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I posted this in a so-called red pill community and my thread was blocked. Maybe I'll get some constructive feedback here, even though most of the users here are anything but constructive, but hope dies last.
Suppose you are in an LTR with a wonderful woman, she fulfills all the "Red Pill" or "manosphere" checklists that make a good woman with praise. She is beautiful, exactly your type and the relationship is going very well, let's say "the one in a million" - wife material. Let's say she is very short ~5'1", she could probably be the twin sister of Becky G. But her height does not diminish her attractiveness in your eyes.
You and she have the desire to start a family one day. Would her height be a flaw for you? Because there is a risk that if you have a son, he could become very short. I'm not saying you have to be tall to live a good life as a man. But let's be honest, men of 5'5" have it extremely hard in western countries, where I live the average is 5'11" (Germany). He will feel pain and his pain will be the pain of his parents. Everyone wants happy children.
Genetics are not calculable, it's a lottery. Parts of the father, parts of the mother, and bang, there's the new man. And with one short parent, there is a risk that a potential son will inherit the height on his maternal side. It's like Russian roulette with an extra bullet. It doesn't matter if one is 5'9", 6' or 6'7", it's a fucking lottery. I know of families with a 6" father and a 5' mother in which the son also became 6' (lucky in the genetic lottery). And i also know a 6'7" dutch guy with a 5' asian wife and a 5'5" son.
Just look at Will Smith for example, he is 6'2", his wife 5' and his son 5'7" (unlucky in the genetic lottery).
I am in exactly such a situation and would like to hear your opinion.
The thoughts about it are destroying me. On the one hand she is a fantastic woman, on the other hand the risk of putting a potential son in a bad state is harsh to me.
Suppose you are in an LTR with a wonderful woman, she fulfills all the "Red Pill" or "manosphere" checklists that make a good woman with praise. She is beautiful, exactly your type and the relationship is going very well, let's say "the one in a million" - wife material. Let's say she is very short ~5'1", she could probably be the twin sister of Becky G. But her height does not diminish her attractiveness in your eyes.
You and she have the desire to start a family one day. Would her height be a flaw for you? Because there is a risk that if you have a son, he could become very short. I'm not saying you have to be tall to live a good life as a man. But let's be honest, men of 5'5" have it extremely hard in western countries, where I live the average is 5'11" (Germany). He will feel pain and his pain will be the pain of his parents. Everyone wants happy children.
Genetics are not calculable, it's a lottery. Parts of the father, parts of the mother, and bang, there's the new man. And with one short parent, there is a risk that a potential son will inherit the height on his maternal side. It's like Russian roulette with an extra bullet. It doesn't matter if one is 5'9", 6' or 6'7", it's a fucking lottery. I know of families with a 6" father and a 5' mother in which the son also became 6' (lucky in the genetic lottery). And i also know a 6'7" dutch guy with a 5' asian wife and a 5'5" son.
Just look at Will Smith for example, he is 6'2", his wife 5' and his son 5'7" (unlucky in the genetic lottery).
I am in exactly such a situation and would like to hear your opinion.
The thoughts about it are destroying me. On the one hand she is a fantastic woman, on the other hand the risk of putting a potential son in a bad state is harsh to me.