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Are looks more important in nightclubs than in social circle game or regular familiar settings game: Yes
But that doesn't mean that simply reaching a certain looks level equates to success if you are lacking in certain behavioural tendencies
In environments full of strangers under time pressure (nightclubs) what matters is being instantly readable, playful and uninvested in any kind of outcome
Everything has to remain surface level because being hard to read means instant disqualification.
A girl doesn't care that some guy she interacts with mogs 95% of the venue, if she can't instantly tell everything she feels she needs to know about him, she will disqualify him for some other guy who passes her looks threshold who she can tell everything about instantly.
Showing any degree of investment or attachment to the outcome of an interaction is an instant disqualification because women seek men with the least pressure inducing behaviour in environments that are under time pressure.
This is why they choose the uninvested, carefree playful guys who are easy to read.
If you can't convey everything about how you're expected to behave within the first 10 seconds of the interaction foids will immediately lose interest because not readable = too much investment required to determine if things are worth pursuing.
If you're the kind of person who gives laser focus attention to girls in the early stages of getting to know them because it takes time and exposure to substance for you to feel comfortable around each new person you meet, you will instantly put women off because it's interpreted as too much investment and too much pressure in an environment where they're already conscious of time pressure.
This is why interactions in clubs must remain:
light, fast, low-stakes, momentum-based
Depth, intensity and evaluation kills momentum.
As soon as a girl reads your behaviour in an interaction and detects:
He wants to evaluate me
He wants to delve beyond surface level
He could be invested in the outcome
It is too much pressure in her mind so she just moves onto the next guy who will engage in low stakes, surface level interactions
I went out recently and just stood at the side of the dancefloor completely zoned out, not caring about how I was being perceived
A group of 3 decent looking foids walked up to me and stood in front of me facing me, trying to bait me into making a move
What they wanted in that moment was normie programming behaviour to ensue which would be low effort and make me easily readable
But the very traits I possess that allowed me to enter a club by myself and stand on my own and being secure in my own gravitas rather than needing safety in numbers are the traits that prevent me from ever capitalizing on such interactions with foids because they can tell 10 seconds into the interaction that I don't fit the bill of the readable, low pressure, non evaluating normies they seek to interact with
I mog my 18 year old self physically to a massive extent
But the brutal thing is, my 18 year old self prior to doing a single thing to improve my looks already passed the looks threshold for the majority of girls in clubs to entertain interactions with me
I always thought that the thing preventing me from getting these interactions over the line and converting them into slays was not mogging hard enough
The reality is that the fundamental barrier was always my brain wiring and my default behavioural tendencies which are magnitudes harder to change than looks.
Improving my looks just gave me more leeway to find a range of girls who would accept that they're my dumpster dive destination and not scrutinize my behaviour the way above average looking girls do.
Improving my looks didn't make slaying above average girls any easier, it just made them more likely to give IOIs and approach me
I still fail at the first hurdle of the interaction, whereas when I'm working as a bouncer they drag the interaction out more but I still fail at the second hurdle (converting the number swap into a slay) because even if they couldn't put their finger on it, they sensed something off about the interaction compared to what they're adapted to and familiar with.
It doesn't matter if they repeatedly requested my number and begged me to wait for them at the end of the night, the moment they have a milisecond to reflect on the prospect of giving their body to a man who didn't adhere to the low stakes surface level script she's used to, she abandons any opportunity for things to be pursued.
You cannot looksmax your way into having success with goodlooking girls if you have a brain wiring that's introspective and values depth over surface level interactions.
Goodlooking girls are bombarded by a very specific kind of vibe and approach from men from the time they begin puberty, when they interact with men who don't fit that specific kind of approach, their brain signals unfamiliar which they categorize as abnormal so goodlooking girls auto reject men who they regard as difficult to read since it creates friction.
In the Shittish Isles in particular, absolutely every interaction is surface level and performative.
People are evaluated entirely based on categories, and if you don't behave like the category which you look like you should belong to, you are instantly ostracized unless you find a girl who's so enamoured by your looks that she gives you the opportunity to use her as your dumpster dive destination before she has enough time to figure out just how non adherent your personality is with your perceived physical archetype
But that doesn't mean that simply reaching a certain looks level equates to success if you are lacking in certain behavioural tendencies
In environments full of strangers under time pressure (nightclubs) what matters is being instantly readable, playful and uninvested in any kind of outcome
Everything has to remain surface level because being hard to read means instant disqualification.
A girl doesn't care that some guy she interacts with mogs 95% of the venue, if she can't instantly tell everything she feels she needs to know about him, she will disqualify him for some other guy who passes her looks threshold who she can tell everything about instantly.
Showing any degree of investment or attachment to the outcome of an interaction is an instant disqualification because women seek men with the least pressure inducing behaviour in environments that are under time pressure.
This is why they choose the uninvested, carefree playful guys who are easy to read.
If you can't convey everything about how you're expected to behave within the first 10 seconds of the interaction foids will immediately lose interest because not readable = too much investment required to determine if things are worth pursuing.
If you're the kind of person who gives laser focus attention to girls in the early stages of getting to know them because it takes time and exposure to substance for you to feel comfortable around each new person you meet, you will instantly put women off because it's interpreted as too much investment and too much pressure in an environment where they're already conscious of time pressure.
This is why interactions in clubs must remain:
light, fast, low-stakes, momentum-based
Depth, intensity and evaluation kills momentum.
As soon as a girl reads your behaviour in an interaction and detects:
He wants to evaluate me
He wants to delve beyond surface level
He could be invested in the outcome
It is too much pressure in her mind so she just moves onto the next guy who will engage in low stakes, surface level interactions
I went out recently and just stood at the side of the dancefloor completely zoned out, not caring about how I was being perceived
A group of 3 decent looking foids walked up to me and stood in front of me facing me, trying to bait me into making a move
What they wanted in that moment was normie programming behaviour to ensue which would be low effort and make me easily readable
But the very traits I possess that allowed me to enter a club by myself and stand on my own and being secure in my own gravitas rather than needing safety in numbers are the traits that prevent me from ever capitalizing on such interactions with foids because they can tell 10 seconds into the interaction that I don't fit the bill of the readable, low pressure, non evaluating normies they seek to interact with
I mog my 18 year old self physically to a massive extent
But the brutal thing is, my 18 year old self prior to doing a single thing to improve my looks already passed the looks threshold for the majority of girls in clubs to entertain interactions with me
I always thought that the thing preventing me from getting these interactions over the line and converting them into slays was not mogging hard enough
The reality is that the fundamental barrier was always my brain wiring and my default behavioural tendencies which are magnitudes harder to change than looks.
Improving my looks just gave me more leeway to find a range of girls who would accept that they're my dumpster dive destination and not scrutinize my behaviour the way above average looking girls do.
Improving my looks didn't make slaying above average girls any easier, it just made them more likely to give IOIs and approach me
I still fail at the first hurdle of the interaction, whereas when I'm working as a bouncer they drag the interaction out more but I still fail at the second hurdle (converting the number swap into a slay) because even if they couldn't put their finger on it, they sensed something off about the interaction compared to what they're adapted to and familiar with.
It doesn't matter if they repeatedly requested my number and begged me to wait for them at the end of the night, the moment they have a milisecond to reflect on the prospect of giving their body to a man who didn't adhere to the low stakes surface level script she's used to, she abandons any opportunity for things to be pursued.
You cannot looksmax your way into having success with goodlooking girls if you have a brain wiring that's introspective and values depth over surface level interactions.
Goodlooking girls are bombarded by a very specific kind of vibe and approach from men from the time they begin puberty, when they interact with men who don't fit that specific kind of approach, their brain signals unfamiliar which they categorize as abnormal so goodlooking girls auto reject men who they regard as difficult to read since it creates friction.
In the Shittish Isles in particular, absolutely every interaction is surface level and performative.
People are evaluated entirely based on categories, and if you don't behave like the category which you look like you should belong to, you are instantly ostracized unless you find a girl who's so enamoured by your looks that she gives you the opportunity to use her as your dumpster dive destination before she has enough time to figure out just how non adherent your personality is with your perceived physical archetype
