women are confusing

[it's.so.over]

For a bit of context, I've known this girl for about two years, and I'd say we're pretty good friends, plus, we're classmates. About six months ago, she kind of rejected me, even though I didn’t actually have feelings for her at the time. I'm not sure what made her think I did. I was talking to her over chat about how I feel really lonely, and how it sucks to feel that way, and out of nowhere, she asked, “You don’t like me, do you?” traduce este texto al españolIt really bothered me, since it was the first time I had opened up to a girl about my loneliness, and the timing wasn’t great either. (This all happened during the holidays and over chat, so it didn’t affect our friendship.) She later apologized, so it wasn’t a huge deal, but at the time, it really hurt. A week ago, vacation ended. I had grown a couple of inches during the break, and suddenly she started talking to me more, getting closer, messaging me on Instagram, etc. It felt strange because she hadn’t acted like that before. In the early months of our friendship, she used to rest her head on my shoulder, but after a friend suggested she liked me, she stopped doing that.Back then, I didn’t think much of it, since she’s very affectionate with everyone. I didn’t give it any importance. I was overweight and had low self-esteem at the time. As I said, I grew a few centimeters during the break, and since then she’s been getting closer to me.I’m not handsome, I’d say I’m a solid 5, but I am tall for my age, and for some reason, girls seem to like tall guys. Maybe it’s all in my head and it means nothing, but it’s really unusual for me to get any attention from girls, so I don’t know what to do.I wouldn’t say I’m in love with her, but she is pretty, kind, and affectionate. I wouldn’t mind having something with her, but since we’re in the same class and friend group, I don’t want to ruin that. Still, I’d feel like an idiot if this actually means something and I don’t make a move.Even if I do nothing, she might think I don’t care and shift her attention to someone else. What should I do? Is this all in my head and she doesn’t feel anything? Please help.

 

[lastredeemer]

Not even a molecule

 

[Primalsplit]

Women are not confusing to Chad.

 

[OgreGravital]

For a bit of context, I've known this girl for about two years, and I'd say we're pretty good friends, plus, we're classmates. About six months ago, she kind of rejected me, even though I didn’t actually have feelings for her at the time. I'm not sure what made her think I did. I was talking to her over chat about how I feel really lonely, and how it sucks to feel that way, and out of nowhere, she asked, “You don’t like me, do you?” traduce este texto al españolIt really bothered me, since it was the first time I had opened up to a girl about my loneliness, and the timing wasn’t great either. (This all happened during the holidays and over chat, so it didn’t affect our friendship.) She later apologized, so it wasn’t a huge deal, but at the time, it really hurt. A week ago, vacation ended. I had grown a couple of inches during the break, and suddenly she started talking to me more, getting closer, messaging me on Instagram, etc. It felt strange because she hadn’t acted like that before. In the early months of our friendship, she used to rest her head on my shoulder, but after a friend suggested she liked me, she stopped doing that.Back then, I didn’t think much of it, since she’s very affectionate with everyone. I didn’t give it any importance. I was overweight and had low self-esteem at the time. As I said, I grew a few centimeters during the break, and since then she’s been getting closer to me.I’m not handsome, I’d say I’m a solid 5, but I am tall for my age, and for some reason, girls seem to like tall guys. Maybe it’s all in my head and it means nothing, but it’s really unusual for me to get any attention from girls, so I don’t know what to do.I wouldn’t say I’m in love with her, but she is pretty, kind, and affectionate. I wouldn’t mind having something with her, but since we’re in the same class and friend group, I don’t want to ruin that. Still, I’d feel like an idiot if this actually means something and I don’t make a move.Even if I do nothing, she might think I don’t care and shift her attention to someone else. What should I do? Is this all in my head and she doesn’t feel anything? Please help.

Woman are simple beings that only make decisions driven by their primal instincts of reproduction and being performative