Will I ever be worthy of love

[supreme_gentleman]

I know that most will say no because of their views on the importance of looks but in my opinion, I could never give a consistent answer. I personally see myself as an okay-good-looking man and most of the people I know agree on that statement but when it comes down to something more than looks I can never be seen as worthy, I don't think I'm a bad person quite the opposite I do kind acts, I try and uplift people, and I even give to the homeless, I have a good personality and can be quite confident in a way that doesn't seem arrogant, but even then why has no girl ever seen me in a romantic way. The closest I've ever gotten was a single week of talking to a girl I loved with all my heart only to be left for a taller guy who didn't even look good. And months later she starts talking to me again only to tell me that we’re “just friends”, I poured my heart out to her multiple times and done everything correctly according to her just to lose to a tall ugly guy that barely treats her right. What is so wrong with me that somehow overshadows every single good trait I have, why can't a single girl ever see me as a possible romantic partner, why whenever I like a girl they reject me, why must my life be so miserable, why can't someone love me? What is the point in living if everyone sees me for a freak when I've done nothing wrong? I'm a good man with a good face and good morals why can't someone love me?

 

[sub5mumbaifinalboss]

dnr go full ER

 

[karmacita901]

> I do kind acts, I try and uplift people, and I even give to the homeless, I have a good personality and can be quite confident in a way that doesn't seem arrogant

i hate to break it to you but every run of the mill douchebag could also do all of these things if they gave a fuck.

To be worthy of love you need to either be attractive enough for people to want to see you (htn+), be talented enough to ascend to the top of a hierarchy (any hierarchy will do, which is why nichemaxxing is such a popular strat), or be convicted enough to be able to stand on business no matter what (like you really gotta be willing to die about ur shit)

 

[aidenltn17]

 

[DoctorPMA]

no girl ever seen me in a romantic way

well we would have to see what you look like and height. It could be many things like how you come off as and if you put yourself in situations where you can interact with women. Assuming you have good face like you claim then there is a good chance a girl can see you in a romantic way eventually

 

[hampy]

I know that most will say no because of their views on the importance of looks but in my opinion, I could never give a consistent answer. I personally see myself as an okay-good-looking man and most of the people I know agree on that statement but when it comes down to something more than looks I can never be seen as worthy, I don't think I'm a bad person quite the opposite I do kind acts, I try and uplift people, and I even give to the homeless, I have a good personality and can be quite confident in a way that doesn't seem arrogant, but even then why has no girl ever seen me in a romantic way. The closest I've ever gotten was a single week of talking to a girl I loved with all my heart only to be left for a taller guy who didn't even look good. And months later she starts talking to me again only to tell me that we’re “just friends”, I poured my heart out to her multiple times and done everything correctly according to her just to lose to a tall ugly guy that barely treats her right. What is so wrong with me that somehow overshadows every single good trait I have, why can't a single girl ever see me as a possible romantic partner, why whenever I like a girl they reject me, why must my life be so miserable, why can't someone love me? What is the point in living if everyone sees me for a freak when I've done nothing wrong? I'm a good man with a good face and good morals why can't someone love me?

dnr if ur mtn, yes

 

[supreme_gentleman]

well we would have to see what you look like and height. It could be many things like how you come off as and if you put yourself in situations where you can interact with women. Assuming you have good face like you claim then there is a good chance a girl can see you in a romantic way eventually

I'm like 5’7-5’8 so I'm cooked in height but I'll post my face soon, now I may be backtracking but I'm unsure how people on this site will react to my face because personal bias and the people around me could have rated my looks way higher than it actually is

 

[enlightful]

I know that most will say no because of their views on the importance of looks but in my opinion, I could never give a consistent answer. I personally see myself as an okay-good-looking man and most of the people I know agree on that statement but when it comes down to something more than looks I can never be seen as worthy, I don't think I'm a bad person quite the opposite I do kind acts, I try and uplift people, and I even give to the homeless, I have a good personality and can be quite confident in a way that doesn't seem arrogant, but even then why has no girl ever seen me in a romantic way. The closest I've ever gotten was a single week of talking to a girl I loved with all my heart only to be left for a taller guy who didn't even look good. And months later she starts talking to me again only to tell me that we’re “just friends”, I poured my heart out to her multiple times and done everything correctly according to her just to lose to a tall ugly guy that barely treats her right. What is so wrong with me that somehow overshadows every single good trait I have, why can't a single girl ever see me as a possible romantic partner, why whenever I like a girl they reject me, why must my life be so miserable, why can't someone love me? What is the point in living if everyone sees me for a freak when I've done nothing wrong? I'm a good man with a good face and good morals why can't someone love me?

You might just come across as too soft to girls tbh

 

[supreme_gentleman]

You might just come across as too soft to girls tbh

But that's what most girls want nowadays

 

[enlightful]

But that's what most girls want nowadays

Softness to a degree yea

But if its to the point the girl perceives you as being "too soft" then she wont be attracted and see you more as a friend

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

I know that most will say no because of their views on the importance of looks but in my opinion, I could never give a consistent answer. I personally see myself as an okay-good-looking man and most of the people I know agree on that statement but when it comes down to something more than looks I can never be seen as worthy, I don't think I'm a bad person quite the opposite I do kind acts, I try and uplift people, and I even give to the homeless, I have a good personality and can be quite confident in a way that doesn't seem arrogant, but even then why has no girl ever seen me in a romantic way. The closest I've ever gotten was a single week of talking to a girl I loved with all my heart only to be left for a taller guy who didn't even look good. And months later she starts talking to me again only to tell me that we’re “just friends”, I poured my heart out to her multiple times and done everything correctly according to her just to lose to a tall ugly guy that barely treats her right. What is so wrong with me that somehow overshadows every single good trait I have, why can't a single girl ever see me as a possible romantic partner, why whenever I like a girl they reject me, why must my life be so miserable, why can't someone love me? What is the point in living if everyone sees me for a freak when I've done nothing wrong? I'm a good man with a good face and good morals why can't someone love me?

Do you wish to be worthy or not? It is a title only you can accept. Yet will reality accept it?

 

[supreme_gentleman]

Softness to a degree yea

But if its to the point the girl perceives you as being "too soft" then she wont be attracted and see you more as a friend

I personally don't believe I'm TOO soft, I horse around with my friends and I know when to say no but other than that I'm mostly a nice guy

 

[supreme_gentleman]

Do you wish to be worthy or not? It is a title only you can accept. Yet will reality accept it?

It's the only reason I'm on here

 

[ngannou]

God loves you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ

 

[enlightful]

I personally don't believe I'm TOO soft, I horse around with my friends and I know when to say no but other than that I'm mostly a nice guy

Well it could be something else then

As long as you arent too nice that is

But then again it could js be something else

 

[SilvioMoltisantiDan]

what is ''ER''?