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With every conversation there's a verbal conversation going on, and an emotional one. Our subconscious's are talking to each other on an emotional level with non-verbal cues, and tonality, on top of our verbal conversation. We are often only partially aware of this subconscious conversation.
Example:
Verbal Conversation:
Girl "Hey."
Girl "Got any plans for this weekend?"
Guy "Oh no. What about you?"
Girl "Oh no, just the usual."
Subconscious conversation:
Girl "You're a really poor looser. (Looking at ragged shoes making disgust micro-expression for fraction of a second) I'm sorry for you. (Calm voice like talking to a child) Do you have copes you're looking forward to this weekend? I'm trying to cheer you up because I see you as a looser with the emotional intelligence of a child. And you're clearly alone because you're ugly. (Vocal tonality, leaning in)"
Guy "Uh no. What? My life isn't that bad? Why would you say that?"
Guy "I mean, I don't technically do stuff on the weekends, but that's because I grind everyday, fuck I can't say that, I need to be cool. She see's me as such shit. Why does she see me as shit. My life isn't that bad. Every one else sees me as normal."
Girl "My life is better than yours. I just wanted to let you know I feel bad for you. You can go now."
Girl "Don't ask to hang out with me. Fuck, is he going to think I like him. I hope he goes now. This is what happens when you take pity on these loosers."
This is not some skitzo rant. These subconscious conversations are happening overlaying EVERY real conversation. Except between two people with low social skills/low emotional intelligence.
Now, some people with semi ok social intelligence, their subconscious may not be able to fully hear the other persons subconscious. So the conversation might sound something like this (from the guys perspective).
Girl "Mumble. Mumble. Mumble."
Guy "I can't hear what you're saying but I hope you like me."
Girl "Mumble. Mumble. Mumble. Looser. Mumble. Mumble."
Guy "Wait, who's the looser? I'm the looser?"
Our subconscious's are primitive and care about superficial things.
Some other Subconscious conversations:
Verbal Conversation:
Girl "What kind of TV do you have?"
Guy "I just watch shows on my laptop."
Girl "Oh ok." (Turns away and starts scrolling through her phone)
Subconscious conversation:
Girl "Are you rich?"
Guy "I got this stuff. It's not my focus now."
Girl "Oh fuck, you're poor. I was only talking to you because I thought maybe you're rich, and I'm looking for a better life."
This is always going on. You might be acting nice to a girl you mog, but your subconscious is saying:
"Fatty Fatty Fattty. God you're so fucking fat."
"I guess I'd still fuck you but don't expect a relationship."
And her subconscious is saying:
"I know I'm fat. I'm sorry I'll leave now."
Water to NT people. But this explains some of your emotions talking to women. It's because the subconscious conversations going on are fucking laughable lol. Inspired by this post.
Example:
Verbal Conversation:
Girl "Hey."
Girl "Got any plans for this weekend?"
Guy "Oh no. What about you?"
Girl "Oh no, just the usual."
Subconscious conversation:
Girl "You're a really poor looser. (Looking at ragged shoes making disgust micro-expression for fraction of a second) I'm sorry for you. (Calm voice like talking to a child) Do you have copes you're looking forward to this weekend? I'm trying to cheer you up because I see you as a looser with the emotional intelligence of a child. And you're clearly alone because you're ugly. (Vocal tonality, leaning in)"
Guy "Uh no. What? My life isn't that bad? Why would you say that?"
Guy "I mean, I don't technically do stuff on the weekends, but that's because I grind everyday, fuck I can't say that, I need to be cool. She see's me as such shit. Why does she see me as shit. My life isn't that bad. Every one else sees me as normal."
Girl "My life is better than yours. I just wanted to let you know I feel bad for you. You can go now."
Girl "Don't ask to hang out with me. Fuck, is he going to think I like him. I hope he goes now. This is what happens when you take pity on these loosers."
This is not some skitzo rant. These subconscious conversations are happening overlaying EVERY real conversation. Except between two people with low social skills/low emotional intelligence.
Now, some people with semi ok social intelligence, their subconscious may not be able to fully hear the other persons subconscious. So the conversation might sound something like this (from the guys perspective).
Girl "Mumble. Mumble. Mumble."
Guy "I can't hear what you're saying but I hope you like me."
Girl "Mumble. Mumble. Mumble. Looser. Mumble. Mumble."
Guy "Wait, who's the looser? I'm the looser?"
Our subconscious's are primitive and care about superficial things.
Some other Subconscious conversations:
Verbal Conversation:
Girl "What kind of TV do you have?"
Guy "I just watch shows on my laptop."
Girl "Oh ok." (Turns away and starts scrolling through her phone)
Subconscious conversation:
Girl "Are you rich?"
Guy "I got this stuff. It's not my focus now."
Girl "Oh fuck, you're poor. I was only talking to you because I thought maybe you're rich, and I'm looking for a better life."
This is always going on. You might be acting nice to a girl you mog, but your subconscious is saying:
"Fatty Fatty Fattty. God you're so fucking fat."
"I guess I'd still fuck you but don't expect a relationship."
And her subconscious is saying:
"I know I'm fat. I'm sorry I'll leave now."
Water to NT people. But this explains some of your emotions talking to women. It's because the subconscious conversations going on are fucking laughable lol. Inspired by this post.
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