FutureSlayer
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THE MOVIE THEORY
by FutureSlayer
After years of informing myself, experimenting with different approaches and immersing myself in the blackpill culture I developed a personal side belief system that I intend to present to you in this thread.
These are extrapolations from old redpill and PUA theories that still find confirmation in the field of long term relationships and less in short term ones, contrary to what these gentlemen said in the early 2000s.
Looks open the door, but an essential factor is necessary to make a relationship last and to guarantee you fullness and spiritual satisfaction, a factor that I have defined as MOMENTUM.
What is it?
The Latin word MOMENTUM means movement, impulse, push
In general it indicates the condition of motion and not staticity.
Looks open the door for the beginning of the relationship, status allows you to make her believe that you are irreplaceable and rare, and money allows the other two conditions to subsist (assuming you are 25+ and sub chad otherwise you can safely be homeless).
These three conditions alone are not enough and this is where MOMENTUM comes into play.
It is about giving a direction to the relationship and pursuing it. This can be obtained in various ways and makes sure that boredom does not take hold in the girl’s psyche and prevents her mind hamstering (research this specific term if you have no clue what the old redpill preaches about).
Obviously it requires a considerable expenditure of energy and effort, so it is up to you to decide whether it is worth pursuing them or dedicating your days to something else.
Case study 1: The subpar option - the surrogates
Read the OG quality and primitivity theory before proceeding: https://incels.wiki/w/Quality_and_primitivity_theory
1. Relationship with an HQNP girl : Trad Larp
When dealing with a high-quality non-primitive girl, the way to maintain momentum often takes the form of trad larping.
During my experiments in my 3-year ltr, I tried to establish a set of christian-like rules, such as praying before eating, or having her let me manage the relationship. This created an environment of semi-submission to a plan and a semblance of momentum towards a direction (family, children, stability, etc.).
This setup gives the illusion of structure and forward movement, and it can work temporarily. However, it’s fragile: as time went on, the relationship started to tumble down, and I realized trad larping only lasts up to a certain point. It is, essentially, a surrogate momentum.
WARNING:
If she's the sjw type just larp morals in the libleft category such as fighting together for feminism and such, you just need to give her something to strive for.
During my experiments in my 3-year ltr, I tried to establish a set of christian-like rules, such as praying before eating, or having her let me manage the relationship. This created an environment of semi-submission to a plan and a semblance of momentum towards a direction (family, children, stability, etc.).
This setup gives the illusion of structure and forward movement, and it can work temporarily. However, it’s fragile: as time went on, the relationship started to tumble down, and I realized trad larping only lasts up to a certain point. It is, essentially, a surrogate momentum.
WARNING:
If she's the sjw type just larp morals in the libleft category such as fighting together for feminism and such, you just need to give her something to strive for.
2. Relationship with an HQP girl : Crime Larp
For a high-quality primitive girl, momentum can also be generated through what I’ll call crime larping.
Here, the relationship is framed almost like living inside an action movie: chaos, risk, drama, and indulgence. The direction in this case isn’t about family or long-term stability, but instead a purely hedonistic and consumeristic pursuit of thrills.
It’s another temporary surrogate. Just like trad larp with an HQNP girl, crime larp with an HQP girl eventually collapses under its own weight.
It’s excitement on borrowed time, and it can never replace the deeper, more sustainable form of momentum that a relationship needs.
Here, the relationship is framed almost like living inside an action movie: chaos, risk, drama, and indulgence. The direction in this case isn’t about family or long-term stability, but instead a purely hedonistic and consumeristic pursuit of thrills.
It’s another temporary surrogate. Just like trad larp with an HQNP girl, crime larp with an HQP girl eventually collapses under its own weight.
It’s excitement on borrowed time, and it can never replace the deeper, more sustainable form of momentum that a relationship needs.
Case study 2: The premium option - social circle and money
This is the true catalyst of MOMENTUM.
Integrating your girlfriend into the circle, telling her gossip about your friends and so on generates a momentum without equals.
Note how girls in the absence of it often take refuge in escapism media such as watching Netflix drama series on repeat.
This is where the Movie theory finds its maximum expression, as her relationship with you will not only be shaped upon your personality alone, but a set of MULTIPLE friends, experiences and such that are extremely difficult to be replaced on a whim.
NO, it's not just about your status, it gives the lussion of rarity but can vanish if it does not find feedback in her experiences, as numbers on a screen don't catalyze emotions, FRIENDS do
TLDR.
Obtaining a wide social circle in which to integrate her, composed of eclectic and chaotic personalities that create drama continuously, and having enough money to always make her do new experiences weekly, will guarantee 99% that the relationship will not derail (assuming that the LMS condition does not suffer damage).
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