Woman always wanted me to act first. Mixed signals

[johnny4612]

Hi there!

Aside from one or two occasions where certain women seemed genuinely obsessed with me—like hugging me for no apparent reason, touching me in intimate ways, or even sitting on me (those are two past LTR), most of the other women I encounter give off signals and indicators of interest, however, they also seem to maintain a barrier between us.

I can sense that they like me or want to be closer, but their body language often suggests otherwise; they appear disinterested or closed off.

Why does this happen? Is it specific to certain types of women?

 

[TheLooxMaxingKing]

u dont look good enough buddy

 

[14yearoldpslmogger]

you are prob tall and not that attractive or short and attractive or idk some bitches be crazy

 

[david329]

Hi there!

Aside from one or two occasions where certain women seemed genuinely obsessed with me—like hugging me for no apparent reason, touching me in intimate ways, or even sitting on me (those are two past LTR), most of the other women I encounter give off signals and indicators of interest, however, they also seem to maintain a barrier between us.

I can sense that they like me or want to be closer, but their body language often suggests otherwise; they appear disinterested or closed off.

Why does this happen? Is it specific to certain types of women?

They are probably insecure about themselves, the know they are out of your league, my opinion, avoid such people they treat you based on your looks, they will change their mind when u are different on ur looks. be a men stand for yourself and don't feel sorry bro.

 

[johnny4612]

short and attractive

This, and

They will change their mind when u are different on ur looks. be a men stand for yourself and don't feel sorry bro.

This

 

[david329]

This, and


This

No hate bro, life as a men is hard and it's mean't to be like that, if they don't like you or behave that wy it their problem not yours.

 

[johnny4612]

No hate bro, life as a men is hard and it's mean't to be like that, if they don't like you or behave that wy it their problem not yours.

But I want to understand why.

I'm short and attractive, but as a woman of my same height, why don't they consider me a partner? I want to understand. I also want to comprehend the things that happen in my life.

Just to cite an example, one year ago, I had a job at a post office. There was a LTR of 10 years involving a couple my age. I knew the woman since she attended the same school as I did in childhood.

Her boyfriend is tall, at 190 cm, but I don’t find him particularly attractive.

I am the same height as her, 165 cm, and I consider myself attractive. I was not the only attractive guy there; we were 20 in total: 2 were "Chads," 2 were attractive, and the rest were normies.

So why did this woman start flirting with me? There were other single guys as well. Did she manage to question her relationship for me? Yes, she did, often blaming her boyfriend.

She showed me all the signals and indicators of interest (IOIs), but she exhibited the "behavior" I've described above.

I want to understand. I just want to know whether my height is influencing this or if there are other factors at play.

 

[david329]

But I want to understand why.

I'm short and attractive, but as a woman of my same height, why don't they consider me a partner? I want to understand. I also want to comprehend the things that happen in my life.

Just to cite an example, one year ago, I had a job at a post office. There was a LTR of 10 years involving a couple my age. I knew the woman since she attended the same school as I did in childhood.

Her boyfriend is tall, at 190 cm, but I don’t find him particularly attractive.

I am the same height as her, 165 cm, and I consider myself attractive. I was not the only attractive guy there; we were 20 in total: 2 were "Chads," 2 were attractive, and the rest were normies.

So why did this woman start flirting with me? There were other single guys as well. Did she manage to question her relationship for me? Yes, she did, often blaming her boyfriend.

She showed me all the signals and indicators of interest (IOIs), but she exhibited the "behavior" I've described above.

I want to understand. I just want to know whether my height is influencing this or if there are other factors at play.

She probably had crush on you since childhood, being a short and atractive is for women like a gun for themselves, women are mores sensitive and more agressive then men. Oufcourse they wan't a men who is tall and good looking, but in reality they use all this stuff for their trauma in their life that didn't even existed. That type of women u mentioned are not considered to be partners, any women who want's tall and goodlooking, to be like this or to be like that. Life is not a marketplace maybe if u get with that type of women together, there is no wonder she live you for a good looking bbc guy or someone more rich. My tip on you as a honest guy who want's you only to do great in life, search for a who is smart. They are rare 90% of women are dumb afk, signs you should look for a well behaved and a women who will be with ur whole life is, generous, not needy, not picky, loving animals and behaving good towards others and many other stuff. That women who was blaming her boyfriend, don't wonder she might do that with other guys in her relationship too, and probably cheating, the thruth is be a men and don't feel sorry for this ass weak women. At the end of the day she likes you because of ur looks in short, that type of women is narcistic , sociopathic women who doesn't care and ruins someones life u don't need that, this is a lot. This is ur life u choose it bro, sorry if something was offensive i tried to be honest as it gets to this.

 

[PedroFavelinha]

I'm short

 

[david329]

But I want to understand why.

I'm short and attractive, but as a woman of my same height, why don't they consider me a partner? I want to understand. I also want to comprehend the things that happen in my life.

Just to cite an example, one year ago, I had a job at a post office. There was a LTR of 10 years involving a couple my age. I knew the woman since she attended the same school as I did in childhood.

Her boyfriend is tall, at 190 cm, but I don’t find him particularly attractive.

I am the same height as her, 165 cm, and I consider myself attractive. I was not the only attractive guy there; we were 20 in total: 2 were "Chads," 2 were attractive, and the rest were normies.

So why did this woman start flirting with me? There were other single guys as well. Did she manage to question her relationship for me? Yes, she did, often blaming her boyfriend.

She showed me all the signals and indicators of interest (IOIs), but she exhibited the "behavior" I've described above.

I want to understand. I just want to know whether my height is influencing this or if there are other factors at play.

if a women doesn't love you now for the way you are and short, she never will, don't go for that type of women. being atractive is more important then height.