Why does this happen to me ?

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For some context , I just graduated high school last year and I'm currently in a gap year
I have been approached and liked by girls in my school life especially high school
Last year in 12th grade, some girls liked me and two of em even approached me IRL
So I began the talking stage , and came to know that those girls were the types to "take things slowly " in terms of sex and intimacy in a relationship
And this was not the first time, in my entirety of high school life I've been liked and approached by these types of girls ( no they weren't hoes trust me ) it just makes me mad cause what's the point of dating and relationship if you're gonna make me wait for sex for quite a while , I'd rather be invisible to women rather than have to face this experience ffs
 
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That's why , while dating these girls i backed out immediately
 
they wont wanna feel like whores but they still are
 
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For some context , I just graduated high school last year and I'm currently in a gap year
I have been approached and liked by girls in my school life especially high school
Last year in 12th grade, some girls liked me and two of em even approached me IRL
So I began the talking stage , and came to know that those girls were the types to "take things slowly " in terms of sex and intimacy in a relationship
And this was not the first time, in my entirety of high school life I've been liked and approached by these types of girls ( no they weren't hoes trust me ) it just makes me mad cause what's the point of dating and relationship if you're gonna make me wait for sex for quite a while , I'd rather be invisible to women rather than have to face this experience ffs
If they approach
But still wait
It’s very weird
 
If they approach
But still wait
It’s very weird
Exactly man
They showed interest first and shit
Yet this still happens
 
they wont wanna feel like whores but they still are
See i get what you're talking about
But i know very well about the signs which can tell us if they're whores or not
many of them were not
 
Girls will be willing to have sex with men they truly like on the same day they meet them
 
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Girls will be willing to have sex with men they truly like on the same day they meet them
It's weird cause good chunk of em approached me first, either IRL or online by messaging me first on ig
If I was really unattractive to them, i shoulda been invisible but instead I get this situation
 
It's weird cause good chunk of em approached me first, either IRL or online by messaging me first on ig
If I was really unattractive to them, i shoulda been invisible but instead I get this situation
Be more aggressive and try to get them alone at your place as soon as possible
 
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Be more aggressive and try to get them alone at your place as soon as possible
I don't think that'd work imo cause they'll make it easy for you in the first place
 
For some context , I just graduated high school last year and I'm currently in a gap year
I have been approached and liked by girls in my school life especially high school
Last year in 12th grade, some girls liked me and two of em even approached me IRL
So I began the talking stage , and came to know that those girls were the types to "take things slowly " in terms of sex and intimacy in a relationship
And this was not the first time, in my entirety of high school life I've been liked and approached by these types of girls ( no they weren't hoes trust me ) it just makes me mad cause what's the point of dating and relationship if you're gonna make me wait for sex for quite a while , I'd rather be invisible to women rather than have to face this experience ffs
As a sub-7 man it is very unlikely a somewhat looksmatched girl will be easy to sleep with. The majority of girls don't even like sex unless it's with a 7+ , it is something they give up for the attention and other perks of a LTR. How long is quite a while ? I would just swallow the fact that chad treatment is only reserved for chads , and you will have to somewhat jester till you get laid. At the end of the day I know sex is put on a pedestal but it is not everything , as long as you feel you receive genuine attraction and good treatment from a FOID otherwise ( e.g do you guys kiss passionately ? Does she initiate or are you chasing ? ) enjoy it bro, it is more than most of us get. There is always a reacher and a settler in a relationship , you always want to be the settler for best treatment.
 
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because they feel that sex is healthmin and they not masochistic
 
As a sub-7 man it is very unlikely a somewhat looksmatched girl will be easy to sleep with. The majority of girls don't even like sex unless it's with a 7+ , it is something they give up for the attention and other perks of a LTR. How long is quite a while ? I would just swallow the fact that chad treatment is only reserved for chads , and you will have to somewhat jester till you get laid. At the end of the day I know sex is put on a pedestal but it is not everything , as long as you feel you receive genuine attraction and good treatment from a FOID otherwise ( e.g do you guys kiss passionately ? Does she initiate or are you chasing ? ) enjoy it bro, it is more than most of us get. There is always a reacher and a settler in a relationship , you always want to be the settler for best treatment.
Good reply man
Also about the "how long is quite a while ?"
I've reached that kissing stage in just a starting few dates but about getting laid , they kinda make it clear that it's still gonna take a few months for that stage
Also the good treatment is usually there apart from intimacy like in terms of their behaviour and respect, so you're somewhat correct ig
 
relationship without intimacy is nothing, these foids call us thirsty but are we not even allowed to have sexual fantasies now?
 
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For some context , I just graduated high school last year and I'm currently in a gap year
I have been approached and liked by girls in my school life especially high school
Last year in 12th grade, some girls liked me and two of em even approached me IRL
So I began the talking stage , and came to know that those girls were the types to "take things slowly " in terms of sex and intimacy in a relationship
And this was not the first time, in my entirety of high school life I've been liked and approached by these types of girls ( no they weren't hoes trust me ) it just makes me mad cause what's the point of dating and relationship if you're gonna make me wait for sex for quite a while , I'd rather be invisible to women rather than have to face this experience ffs
You'll get the pussy when the uterus hangs out of it. Until then, be patient.
 

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