Why is liking someone for their looks considered "shallow"

[Amnesia]

when ur looks are just an outward expression of everything inside u, Its anything but shallow, u can gauge a ton of information from someones looks and face than almost anything else in such a short amount of time

ur dna
pheno
how u developed through womb and post birth
nutrients saturation through development
fighting success
trustworthiness
tendencies towards psychopathy

 

[maxmendietta]

Society Coping tbh.

everyone wants to feel special over things they can control like personality and how "good" they are as a "person"

not about innate things like your body and genes

 

[oldcell]

She only truly like yourself is she like you for your genetics package or personality

Nothing else counts

 

[Deleted member 1751]

when ur looks are just an outward expression of everything inside u, Its anything but shallow, u can gauge a ton of information from someones looks and face than almost anything else in such a short amount of time

ur dna
pheno
how u developed through womb and post birth
nutrients saturation through development
fighting success
trustworthiness
tendencies towards psychopathy

You shouldn't care about something people can't change( height, facial features etc ) you should only care about his character, hinesty etc normally. This is what they say.
I think it's true outside dating context

 

[john2]

I don't see how it's shallow.

But any woman will choose a morally correct chad over some abusive low IQ chad.

 

[tulasdanslos]

It's quite an interesting debate because considering the blackpill consensus is that free will doesn't exist, valuing personality is no less shallow because the person has no choice over their personality - it's determined solely by their genetics and environment.

I used to believe in determinism as well, but the free will gang won me over recently.

On topic, I don't see it as shallow anymore, lust is the closest thing to love that a female can profess to you. Everyone saying otherwise can keep crying for their subhumanity.

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Gazzamogga]

I could write a serious reply but I cba and everyone would disagree anyway

 

[Deleted member 5187]

Doesn't even matter if it's shallow or not.
All do it no matter or how hard they try not too.
It's a evolutionary trait we inherited for a reason and it's here for a reason, coping won't get rid of it.

You either accept your place in social hierarchy or try to move up the latter as a blackpilled individual.

 

[BonesAndHarmony]

Shallow = not capaple of high IQ, profound thinking. Choosing a partner based on his appearance is low IQ , primitive, caused by an animalistic impulse, devoid of any serious thinking, that's why it's shallow.
The Blackpill is that humans are not that different from animals anyway (especially women), so saying that choosing a partner based on his looks is shallow is a bluepilled normie cope.

 

[Deleted member 6942]

when ur looks are just an outward expression of everything inside u, Its anything but shallow, u can gauge a ton of information from someones looks and face than almost anything else in such a short amount of time

ur dna
pheno
how u developed through womb and post birth
nutrients saturation through development
fighting success
trustworthiness
tendencies towards psychopathy

I'm interested how is tendency towards psychopathy expressed in terms of looks?

 

[Ascensionrequired]

when ur looks are just an outward expression of everything inside u, Its anything but shallow, u can gauge a ton of information from someones looks and face than almost anything else in such a short amount of time

ur dna
pheno
how u developed through womb and post birth
nutrients saturation through development
fighting success
trustworthiness
tendencies towards psychopathy

This one hit hard.

I used to believe in determinism as well, but the free will gang won me over recently.

On topic, I don't see it as shallow anymore, lust is the closest thing to love that a female can profess to you. Everyone saying otherwise can keep crying for their subhumanity.

How did the free willies win you over?

 

[Deleted member 6305]

I never liked someone just because of their looks, looks are important, but again, I'm mentally ill so my opinion doesn't apply to the majority.

 

[Deleted member 4231]

Society Coping tbh.

everyone wants to feel special over things they can control like personality and how "good" they are as a "person"

not about innate things like your body and genes

people like to think they are the sole cause for their success,

a gl 6'5 giga chad would like to attribute his success to muh "preserverance" and "dedication"

Because the idea that you have such little influence over who you are and what you do frightens people. We truly don't understand how little control we have

 

[tulasdanslos]

How did the free willies win you over?

This lecture.

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Golang]

I'm interested how is tendency towards psychopathy expressed in terms of looks?

The uglier you’re, the higher the chances of you going ER

 

[Chadlitecel]

Thats bluepilled cope . Men are just animals, in the caveman times men didnt pass all the day socializing and knowing each other. They just looked at someone face and in seconds they could determine if he was a danger , a possible ally or a useless person.

 

[AutisticBeaner]

people just want to believe that we're "better" than animals

 

[Arkantos]

people just want to believe that we're "better" than animals

Pretty much sums it up

 

[Amnesia]

I'm interested how is tendency towards psychopathy expressed in terms of looks?

Apparently they can. There are composite faces of people with more dark triad tendencies. And the bigger blackpill, is that women find the faces with higher dark triad tendencies MORE attractive.

Fig. 1. Dark triad prototypes.

Download scientific diagram | Dark triad prototypes. from publication: Facing a psychopath: Detecting the Dark Triad from emotionally-neutral faces, using prototypes from the Personality Faceaurus | Is facial structure a valid cue of the dark triad of personality (Machiavellianism, narcissism...

www.researchgate.net

 

[Kade]

because you have no control over it

you can control what you say, how you act, you can realize for yourself what music you listen to and like, etc

you have very little control of your looks, even if they are basically your entire physical manifestation

 

[Amnesia]

because you have no control over it

you can control what you say, how you act, you can realize for yourself what music you listen to and like, etc

you have very little control of your looks, even if they are basically your entire physical manifestation

I would make the same argument that u dont have much control over ur personality

 

[Kade]

I would make the same argument that u dont have much control over ur personality

i know what you mean

i think it just feels more visceral, the elements of u in ur personality

you don’t constantly see yourself in public or social interactions (obviously) but you can feel when you are having a meaningful conversation or bonding with someone

so when you get judged/rejected etc because of your looks it feels like a more detached blow... like they weren’t rejecting you as a person, just your outer appearance, idk

 

[Deleted member 6942]

Apparently they can. There are composite faces of people with more dark triad tendencies. And the bigger blackpill, is that women find the faces with higher dark triad tendencies MORE attractive.

Fig. 1. Dark triad prototypes.

Download scientific diagram | Dark triad prototypes. from publication: Facing a psychopath: Detecting the Dark Triad from emotionally-neutral faces, using prototypes from the Personality Faceaurus | Is facial structure a valid cue of the dark triad of personality (Machiavellianism, narcissism...

www.researchgate.net

Did not know this, thanks. Yeah of course they prefer those did not even need to say it lol