Why does every girl on dates accuse me of being shy

[Deleted member 145680]

I'm not even shy I just speak normal. In fact I notice I even speak more than them most of the time

Is shy just a code word for autism or why do they think im shy??

 

[FiendFiend]

cuz u r babe

 

[Foreverbrad]

You’re acting non-NT somehow.
It’s also not just about interacting with her but the environment around you.

Like for example when I went on my last date about 1.5 years ago we went hiking and she constantly would say hi to people or ask to pet their dogs and so on. I blocked her afterwards because I knew I can’t match her energy…

You are probably fixating on the task (whatever you’re doing + getting laid) too much and it’s making you seem not outgoing.

Frankly I can’t be fucked with any of it any more, either I’m chad enough to get invited directly to her bed or I’m incel.

 

[albanianblackguy]

You’re acting non-NT somehow.
It’s also not just about interacting with her but the environment around you.

Like for example when I went on my last date about 1.5 years ago we went hiking and she constantly would say hi to people or ask to pet their dogs and so on. I blocked her afterwards because I knew I can’t match her energy…

You are probably fixating on the task (whatever you’re doing + getting laid) too much and it’s making you seem not outgoing.

Frankly I can’t be fucked with any of it any more, either I’m chad enough to get invited directly to her bed or I’m incel.

if u care too much its ova cuz they sense it with their desperate incel sensor, just half assing the date works great ime

 

[Deleted member 145680]

You’re acting non-NT somehow.
It’s also not just about interacting with her but the environment around you.

Like for example when I went on my last date about 1.5 years ago we went hiking and she constantly would say hi to people or ask to pet their dogs and so on. I blocked her afterwards because I knew I can’t match her energy…

You are probably fixating on the task (whatever you’re doing + getting laid) too much and it’s making you seem not outgoing.

Frankly I can’t be fucked with any of it any more, either I’m chad enough to get invited directly to her bed or I’m incel.

I agree I think im acting non nt but I don't know what aspect is non nt

I speak to people sometimes and pet people's dogs on the dare I just went on

And I want even trying ti slay it was just a first meet outside cos I actually want a gf ans friend and not desperate for sex

How to fix this tho and seem more outgoing

 

[Panzram]

I'm not even shy I just speak normal. In fact I notice I even speak more than them most of the time

Is shy just a code word for autism or why do they think im shy??

You need to grab her by the pussy on the first date to show you are low inhib and establish dominance. Rookie mistake.

 

[Panzram]

You’re acting non-NT somehow.
It’s also not just about interacting with her but the environment around you.

Like for example when I went on my last date about 1.5 years ago we went hiking and she constantly would say hi to people or ask to pet their dogs and so on. I blocked her afterwards because I knew I can’t match her energy…

You are probably fixating on the task (whatever you’re doing + getting laid) too much and it’s making you seem not outgoing.

Frankly I can’t be fucked with any of it any more, either I’m chad enough to get invited directly to her bed or I’m incel.

Based all or nothing man.

 

[sub5outsider]

your probably over doing something and doesnt look authentic