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to cope, you have to imagine yourself as a soldier. God has assigned you to a post, a barrack. Some soldiers get sent to Germany, some to Afghanistan. If He gives you a harsh, cold barrack to guard (being LTN), do you abandon it? You have to accept that this is your mission. Doing this with resentment will kill you : that mindset of 'I can’t have it, so I will pretend I don’t want it.' But with true acceptance, what’s in your control is your integrity, the way you carry yourself and behave. Everyone will rot anyway, your character remains as what is really judged. genuine dude in a tough spot is still admired and trusted, slave is looked down on no matter how wealthy.