Will good looking males always have an abundance of friends in social contexts?

[Deleted member 16046]

Like let's say some chadlite moves to a new workplace or a new school but is extremely socially awkward, introverted and shy. will people make an exception and still make an effort to be his friend or is it possible for good looking people to be loners?

 

[Bonesbonesbonesbone]

fuck no bro just be NT and be low inhib and you will mog chadlites with high inhib, introverted, extremely socially awkward in having friends and being a social god. Unless Chadlite has normal inhib and is no socially awkward then he will mog you in having friends.

Also height requirement to have friends is not to be under 5"9 or it's truly over to make friends since their status is affected by your manletism.

also don't be skinny or they can pick on you and physically bully you and can kill you with their bare hands

plus why would you want a abundance of friends they would either be fake or just being with you because you benefit them in whatever you have which is most commonly being funny,money,status. easy to be mogged or just a slave tbh.

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Also height requirement to have friends is not to be under 5"9 or it's truly over to make friends since their status is affected by your manletism.

Finally a real blackpiller

 

[Deleted member 17829]

For friends its not really about being pretty, its about your level of physical dominance. Whether you would increase the groups overall physical dominant/intimidation.

So for example height, muscle, weight, fight ability etc

 

[Bonesbonesbonesbone]

This is good example of gangs like bloods vs crips in america or roadman ting you know (UK) or eshays from where im from (AU)

For friends its not really about being pretty, its about your level of physical dominance. Whether you would increase the groups overall physical dominant/intimidation.

So for example height, muscle, weight, fight ability etc

 

[Deleted member 18931]

This is an interesting question because I have a small circle of friends and we are more or less similar in personality with some slight variations. I am below average to average looking but am somewhat tall at 190cm and have only one friend that heightmogs me by 3cm (he also facemogs me) but the rest are shorter. When I started uni I couldn't meet up with my friends as often and so basically had no friends around to hang out with. In my second week this korean dude approached me in the kitchen and asked if I wanted to hang out with him and his friends at a party and eat some chicken nuggets. Late on about a week later some random guy asks me where I'm from and my name etc. There were more instances than just these two but these are some examples. It's the same with some women as I'll just be in the elevator with them and some will ask me my name and they'll tell me their name etc etc. I think it's a respect thing you get as a taller person, not necessarily good looking. People will want to be friends with you and invite you to stuff. I'm very shy as well and never talk to anyone so it was weird when random people just started inviting me and asking me shit.

 

[Deleted member 16046]

This is an interesting question because I have a small circle of friends and we are more or less similar in personality with some slight variations. I am below average to average looking but am somewhat tall at 190cm and have only one friend that heightmogs me by 3cm (he also facemogs me) but the rest are shorter. When I started uni I couldn't meet up with my friends as often and so basically had no friends around to hang out with. In my second week this korean dude approached me in the kitchen and asked if I wanted to hang out with him and his friends at a party and eat some chicken nuggets. Late on about a week later some random guy asks me where I'm from and my name etc. There were more instances than just these two but these are some examples. It's the same with some women as I'll just be in the elevator with them and some will ask me my name and they'll tell me their name etc etc. I think it's a respect thing you get as a taller person, not necessarily good looking. People will want to be friends with you and invite you to stuff. I'm very shy as well and never talk to anyone so it was weird when random people just started inviting me and asking me shit.

So are you basically saying that being good looking is not enough to meet the threshold of making substantial friends?. Like I know this guy at my school in England. He’s Italian so benefits from the exotic halo and is a solid chadlite will probably be Chad when older. He’s probably the best looking person in my grade But he has 0 friends and no social life. And what is even more strange is that girls always chat about how good looking he is and shit behind his back but I have never seen him once chat to a girl or seen a girl approach him. He just sits on his own at lunch and reads books. So I think unless your like Sean opry level looks, being good looking is enough for people to talk about you and get interested in you but if your social skills are shit, it’s not enough for people to actually approach you and actually try form a friendship with y.

 

[APJ]

If it’s not just ‘work friends’ of convenience, you need to be ‘normie’ (not just NT) most of the time to fit in social groups. Being a guy who banters and shares interests and a sense of humour with the others without being too ‘different’ in your way of seeing the world will see you included. Being attractive, not being a manlet or super fat, having preexisting status for other reasons, and being behaviourally masculine (i.e. show zero insecurity) will improve your standing within that group

 

[eduardkoopman]

My experience.

It defenately matters, and makes easier.

I used to be low tier normie.
And I struggled to make friends. Always needing to make the first move and easily left behind. Sadly this damaged me a bit.

Now that I look quit a bit better. People are more pro active socially with me. Getting invite. Getting more positive feedback. Which actually makes hanging enjoyable a bit.

Going places, being social. And people being stand off-ish, low or uninterested. Makes hanging not fun. But when they are more welcoming, and having some interest. Makes it more fun.

Sadly though, I am already mentally fucked, by my past experiences.

 

[Deleted member 18931]

So are you basically saying that being good looking is not enough to meet the threshold of making substantial friends?. Like I know this guy at my school in England. He’s Italian so benefits from the exotic halo and is a solid chadlite will probably be Chad when older. He’s probably the best looking person in my grade But he has 0 friends and no social life. And what is even more strange is that girls always chat about how good looking he is and shit behind his back but I have never seen him once chat to a girl or seen a girl approach him. He just sits on his own at lunch and reads books. So I think unless your like Sean opry level looks, being good looking is enough for people to talk about you and get interested in you but if your social skills are shit, it’s not enough for people to actually approach you and actually try form a friendship with y.

My social skills are probably the shittest you can get without being a legit autistic person and I approach no one. I think what's happening in your case is he's good looking so people are intimidated with him and thus don't speak to him. There are guys that are legit subhuman looking that have friends. If people are intimidated by you they probably aren't gonna talk to you directly.

 

[valhalar]

Lol no. I know a signed model and he is awkward asf and has very few friends.

 

[loksr]

I think this is less to do with gl vs ugly and more to do with high trust vs low trust

If you look approachable, whether ugly or gl, people will probably try to talk to you
Vs looking like a school shooter or a mogger serial killer

 

[Broski]

Very good looking tall blue eyed good framed dude at work had legit no friends because he was very quiet, acted lethargic, spoke monotone and gave serial killer vibes, yet people used to say how good looking he is, so no being good looking doesn't guarantee friends if not nt, but you won't necessarily be hated

 

[MrOrion]

There used to be a guy on my uni class who was a legit 6 psl and had done some modeling, yet most guys didnt like him and he sat alone like 95 % of time. I befriended him and he was actually a pretty chill dude, even told me some blackpilling stories