Wife's affair on my birthday

[ElySioNs]

3 years ago I found out about my wife's affair on my birthday. I'm now 38 to know more about me I got sick about 4 years ago lost my ability to walk and mobility to my hand and legs. My wife and I have been together for 13 years lots of hard times but we always had each other's back. After dr told me I would never walk again and 10 years I may pass to my illness I fell into drinking heavily to numb the pain I was giving up in depression bad I shut down and was in a dark place which affected my marriage of course I thought it couldn't be any worse but felt I could always depend on my wife to be there for me and I was wrong few months went by and I was having a gut feeling something wasn't right fast forward to the night before we celebrated my birthday I felt everything was fine between us I'm just in my head about it all then I woke up and went outside and her car was gone the truth eventually came out and she admitted to sleeping with another man but stopped during it all which is true after finding out who the man was I exposed him by emailing his wife everything I knew we eventually separated and still are working on our marriage but its harder for me than her the triggering remembers thoughts haunt me till this day

 

[baerr]

Hey OP! I’m sorry for your marriage but I can’t help understanding your wife… I mean, you said it yourself, you let yourself go, fell into heavy drinking. This is not what someone wants in her husband. Also, are you insecure by any possibility? Because I get that heavy from reading your text. It’s HER choice what she does with her body, not yours and even if it’s your birthday, it doesn’t really matter tbh, could’ve been any other day of the week. Work on your personality first and then try to get things together. Have a nice day OP!

 

[ElySioNs]

Hey OP! I’m sorry for your marriage but I can’t help understanding your wife… I mean, you said it yourself, you let yourself go, fell into heavy drinking. This is not what someone wants in her husband. Also, are you insecure by any possibility? Because I get that heavy from reading your text. It’s HER choice what she does with her body, not yours and even if it’s your birthday, it doesn’t really matter tbh, could’ve been any other day of the week. Work on your personality first and then try to get things together. Have a nice day OP!

Hello I just wanted to say thank you for your long answer, it gave me.some perspective especially seeing things from my wifes perspective, I can't blame her for what she did, I love her even if she does it with a BBC. Admittedly I am very insecure I think that plaued a role, I am a regular poster and surfer in IncelTears so I know how importabt confidence is but I think I lost myself and its all my fault, not my wifes. I will try and work on my personality, wife has been offering open relationship many times but because I was an insecure douchebag i always rejected it. I deserve it and this was a great lesson to me. Thank you again, you too have a nice day

 

[ElySioNs]

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[RichardSpencel]

Hello I just wanted to say thank you for your long answer, it gave me.some perspective especially seeing things from my wifes perspective, I can't blame her for what she did, I love her even if she does it with a BBC. Admittedly I am very insecure I think that plaued a role, I am a regular poster and surfer in IncelTears so I know how importabt confidence is but I think I lost myself and its all my fault, not my wifes. I will try and work on my personality, wife has been offering open relationship many times but because I was an insecure douchebag i always rejected it. I deserve it and this was a great lesson to me. Thank you again, you too have a nice day

Happy cake day !! Fellow cuckerino

 

[bourgeoizyzz]

Hey OP! I’m sorry for your marriage but I can’t help understanding your wife… I mean, you said it yourself, you let yourself go, fell into heavy drinking. This is not what someone wants in her husband. Also, are you insecure by any possibility? Because I get that heavy from reading your text. It’s HER choice what she does with her body, not yours and even if it’s your birthday, it doesn’t really matter tbh, could’ve been any other day of the week. Work on your personality first and then try to get things together. Have a nice day OP!

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[iwannabebreathtakin]

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