Why when men like something it’s a fetish, but when women like something it’s not?

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Kinda weird tbh. Women can like biceps or abs and “it’s normal” but niggas hate on me for liking feet and call it a fetish. Same with dating outside ur race. If a white dude were to only date asian foids it would be considered a fetish, but if it was a white foid dating asian men it would be considered a preference. Weird asf