ElySioNs
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Ever since my wife and i met she has always been a very conservative virgin girl. I knew she had a BF before me but she insisted she was a virgin and it was very important to her. This has throughout our relationship, at first it was her making sure we took things slow and making sure she took each step carefully as her virginity was so so so important to her. After a while (and after we were married) it became more form me not believing her about her past BF as gaps in her stories and insistence started to appear.
Now like 10 years later she was drunk and admitted to me she had sex with her bf all those years ago and has lied to me ever since. She says she is sorry for lying to me and causing so many arguments about it, but it was only with him and only while they were together as a couple. She was also open about what they did together.
Last week i was cleaning in the garage and in an old box buried in the back i found some old old pics of her taken just before we got together as a couple. They were black and white pics of her on the beach, appeared naked but not showing anything. She tried telling me they were pics taken by her best friend and was def never naked just looked that way, always had clothes on. But then i saw when they were taken it was a time when her best friend was over seas. then she admitted it was taken by her ex BF like 2 years after they had broken up, and she was completely naked for the pics - left her clothes in his car. She said nothing else happened she just wanted some nice sexy pics, there was definitely no sex that happened, not even kissing.
She says its no big deal and she is sorry and i should just get over it. But i feel like its a big deal she has been lying to me for all this time. Its not so much that she had sex, its that she lied about it so much and took it so far.
Also i am not sure i buy the explanation she took those pics and nothing else happened with her EX like a few weeks before we got together.
What do you guys think?
Is she she right its no big deal?
Do you believe her nothing happened with her EX taking those pics?
Now like 10 years later she was drunk and admitted to me she had sex with her bf all those years ago and has lied to me ever since. She says she is sorry for lying to me and causing so many arguments about it, but it was only with him and only while they were together as a couple. She was also open about what they did together.
Last week i was cleaning in the garage and in an old box buried in the back i found some old old pics of her taken just before we got together as a couple. They were black and white pics of her on the beach, appeared naked but not showing anything. She tried telling me they were pics taken by her best friend and was def never naked just looked that way, always had clothes on. But then i saw when they were taken it was a time when her best friend was over seas. then she admitted it was taken by her ex BF like 2 years after they had broken up, and she was completely naked for the pics - left her clothes in his car. She said nothing else happened she just wanted some nice sexy pics, there was definitely no sex that happened, not even kissing.
She says its no big deal and she is sorry and i should just get over it. But i feel like its a big deal she has been lying to me for all this time. Its not so much that she had sex, its that she lied about it so much and took it so far.
Also i am not sure i buy the explanation she took those pics and nothing else happened with her EX like a few weeks before we got together.
What do you guys think?
Is she she right its no big deal?
Do you believe her nothing happened with her EX taking those pics?
