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I remember when I was 13-16, literally no woman spoke to me,
I had terrible acne and was basically outcasted by women. Only had male friends. No matter
how much I went out and socialized no woman ever tried to make contact. Only once a girl asked me out
but she was like 17 and I was 12 LOL. I thought it was a prank so I told her no.
At age 17 I had a glowup, I took a chance and put myself on social media back then
which was MSN messenger. I was added to a group chat which included a popular girl
from school. I put up a picture of myself (most people told me I looked very handsome in it later).
Immediately this girl who was friends with all the guys there saw my pic and sought me out
and immediately became friends with me and added me to her social circle and spoke to me every single night.
Notice I didnt try to speak to this girl or try to hit on her or try to talk to her, she saw my looks and accepted me at once.
She had a bf so she introduced me to her best friend ( I didnt ask her to do this). Immediately her friend fell in love with me, stalked me,
found out when I came back from vacation and asked me out. She is the one who asked me out, asked for my phone, invited me out
multiple times, invited me to school dance, spent money on me, bought me a movie I couldnt find, spent hours texting me.
I didnt do anything but show up and look pretty.
Same thing in UNI, I entered a room to enroll, a girl was there waiting, immediately she saw me and accepted me and spend the next 3yrs in UNI
being always around me, and admitted she found me attractive. She also didnt need me to spend money on her and never tried to get anything (like money or food) out of me. She also gave me food and movies. My father knew this girl's parents and told me a couple years later this girl wanted to marry me
and did all kinds of things for me to be her bf but I never asked her since I just saw her as a friend.
I had many other women do this to me. Also have had the opposite reaction whereby women immediately rejected me if they
didnt like my look or appearance or if I was a stranger or they just saw me as a friend/ classmate etc.
Bascially women (just like men) know if they want you in the first second of the interaction. Also some women seek out men if they
think you are rich, like you would get random women adding you on social media since they found out you have money and they try to
seduce you.
TLDR - Women chose men and usually know if they want you in the first second or they actively seek out rich/high status men.
You have little control over getting a woman. Which is why PUA and all these men and women trying to teach men on the internent how
to pick up women is bullshit, they either want you or they dont. All you can do is be your best self.
Which is why it is best to love yourself, and find peace, confidence, happiness and validation within, since
people's validation is fleeting and you may not get it or if you do they can take it away anything and break you.
I had terrible acne and was basically outcasted by women. Only had male friends. No matter
how much I went out and socialized no woman ever tried to make contact. Only once a girl asked me out
but she was like 17 and I was 12 LOL. I thought it was a prank so I told her no.
At age 17 I had a glowup, I took a chance and put myself on social media back then
which was MSN messenger. I was added to a group chat which included a popular girl
from school. I put up a picture of myself (most people told me I looked very handsome in it later).
Immediately this girl who was friends with all the guys there saw my pic and sought me out
and immediately became friends with me and added me to her social circle and spoke to me every single night.
Notice I didnt try to speak to this girl or try to hit on her or try to talk to her, she saw my looks and accepted me at once.
She had a bf so she introduced me to her best friend ( I didnt ask her to do this). Immediately her friend fell in love with me, stalked me,
found out when I came back from vacation and asked me out. She is the one who asked me out, asked for my phone, invited me out
multiple times, invited me to school dance, spent money on me, bought me a movie I couldnt find, spent hours texting me.
I didnt do anything but show up and look pretty.
Same thing in UNI, I entered a room to enroll, a girl was there waiting, immediately she saw me and accepted me and spend the next 3yrs in UNI
being always around me, and admitted she found me attractive. She also didnt need me to spend money on her and never tried to get anything (like money or food) out of me. She also gave me food and movies. My father knew this girl's parents and told me a couple years later this girl wanted to marry me
and did all kinds of things for me to be her bf but I never asked her since I just saw her as a friend.
I had many other women do this to me. Also have had the opposite reaction whereby women immediately rejected me if they
didnt like my look or appearance or if I was a stranger or they just saw me as a friend/ classmate etc.
Bascially women (just like men) know if they want you in the first second of the interaction. Also some women seek out men if they
think you are rich, like you would get random women adding you on social media since they found out you have money and they try to
seduce you.
TLDR - Women chose men and usually know if they want you in the first second or they actively seek out rich/high status men.
You have little control over getting a woman. Which is why PUA and all these men and women trying to teach men on the internent how
to pick up women is bullshit, they either want you or they dont. All you can do is be your best self.
Which is why it is best to love yourself, and find peace, confidence, happiness and validation within, since
people's validation is fleeting and you may not get it or if you do they can take it away anything and break you.
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