Beanermaxxer
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Experienced men will say “water” but I just wanted to make sure everyone here understands this.
Every time a woman says “I love you” to me, I can’t help but think she is a lying bitch
Women can’t feel real love for someone. Unlike men, we are the only one able to actually love someone without expecting anything in return.
The most loyal, consistent, and ride or die people I’ve ever known we’re all men. Not women, girlfriends or “soulmates.”
It’s not trauma, I don’t even hate women, It’s just pattern recognition. After enough time and having been with multiple women, you start seeing the reality.
Women love selectively
Women love conditionally
And that’s fine
What They Love = Your Utility
They don’t love you the way you love them. They love: Your looks, your attention, your timing, your status.
If you lose those things? The “love” dries up. And I’m not even mad about that anymore, I’d do the same if I were them.
It’s not evil. It’s just evolution.
Love ≠ Loyalty
This is where most fags break, they confuse emotional intensity with emotional permanence.
A woman can cry in your arms and mean it in the moment, but still ghost you three weeks later with zero remorse. Not because she lied.But because her emotional state changed. That’s it.
You’re looking for consistency in a brain that’s wired for adaptability.
So Why Am I Cool With It?
Because I finally stopped trying to get unconditional love in a conditional world.
The only time I’ve felt truly seen, respected, and safe was around my closest male friends. And I mean that in the deepest sense possible. No masks. No performance. No expiration date. Thats what real love is
Every time a woman says “I love you” to me, I can’t help but think she is a lying bitch
Women can’t feel real love for someone. Unlike men, we are the only one able to actually love someone without expecting anything in return.
The most loyal, consistent, and ride or die people I’ve ever known we’re all men. Not women, girlfriends or “soulmates.”
It’s not trauma, I don’t even hate women, It’s just pattern recognition. After enough time and having been with multiple women, you start seeing the reality.
Women love selectively
Women love conditionally
And that’s fine
What They Love = Your Utility
They don’t love you the way you love them. They love: Your looks, your attention, your timing, your status.
If you lose those things? The “love” dries up. And I’m not even mad about that anymore, I’d do the same if I were them.
It’s not evil. It’s just evolution.
Love ≠ Loyalty
This is where most fags break, they confuse emotional intensity with emotional permanence.
A woman can cry in your arms and mean it in the moment, but still ghost you three weeks later with zero remorse. Not because she lied.But because her emotional state changed. That’s it.
You’re looking for consistency in a brain that’s wired for adaptability.
So Why Am I Cool With It?
Because I finally stopped trying to get unconditional love in a conditional world.
The only time I’ve felt truly seen, respected, and safe was around my closest male friends. And I mean that in the deepest sense possible. No masks. No performance. No expiration date. Thats what real love is
