Why “Onieitis” is even a thing

[Deleted member 2012]

As we all know, attraction is primarily looks based. Before the invention of marriage people just fucked the best looking partner they could snatch with their own looks and that was it. But after marriage became heavily ingrained in our society, it changed the world.

Society glorifies this idea of “finding the one” so people are conditioned to develop a crush and start idealizing the idea of being in a relationship with this one person. They start obsessing over that one person and imagining how perfect they would be together.

Self unaware normies basically just randomly pick one of the people that they are attracted to, to be their “crush”. I’m guilty of that myself. And then we’ll just find some random cope to justify it. We fail to realize that we could’ve just as easily be fantasizing about a different girl and thinking we would be “perfect for each other”

Society also glorifies the unrealistic idea of “falling in love with someone’s personality” so basically when we are attracted to someone (for of their looks) we tend to analyze their personality and try to find some specific character trait that we will then tell ourselves is the reason we like that person. It’s just a cope.

We wanna believe that we “have so much in common” and that’s why we’d make a great couple.

But at the end of the day we wouldn’t be attracted to an ugly girl that has those personality traits. And we would still be attracted to a hot girl that doesn’t.

TLDR: Oneitis is a cope society made up, looks are everything

 

[Petsmart]

hmm i spent 30 seconds to confirm that yes water may actually still be wet

 

[Disabledcel]

I wish I realised sooner

 

[Slayer]

I was gonna say didnt read but then I read the tldr so that would have been a lie

 

[Deleted member 2012]

I was gonna say didnt read but then I read the tldr so that would have been a lie

Read it

 

[Slayer]

Read it

I will set a microsoft outlook reminder to read this post tomorrow morning at 10:00 AM
(update: i didn't do it)

 

[ChaddeusPeuterschmit]

This and alot of guys who don't get attention from females very often or don't have sex very often will "Love" the first girl that shows them affection. Truth is they don't "Love" the girl, they just love the attention and sex and thus cling to them like a simp which is why so many guys get heart broken. They never really loved them they just loved the attention and sex they got and are sad that its gone

 

[RichardSpencel]

Didn't read but my oneitis rejected me on Valentine's Day

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

I'll tell you who I'm not you dog. A t. soy cuckold who gets offended after typing spurious diatribe and can't take any comebacks. May your life experiences be concordant with your t levels and iq. You are too brain dead to appreciate anything but superficial threads about adding more fucking vitamin c to your moisturiser. I hope you suffer terribly until your last breath.

 

[john2]

Didn't read but my oneitis rejected me on Valentine's Day

Tell her to suck your mog.

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

This and alot of guys who don't get attention from females very often or don't have sex very often will "Love" the first girl that shows them affection. Truth is they don't "Love" the girl, they just love the attention and sex and thus cling to them like a simp which is why so many guys get heart broken. They never really loved them they just loved the attention and sex they got and are sad that its gone

Society

 

[Chadeep]

They Think their Crush is NAWALT but in reality she is getting boned by 10 diff Chad's most of the time.

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

As we all know, attraction is primarily looks based. Before the invention of marriage people just fucked the best looking partner they could snatch with their own looks and that was it. But after marriage became heavily ingrained in our society, it changed the world.

Society glorifies this idea of “finding the one” so people are conditioned to develop a crush and start idealizing the idea of being in a relationship with this one person. They start obsessing over that one person and imagining how perfect they would be together.

Self unaware normies basically just randomly pick one of the people that they are attracted to, to be their “crush”. I’m guilty of that myself. And then we’ll just find some random cope to justify it. We fail to realize that we could’ve just as easily be fantasizing about a different girl and thinking we would be “perfect for each other”

Society also glorifies the unrealistic idea of “falling in love with someone’s personality” so basically when we are attracted to someone (for of their looks) we tend to analyze their personality and try to find some specific character trait that we will then tell ourselves is the reason we like that person. It’s just a cope.

We wanna believe that we “have so much in common” and that’s why we’d make a great couple.

But at the end of the day we wouldn’t be attracted to an ugly girl that has those personality traits. And we would still be attracted to a hot girl that doesn’t.

TLDR: Oneitis is a cope society made up, looks are everything

As we all know, attraction is primarily looks based. Before the invention of marriage people just fucked the best looking partner they could snatch with their own looks and that was it. But after marriage became heavily ingrained in our society, it changed the world.

Society glorifies this idea of “finding the one” so people are conditioned to develop a crush and start idealizing the idea of being in a relationship with this one person. They start obsessing over that one person and imagining how perfect they would be together.

Self unaware normies basically just randomly pick one of the people that they are attracted to, to be their “crush”. I’m guilty of that myself. And then we’ll just find some random cope to justify it. We fail to realize that we could’ve just as easily be fantasizing about a different girl and thinking we would be “perfect for each other”

Society also glorifies the unrealistic idea of “falling in love with someone’s personality” so basically when we are attracted to someone (for of their looks) we tend to analyze their personality and try to find some specific character trait that we will then tell ourselves is the reason we like that person. It’s just a cope.

We wanna believe that we “have so much in common” and that’s why we’d make a great couple.

But at the end of the day we wouldn’t be attracted to an ugly girl that has those personality traits. And we would still be attracted to a hot girl that doesn’t.

TLDR: Oneitis is a cope society made up, looks are everything

Society

 

[yang]

Wrong.

Oneitis stems from the way we were meant to live; as nomadic tribes. Back then, you would want to pair bond; it was optimal for the offspring. There were only so many humans you would see. Two parents isn't a societal thing either, you see it in nature all the time. Oneitis is your brain identifying a possible pair bond, which is useless in modern society due to abundance.

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

Wrong.

Oneitis stems from the way we were meant to live; as nomadic tribes. Back then, you would want to pair bond; it was optimal for the offspring. There were only so many humans you would see. Two parents isn't a societal thing either, you see it in nature all the time. Oneitis is your brain identifying a possible pair bond, which is useless in modern society due to abundance.

Yup

not useless in modern society tho

good luck raising kids on your own