“Women approach men all the time”

[Nero]

“Women approach men all the time.” Reminds me of that blackpill Jesus video. I get approached by women, smiles, and looks many times when I go out. Approaching is rare (being approached by women as a man in broad daylight is not super common in the US even if you’re good looking) but I do draw attention. I know I’m know I’m above average looks, frame, style, etc. but for some reason some women think I live the life of an average guy (which is pretty much the entire basis of modern feminism but that’s a whole other thread itself).

I’m not going to post all of the feminist garbage and context of these replies. I don’t want to bloat this post too much but a guy posted his wedding photos and captioned the picture “Remember when weddings were still a thing?” Then a guy made a comment saying “Remember when ladies were a thing?” Of course all of the “strong and independent” women came out:

“Women don’t have it easy.” “Guys are scared.” “Women have to approach.” “Get over it.” “Women approach often.” “Women make the first move all the time.” “Just be a good person.”

It must be nice living in fantasy land. You can’t blame young women though. Many of them are still playing on recruit difficulty. Some of them haven’t even left tutorial island. I’m good looking, funny, etc. and it’s not even all that great for me in the US as I’m not really into slaying or even dating tbh (No, I’m not asexual. Yes, my T-levels are normal). At least I get a nice looks halo. It’s way to much work, stress and time/money for me personally. Definitely not getting legally married either. To be fair non-virgins/sluts are a huge turn off for me. It’s not insecurity. I could mog them into oblivion in every way and I’d still feel the same. It’s just how I’m wired. I don’t think I could see them as anything other than a concubine. Even if I was completely unphased by the amount of cock they’ve taken like I used to be and didn’t have to listen to silly feminist/leftist arguments like the person above many American women are still too masculine, aggressive and/or boring for me but I digress.

Even rich and famous Good Samaritan chads can’t maintain a fruitful LTR. It’s over for many men. Many many gallons of men.

 

[wolfgaiden]

i'm curious, what are your experiences like, when you make initial contact with women at work or other social venues ? How does it feel when you know you could sleep with them if you wanted, but are spoilt for choice ?

 

[Entschuldigung]

No shit op

 

[Beetlejuice]

chad only,which are the only ones that woman consider man.

 

[Gazzamogga]

 

[Deleted member 6902]

Women are delusional, nothing new. I get angry when reading their online rants, but ignore most of the time due to predictability

 

[Deleted member 245]

@Amnesia

Come break this coper's soul

 

[Deleted member 5892]

Women are delusional, nothing new. I get angry when reading their online rants, but ignore most of the time due to predictability

I want to rape and kill them when they post retarded shit like that

 

[Deleted member 1100]

I was halfway through your first paragraph, then I looked at your entire post. I thought to myself "Is it worth?" I looked at your color and then I made my decision.

 

[turkproducer]

agreed, i think their perspective would vastly change if they bothered to open a tinder of an average man up for once in their lives. Or maybe they know and they lie because they want the simps and normies to chase and validate them.

I’m tired of this trickery and female lies. Women rarely approach, even if they find you attractive but not gigachad they won’t approach lol.

 

[Deleted member 1680]

agreed, i think their perspective would vastly change if they bothered to open a tinder of an average man up for once in their lives. Or maybe they know and they lie because they want the simps and normies to chase and validate them.

I’m tired of this trickery and female lies. Women rarely approach, even if they find you attractive but not gigachad they won’t approach lol.

I hate approaching, not because i could be rejected, but because i cant stand the feeling of validating women especially at my expense.

 

[turkproducer]

To be fair non-virgins/sluts are a huge turn off for me. It’s not insecurity. I could mog them into oblivion in every way and I’d still feel the same. It’s just how I’m wired. I don’t think I could see them as anything other than a concubine. Even if I was completely unphased by the amount of cock they’ve taken like I used to be and didn’t have to listen to silly feminist/leftist arguments

as much as women like to paint male and female sexuality as the same there’s literally a biological reason for this. Men dislike promiscuous women because it’s a biological instinct to not want a woman that sleeps around, goes back to ancient times where men need to be sure that they are able to pass on their genetics, it a woman sleeps around maybe she cucked him and he has failed his biological mission?

I hate seeing them complain of this “double standard”. Male and female sexuality is different, we are wired to spread our genetics as much as possible and they are not...

And of course this girl approaches chads only lmfao. her looksmatch is hanging from the ceiling

I hate approaching, not because i could be rejected, but because i cant stand the feeling of validating women especially at my expense.

i do it anyway because if i didn’t i’d get much less success lol.

i still wait for some sort of IOI, let’s say she adds me first it says something flirty i’ll approach but indeed it’s depressing to validate women when you’re just 1 of 3000 men in their messages.

you are very disposable, even chad is disposable nowadays lol

 

[Deleted member 534]

“Just be a better person”

More like have you thought about adding 6 inches to your height and increasing your FWHR bro?

 

[Nero]

i'm curious, what are your experiences like, when you make initial contact with women at work or other social venues ? How does it feel when you know you could sleep with them if you wanted, but are spoilt for choice ?

Some girls have basically just straight up said I was handsome. Some will just randomly make conversation when I’m at say an amusement park. But It’s not always talking. Many times I will just feel a girls attention come my way or look at me for longer than people typically look at strangers. I’m not super tall (around 6ft no shoes) and don’t dress that out of the ordinary most of the time so I assume it’s my looks.

A couple strangers have told me I should model before. One of the times was a group of older women that were running the food shop at a tournament I was in. In between one of my matches I went to get some refreshments and they started complimenting me. One of them seemed a little flustered. I think she was a little nervous and miscounted/fumbled my change a bit. It was wasn’t even two years ago but I can’t remember everything. When I see stuff like that if we’re not already talking I usually just smile or wave if we make eye contact and go about my day. I usually don’t even think about it tbh. Probably because I had some bad experiences in the past and subconsciously just ignore it even when I normally would say something. Many times when I acted on it ironically didn’t end well for various reasons now that I think about it. The rest of this is a tangent so you don’t have to read the rest of this.

It’s actually kind of sad. I remember I saw a really cute lifeguard alone by the pool. She had my high school logo on her shirt but I didn’t know her because she looked new and I had graduated that year so I didn’t go to the school anymore except for the occasional sport game. She looked pretty bored. I remember being in a really good mood after my work out and seeing her sit there I thought I would brighten up her day, have some fun and sit and chat for a bit after I got my stuff out of the locker room. I wasn’t looking to pick her up or anything sometimes I just like chatting or making people smile. Then I thought it my head,”What’s the point?” “She’s going to blow you off anyway.” “You’re never going to be friends or anything why waste your time?” I stood there at the glass door for a bit mind blank and I just left after a minute. I wasn’t nervous or anything. I literally just thought, “Nothing good will come of this.” and walked away. I thought about it for a bit later on the ride home because it was a little out of character for me. I never regretted it until this very moment of me typing this. I never started to realized how jaded I am from a few bad past experiences until this year tbh.

Over time I had become less happy go lucky and more nihilistic. Being isolated, even more so with this pandemic has help me heal more than any amount of validation anyone could have given me. I feel like in the end I’m a better person so I’m alright with how things turned out.

 

[Deleted member 3702]

Some girls have basically just straight up said I was handsome. Some will just randomly make conversation when I’m at say an amusement park. But It’s not always talking. Many times I will just feel a girls attention come my way or look at me for longer than people typically look at strangers. I’m not super tall (around 6ft no shoes) and don’t dress that out of the ordinary most of the time so I assume it’s my looks.

A couple strangers have told me I should model before. One of the times was a group of older women that were running the food shop at a tournament I was in. In between one of my matches I went to get some refreshments and they started complimenting me. One of them seemed a little flustered. I think she was a little nervous and miscounted/fumbled my change a bit. It was wasn’t even two years ago but I can’t remember everything. When I see stuff like that if we’re not already talking I usually just smile or wave if we make eye contact and go about my day. I usually don’t even think about it tbh. Probably because I had some bad experiences in the past and subconsciously just ignore it even when I normally would say something. Many times when I acted on it ironically didn’t end well for various reasons now that I think about it. The rest of this is a tangent so you don’t have to read the rest of this.

It’s actually kind of sad. I remember I saw a really cute lifeguard alone by the pool. She had my high school logo on her shirt but I didn’t know her because she looked new and I had graduated that year so I didn’t go to the school anymore except for the occasional sport game. She looked pretty bored. I remember being in a really good mood after my work out and seeing her sit there I thought I would brighten up her day, have some fun and sit and chat for a bit after I got my stuff out of the locker room. I wasn’t looking to pick her up or anything sometimes I just like chatting or making people smile. Then I thought it my head,”What’s the point?” “She’s going to blow you off anyway.” “You’re never going to be friends or anything why waste your time?” I stood there at the glass door for a bit mind blank and I just left after a minute. I wasn’t nervous or anything. I literally just thought, “Nothing good will come of this.” and walked away. I thought about it for a bit later on the ride home because it was a little out of character for me. I never regretted it until this very moment of me typing this. I never started to realized how jaded I am from a few bad past experiences until this year tbh.

Over time I had become less happy go lucky and more nihilistic. Being isolated, even more so with this pandemic has help me heal more than any amount of validation anyone could have given me. I feel like in the end I’m a better person so I’m alright with how things turned out.

 

[MewingJBP]