Why personality is effected by looks

[laworg]

Personality and appearance are more connected than most people think. Good-looking people often get more attention, compliments, and positive reactions from a young age. This builds their confidence and gives them more chances to speak, connect, and develop strong social skills. Over time, they become more outgoing—not just because of who they are, but because of how they’re treated.

Meanwhile, people who aren’t seen as attractive may get ignored or overlooked. They might feel less confident, speak up less, and avoid social situations. Their personality becomes more reserved, not because they want it to be, but because of fewer chances to grow socially.

In short, being good-looking often leads to more social opportunities, which helps shape personality. It’s not just about looks or charm it’s about experience. That’s why kindness and giving people space to shine matters, no matter what they look like.

 

[Afrab]

Water

 

[laworg]

Personality and appearance are more connected than most people think. Good-looking people often get more attention, compliments, and positive reactions from a young age. This builds their confidence and gives them more chances to speak, connect, and develop strong social skills. Over time, they become more outgoing—not just because of who they are, but because of how they’re treated.

Meanwhile, people who aren’t seen as attractive may get ignored or overlooked. They might feel less confident, speak up less, and avoid social situations. Their personality becomes more reserved, not because they want it to be, but because of fewer chances to grow socially.

In short, being good-looking often leads to more social opportunities, which helps shape personality. It’s not just about looks or charm it’s about experience. That’s why kindness and giving people space to shine matters, no matter what they look like.

@diditeverbegin

 

[Bryce]

Yeah, this is the same situation with dark triad. If someone has "dark triad" looks or "looks intimidating", chances are they are, because that's how they've been treated all their life and in turn that's how they must act in accordance to their treatment

 

[diditeverbegin]

@diditeverbegin

Yeah, it is true. There is a genetic component to personality as well, and IQ is correlated with attractiveness. I can't remember the r-value for it

 

[Bryce]

Yeah, it is true. There is a genetic component to personality as well, and IQ is correlated with attractiveness. I can't remember the r-value for it

The "dumb hot guy" was a trope made by normies to makes other normies feel better about themselves

 

[laworg]

The "dumb hot guy" was a trope made by normies to makes other normies feel better about themselves

Yes lol i hate that

 

[diditeverbegin]

Yeah, it is true. There is a genetic component to personality as well, and IQ is correlated with attractiveness. I can't remember the r-value for it

I forgot to even add this part to it, but I was going to say that is why people think good genes come in packages. I don't know if that's really true

 

[Bryce]

I forgot to even add this part to it, but I was going to say that is why people think good genes come in packages. I don't know if that's really true

Doesn't seem far-fetched. Dolph Lundgren, 160 IQ, 6'5", jacked, and Chad pheno. There's a few others but he's probably the best example of a genetically unmoggable human

 

[appealisLAW]

i feel like in general, personality is a genetic or built in trait. You can't just wake up one day and decide you are going to be outgoing and charismatic, good looking or not.

 

[laworg]

i feel like in general, personality is a genetic or built in trait. You can't just wake up one day and decide you are going to be outgoing and charismatic, good looking or not.

Thats why alot of ppl even on .org after getting surgery and ascending it wont makeup for the years if isolation

 

[diditeverbegin]

The "dumb hot guy" was a trope made by normies to makes other normies feel better about themselves

Yes lol i hate that

Giga cope. Have you guys seen Vivek's rant about how American culture celebrated the wrong people? He is still jealous of others' exp during high school

It probably has to do something with effort and academic performance. Real intellectually blessed people don't have to try in schools, or barely do

 

[diditeverbegin]

Thats why alot of ppl even on .org after getting surgery and ascending it wont makeup for the years if isolation

99% of people here aren't touching the complex osteotomies they ramble about and should just get fillers anyway.

 

[appealisLAW]

Giga cope. Have you guys seen Vivek's rant about how American culture celebrated the wrong people? He is still jealous of others' exp during high school

It probably has to do something with effort and academic performance. Real intellectually blessed people don't have to try in schools, or barely do

I have seen some rly good looking low inhib guys online and in real life tho (Cillian Murphy)

 

[diditeverbegin]

I have seen some rly good looking low inhib guys online and in real life tho (Cillian Murphy)

Idk if it sounded like i was saying they were coping. I meant those movies that paint attractive ppl as stupid

 

[appealisLAW]

Also most of low inhib people that i had encountered (GL or not)were super high iq for some reson.

 

[Bryce]

Also most of low inhib people that i had encountered (GL or not)were super high iq for some reson.

It's probably just your perception of them. Most high IQ people are typically super high inhib because we overthink every possible situation and outcome a thousand times over and by the time we're done calculating we're too hesitant to try

 

[jaco]

Yeah, this is the same situation with dark triad. If someone has "dark triad" looks or "looks intimidating", chances are they are, because that's how they've been treated all their life and in turn that's how they must act in accordance to their treatment

????

 

[Bryce]

????

You can just ask what about this doesn't make sense to you instead of spamming question marks

 

[jaco]

You can just ask what about this doesn't make sense to you instead of spamming question marks

If ur good looking you won't get treated bas because you "look intimidating" JFL what the fuck is this statement ?

 

[Bryce]

If ur good looking you won't get treated bas because you "look intimidating" JFL what the fuck is this statement ?

Well I never said that did I

 

[jaco]

Well I never said that did I

Kinda what you wrote

 

[Bryce]

Kinda what you wrote

Yeah except that's not what I wrote and you just misinterpreted it