Why you guys actually need to be MORE approachable than normies

[Deleted member 23778]

I see all these abused dog tier posts about guys who refuse to smile or they walk around with this scowl on their face as if to signal to the world that they are not weak. The problem is that if you are a good looking guy and you do this, people take you LESS seriously because they just assume you're an uptight narcissist obsessed with himself.

Being friendly, approachable, and having a decent sense of humor only HALOS a Chad simply because his good looks can be either intimidating to people OR too pretty to be taken for anything other than that. If you act uptight in the name of being stoic/tough/not letting people walk all over you, the effect you end up having is that of "this guy needs to get over himself".

The reason women find "NTness" or "oofy doofy" attractive is because a good looking guy who isn't serious puts people at ease. Imagine some handsome guy just cracking jokes and making people laugh by being the funny guy as opposed to the idiot sitting in the corner mean mugging everyone so they can see his hunter eyes

 

[Deleted member 18544]

dnrd i will continue walking around with aspie stare like this

 

[fukmylyf]

legit. People imply that i seem conceited or "salty" irl. But I legit can't smile unless I'm in the mood

 

[Deleted member 19766]

Does anyone else here like constantly check their reflection when they're out and about? I feel like it's kinda obvious because I've noticed my friend does it too and I can tell very easily so now I'm embarrassed asf jfl

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Does anyone else here like constantly check their reflection when they're out and about? I feel like it's kinda obvious because I've noticed my friend does it too and I can tell very easily so now I'm embarrassed asf jfl

Nigga I mog idgaf

 

[Brus Wane]

Factos.
It's the same for women.
People usually assume that stacies are stuck up & shallow but when they appear to be down to earth, kind & friendly (usually frauded & faked), it's an additional halo on top of everything else. This halo appeals to both men & women which is super beneficial for the wielder.

 

[GetShrekt]

Sorry brotha but I can’t walk around all happy & approachable it’s not in my brain chemistry.

Next time you see a nigga mean mugging you, understand it’s not nothing personal some niggas are just assholes

 

[DoctorPMA]

Good looking guy with poor social skills cries on looksmax.org that he is not good looking enough and hates women. Good looking guy who is funny and socially adept gets laid by stacies

 

[Deleted member 24444]

Good looking guy with poor social skills cries on looksmax.org that he is not good looking enough and hates women. Good looking guy who is funny and socially adept gets laid by stacies

Muh muh NT muh muh suciol skells

 

[DoctorPMA]

Muh muh NT muh muh suciol skells

you think its not important ?

 

[Deleted member 24444]

you think its not important Mr.Chad?

I’m not a chad jfl but it’s +- irrelevant

 

[Deleted member 23778]

I’m not a chad jfl but it’s +- irrelevant

Not really. Take two guys of the same looks level and make one of them friendly while the other has nervous energy, doesn't say much, or appears defensive when spoken to. Do you really think they'll both have the same success?

 

[Allornothing]

I don’t think not smiling makes you look narcissistic just unapproachable. Acting narcissistic when you look good is a failo though and just makes you look insecure.

 

[Deleted member 23778]

I don’t think not smiling makes you look narcissistic just unapproachable. Acting narcissistic when you look good is a failo though and just makes you look insecure.

I am talking about not smiling even even it's acceptable to do so ie pictures. These guys think they will communicate weakness when in reality it just comes off as either aspie or tryhard

 

[Gonthar]

I see all these abused dog tier posts about guys who refuse to smile or they walk around with this scowl on their face as if to signal to the world that they are not weak. The problem is that if you are a good looking guy and you do this, people take you LESS seriously because they just assume you're an uptight narcissist obsessed with himself.

If you're good looking you can easily get away with either behavior, if you're ugly it doesn't matter how friendly and approachable you are, no one wants to stay around you anyway.

 

[Deleted member 23778]

If you're good looking you can easily get away with either behavior, if you're ugly it doesn't matter how friendly and approachable you are, no one wants to stay around you anyway.

Cope. As evidenced by guys here who have no friends and no female attention, you can be a mogger and literally nobody will care if your social skills are shit. Literally why guys here mog the average male but can't get a date or get ghosted constantly on tinder.

Of course guys here will cope by saying some shit about their canthal tilt or lower third being the real reason, and that they're one surgery away from ascending.

This thread isn't about ugly guys anyway. Most guys here mog, plain and simple. Most guys here also have few friends and little female interaction. If what you said was true, they'd all be worshipped by normies.