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(Disclaimer: This is directed at guys older than high school age. It's still worth going for milestones in your teens. This is directed at older users who should be careermaxing)
Why do even us blackpillers spend so much time and energy trying to get girls? I'm trying to understand this.
Most of our male ancestors had wives who were taught to be submissive and supportive. Women were worth attaining back then. They added value to men's lives. But that's not how they are today (in the West at least). Culture has degraded and allowed women to be "liberated" so that now the family unit has been ruined.
All of us are aware of the state of things today. We know that most modern women are delusional, narcissistic, selfish, vapid, and cruel. Yet so many of us are still obsessed with them.
Personally, I want to improve my face because how I imagine myself in my mind doesn't match with how I look in pictures - which frustrates me - but I'd be lying if I said that I didn't start clenching my jaw harder whenever girls were around me. I have spent so many hours going out to places where I knew I'd see girls. So much time wasted just because I get a dopamine hit whenever I make eye contact with a pretty girl. But those were hours that I could have spent genuinely improving my life. I just went through my laptop's old files to delete a lot of unnecessary junk, and I scrolled through image after image that I had photoshopped or had planned to use for my instagram or dating apps. I remembered all the hours I spent on those files, and those efforts never got me any dates. It was a tragic realization for me. I wish I had all that time back.
I'm genuinely curious: if you know that modern women are trash, then why are a lot of you still trying to pursue them? If it's purely because of lust, then I don't get why you wouldn't just escortmax. Most girls have high body counts anyway.
If you can slay with ease (or a reasonably low amount of effort) then more power to you.
If you really want a good gf/wife who loves you, I don't know what to tell you. Female nature will always make her value her own well-being and feelings over you. You can't show any weakness without risking her thinking less of you. What kind of life partner is that? How can you ever get emotionally close to someone like that?
I was having this discussion with a friend who is reasonably redpilled/conservative. He was saying that the closeness you get from a wife is different and closer than you can ever get with a bro. Yet he agrees that it's probably not a good idea to cry in front of the wife, and he also agrees that women can't fully empathize with men because they haven't walked in our shoes. So I don't get it. It seems men are blinded by sexual attraction and romance.
Last thought: If women suddenly disappeared, would this site stop being used? I know that looking good helps with more than just slaying, but professional men don't care about muh collagen glow, so all of you prettyboymaxers would seem super gay.
Why do even us blackpillers spend so much time and energy trying to get girls? I'm trying to understand this.
Most of our male ancestors had wives who were taught to be submissive and supportive. Women were worth attaining back then. They added value to men's lives. But that's not how they are today (in the West at least). Culture has degraded and allowed women to be "liberated" so that now the family unit has been ruined.
All of us are aware of the state of things today. We know that most modern women are delusional, narcissistic, selfish, vapid, and cruel. Yet so many of us are still obsessed with them.
Personally, I want to improve my face because how I imagine myself in my mind doesn't match with how I look in pictures - which frustrates me - but I'd be lying if I said that I didn't start clenching my jaw harder whenever girls were around me. I have spent so many hours going out to places where I knew I'd see girls. So much time wasted just because I get a dopamine hit whenever I make eye contact with a pretty girl. But those were hours that I could have spent genuinely improving my life. I just went through my laptop's old files to delete a lot of unnecessary junk, and I scrolled through image after image that I had photoshopped or had planned to use for my instagram or dating apps. I remembered all the hours I spent on those files, and those efforts never got me any dates. It was a tragic realization for me. I wish I had all that time back.
I'm genuinely curious: if you know that modern women are trash, then why are a lot of you still trying to pursue them? If it's purely because of lust, then I don't get why you wouldn't just escortmax. Most girls have high body counts anyway.
If you can slay with ease (or a reasonably low amount of effort) then more power to you.
If you really want a good gf/wife who loves you, I don't know what to tell you. Female nature will always make her value her own well-being and feelings over you. You can't show any weakness without risking her thinking less of you. What kind of life partner is that? How can you ever get emotionally close to someone like that?
I was having this discussion with a friend who is reasonably redpilled/conservative. He was saying that the closeness you get from a wife is different and closer than you can ever get with a bro. Yet he agrees that it's probably not a good idea to cry in front of the wife, and he also agrees that women can't fully empathize with men because they haven't walked in our shoes. So I don't get it. It seems men are blinded by sexual attraction and romance.
Last thought: If women suddenly disappeared, would this site stop being used? I know that looking good helps with more than just slaying, but professional men don't care about muh collagen glow, so all of you prettyboymaxers would seem super gay.
