommend it, but here is the plan: if she's with one of her friends, step one, when you walk
Say hi to both of them, not just one of them. Doing this will give the other girl a false sense of herself
about to get hit on, she got attention not just from her friend, which will make her wanna share the snack, aka the girl
and proceed talking to the girl you want, but do not leave out the other, if you do, the main girl you're trying to get
will perceive you as rude, leaving the other out, which significantly ruins your chances of success.
Feedback is loved.
