Widow single mother victimize themselves which emasculates their young sons

[justinzayn]

I just visted by relatives after 10 years
After my father passed away in 2016 , when I was 13

My mother went thru so much during the time taking care of father alone, wandering around at different hospitals at night
Our relatives didn't help until. Things got extreme with my dad condition

So when my mother meets my relatives after a long time, she explain what she went thru, how no on helped her until last, she cried , while I didn't show much emotions bcoz I felt I will look cringe
And my mother also lowkey always talk about how she loves everyone despite they helped her or not,

She has every right to talk about what she go through, but also many of my relatives now look at me, that why don't I financial help my mother, scolding me since I am 13 , esp after turning 18
Treating me aggressively
Bcoz after marriage, relatives mostly abonden their daughter/sister

Widow single Mothers love crying talking about their issue but that makes young sons feel emasculated
I avoid this topic and pretend as if I am all cool and happy,

 

[Vermilioncore]

she doesn’t mean to emasculate you. It’s just that her pain is immense. So immense that her judgement is clouded and she doesn’t stop to think that what she is saying may be a slight toward you.