RealNinja
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Someone on Reddit said something insightful, which is that to women, social incompetence = creepiness. This has been said on here but it’s important for the social retards on .org to internalize.
Most men would define a “weirdo” or a “creepy guy” as someone who is ogling/staring at women, following or stalking women, making overtly sexual comments, etcetera. Women have a more varied definition of creep/weirdo.
When you make social fuck-ups, or speak/act in an autistic or awkward way, those social miscues can also trigger a woman’s safety mechanics, even if you aren’t DIRECTLY being creepy. Having subpar social skills or poor social calibration (inability to read body language, take hints, know time and place for things etc) can make women think you’re a creep or a weirdo even if you’re a genuinely nice person.
Most men would define a “weirdo” or a “creepy guy” as someone who is ogling/staring at women, following or stalking women, making overtly sexual comments, etcetera. Women have a more varied definition of creep/weirdo.
When you make social fuck-ups, or speak/act in an autistic or awkward way, those social miscues can also trigger a woman’s safety mechanics, even if you aren’t DIRECTLY being creepy. Having subpar social skills or poor social calibration (inability to read body language, take hints, know time and place for things etc) can make women think you’re a creep or a weirdo even if you’re a genuinely nice person.
