Women approaching men

[awsomness1112]

Hello all. I just wanted to know what your guy's thoughts are on women approaching men. I'm not trying to make it seem like I'm on a high horse or trying to brag, but whenever I go out to bars, I always have a woman approach me (I go to college in a college town, so it is easier to attract, I think). At first, I thought it was maybe because I was attractive, but now I feel like it's the opposite. I saw a video that said you can tell if you're attractive based on if you get approached by women, they said that most men who get approached are mid and that ugly and attractive men are the only ones who don't really get approached. The women who approach me are decent at best, but most of them are average. I would give myself a 4/10 on the looks chart, but I am 6 foot, a friend told me that if it weren't for my height, no girl would approach me. I just want to know what your guy's thoughts are on women approaching men and if they only really approach mid-men.

 

[134applesauce456]

women approaching men is rare so I feel like it's the opposite of what ur friend is saying ,more attractive = more women approaching

you have to be like worth it yk

 

[The Grinch]

Women do approach, just not that obviously, more like giving hints, the more confident they are the more obvious their hints. Now if you have to ask yourself "Was that a hint“ it was probably not, because it’s either very obvious that they are into you and if it’s not unmistakingly obvious, they are most likely not and you just made it up in your mind. Women don’t hide their interest, if they don’t show you interest, it’s not because they are playing hard to get, but because they simply are not into you. And no, being nice isn’t an IOI

 

[tombradylover]

Dnr and btw pipe dream unless u look like me

 

[overwhelmedcel]

You’d have to be very high status to get approached as a sub6ft 4/10 guy

 

[pfl]

women approaching men is rare so I feel like it's the opposite of what ur friend is saying ,more attractive = more women approaching

you have to be like worth it yk

its complicated
they would approach u if ur chad
but at the same time they wouldnt because they are intimidated

 

[TechnoBoss]

Hello all. I just wanted to know what your guy's thoughts are on women approaching men. I'm not trying to make it seem like I'm on a high horse or trying to brag, but whenever I go out to bars, I always have a woman approach me (I go to college in a college town, so it is easier to attract, I think). At first, I thought it was maybe because I was attractive, but now I feel like it's the opposite. I saw a video that said you can tell if you're attractive based on if you get approached by women, they said that most men who get approached are mid and that ugly and attractive men are the only ones who don't really get approached. The women who approach me are decent at best, but most of them are average. I would give myself a 4/10 on the looks chart, but I am 6 foot, a friend told me that if it weren't for my height, no girl would approach me. I just want to know what your guy's thoughts are on women approaching men and if they only really approach mid-men.

I think they do approach men actually but I dislike it because it makes you lose status tbh and sets the tone for the relationship. It makes it look like she's wearing the pants and in control. It also tells me she probably does it often. I can't speak on the quality of men they approach but it doesn't make sense they'd approach mid/ugly guys. Only guys approach mid women because of juggernaut theory aka the closer a woman is to average or unattractive, the more a guy thinks he has a chance with her. This is why with Tinder experiments you'll see men swiping on ugly girls and messaging them first and being thirsty. If a girl is attractive a guy is intimidated and doesn't think he has a chance. Women don't view it the same way aka the juggernaut theory does not apply to women.

women approaching men is rare so I feel like it's the opposite of what ur friend is saying ,more attractive = more women approaching

you have to be like worth it yk

You'd be very surprised at how many women approach guys on the street tbh. If they don't approach they will just give strong IOIs like standing next to you on a completely uncrowded train, eye fucking you, smiling, etc. Women maybe don't APPROACH as often as men but they still 100% give as many IOIs when compared to approaches. I think men approach more but give less IOIs.

 

[awsomness1112]

its complicated
they would approach u if ur chad
but at the same time they wouldnt because they are intimidated

ya, bro, exactly. That's why I feel like they would only approach the mid men.

 

[oily703]

I think they do approach men actually but I dislike it because it makes you lose status tbh and sets the tone for the relationship. It makes it look like she's wearing the pants and in control. It also tells me she probably does it often. I can't speak on the quality of men they approach but it doesn't make sense they'd approach mid/ugly guys. Only guys approach mid women because of juggernaut theory aka the closer a woman is to average or unattractive, the more a guy thinks he has a chance with her. This is why with Tinder experiments you'll see men swiping on ugly girls and messaging them first and being thirsty. If a girl is attractive a guy is intimidated and doesn't think he has a chance. Women don't view it the same way aka the juggernaut theory does not apply to women.


You'd be very surprised at how many women approach guys on the street tbh. If they don't approach they will just give strong IOIs like standing next to you on a completely uncrowded train, eye fucking you, smiling, etc. Women maybe don't APPROACH as often as men but they still 100% give as many IOIs when compared to approaches. I think men approach more but give less IOIs.

A man giving an ioi would be very weird tbh
I cant really imagine myself staring at a chick and thinking of it as something she would like
Most atrempts would just be labeled as creeps

 

[TechnoBoss]

A man giving an ioi would be very weird tbh
I cant really imagine myself staring at a chick and thinking of it as something she would like
Most atrempts would just be labeled as creeps

No not really weird. If you give a smile that's fine and look a little bit. Playing with your hair as a man is submissive and gay. All you need is a smile. Oddly enough though a smile from a woman on the street is a very strong IOI. Usually means she wants to fuck you or she finds you really good looking.

I think if a man is giving IOIs and doesn't get the go ahead from her body language or a smile or anything it's his signal to not approach. Completely cold approaching without getting IOIs from her is a dead end unless you are literally Chad.

 

[oily703]

No not really weird. If you give a smile that's fine and look a little bit. Playing with your hair as a man is submissive and gay. All you need is a smile. Oddly enough though a smile from a woman on the street is a very strong IOI. Usually means she wants to fuck you or she finds you really good looking.

I think if a man is giving IOIs and doesn't get the go ahead from her body language or a smile or anything it's his signal to not approach. Completely cold approaching without getting IOIs from her is a dead end unless you are literally Chad.

I was thinking of a very creepier way of ioiing lmao
Like staring at a man for a woman its ok and normal
But if a man stares at a woman i thinks jts weird idk
Iois are diferent for each gender is what i just realised basicly

 

[我需要阴部]

Hello all. I just wanted to know what your guy's thoughts are on women approaching men. I'm not trying to make it seem like I'm on a high horse or trying to brag, but whenever I go out to bars, I always have a woman approach me (I go to college in a college town, so it is easier to attract, I think). At first, I thought it was maybe because I was attractive, but now I feel like it's the opposite. I saw a video that said you can tell if you're attractive based on if you get approached by women, they said that most men who get approached are mid and that ugly and attractive men are the only ones who don't really get approached. The women who approach me are decent at best, but most of them are average. I would give myself a 4/10 on the looks chart, but I am 6 foot, a friend told me that if it weren't for my height, no girl would approach me. I just want to know what your guy's thoughts are on women approaching men and if they only really approach mid-men.

Happens to me occasionally at work.

Don't ever pursue it further sometimes add on Instagram

 

[RealNinja]

A man giving an ioi would be very weird tbh
I cant really imagine myself staring at a chick and thinking of it as something she would like
Most atrempts would just be labeled as creeps

No not really weird. If you give a smile that's fine and look a little bit. Playing with your hair as a man is submissive and gay. All you need is a smile. Oddly enough though a smile from a woman on the street is a very strong IOI. Usually means she wants to fuck you or she finds you really good looking.

I think if a man is giving IOIs and doesn't get the go ahead from her body language or a smile or anything it's his signal to not approach. Completely cold approaching without getting IOIs from her is a dead end unless you are literally Chad.

You can do this to a girl if she does it to you first or if you know she’s attracted to you. It’s returning the sentiment. Don’t stare like a serial killer just hold eye contact for a few seconds and give her a smirk. She will understand what it means