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I don't know where this myth came from but its not true at all... Being slightly smarter then the girl your talking with is always a plus. Women also don't like being with a guy she views as dumber or less educated then her. Take any girl who grew up in a white collar household and she will pick a smart NT guy over a NT 100 IQ plumber every time (even if the plumber ironically makes more money).
The only time IQ hurts you is when you are autistic about it. Many of the people who go on and on about this topic aren't even geniuses in the slightest they are just nerds who focus on one topic. Probably are deficient in looks the only thing going for them is this nerd persona they've built up. They also don't know how to talk about different topics. I've met many smart autists who just can't shut up about one thing a guy I was friends with was great but he would only talk to me about history (I like history so I didn't mind) but I could never hang out with him with other irl friends because he was a total sperg outside of that topic. He was great to talk with but in a dynamic environment with a bunch of people he could not function and would make a fool of himself
Now take a smart person who is NT and is well read on many topics he will knock most guys out of the park. You just need to know what topic to discuss with different people I learned how to do this with various friends working in retail is great for this because the average person isn't always bright. With some people I talk about complex topics other people we just lift together and talk about general things like life. I'm not going to tell a normie girl about my coding project or autistic stuff like that. But I might mention a book I'm reading or some easier to digest topic.
Tldr: Its not IQ its that your a nerd who can only talk about his expertise or autistic fixations
The only time IQ hurts you is when you are autistic about it. Many of the people who go on and on about this topic aren't even geniuses in the slightest they are just nerds who focus on one topic. Probably are deficient in looks the only thing going for them is this nerd persona they've built up. They also don't know how to talk about different topics. I've met many smart autists who just can't shut up about one thing a guy I was friends with was great but he would only talk to me about history (I like history so I didn't mind) but I could never hang out with him with other irl friends because he was a total sperg outside of that topic. He was great to talk with but in a dynamic environment with a bunch of people he could not function and would make a fool of himself
Now take a smart person who is NT and is well read on many topics he will knock most guys out of the park. You just need to know what topic to discuss with different people I learned how to do this with various friends working in retail is great for this because the average person isn't always bright. With some people I talk about complex topics other people we just lift together and talk about general things like life. I'm not going to tell a normie girl about my coding project or autistic stuff like that. But I might mention a book I'm reading or some easier to digest topic.
Tldr: Its not IQ its that your a nerd who can only talk about his expertise or autistic fixations
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