You can't get female attention and be high inhib at the same time (like me)

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I don't have school now, but during the school year and my summer classes, I would always have some girl who had a crush on me. Sometimes, I would exist and get women staring. Spikes my cortisol from my abused dog nervous system every time. Sometimes, I am worried that I'll be approached.

I'm almost high MTN, not Chad, but it happens often enough to where I am sometimes on edge.

There was this HTB (not the one I ranted about earlier) that I genuinely thought was beautiful. She was a Stacylite in my opinion. She was in my speech class and she would give me covert IOIs a few times (she's playing it safe). I was too much of a pussy to approach her.

Once I came to the conclusion that the probability of her liking me was high, my cortisol levels were consistently elevated during class.
Over.
 
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You are at a threshold that is not sufficient for this. it happened to me too, but afterwards
 
You are at a threshold that is not sufficient for this. it happened to me too, but afterwards
My college is 99% MTN- at best. It's just low competition to be fair.
 
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Many dudes are also manlets.
 
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My college is 99% MTN- at best. It's just low competition to be fair.
I was very inhibited but I was approached quite a bit before, as soon as I dropped down I found myself in a situation initially similar to yours, then worse because I isolated myself socially.
 
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What would you think would have happened if you were in chad looks level?
 
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I'm almost high MTN, not Chad, but it happens often enough to where I am sometimes on edge.
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Reason why thinking of her approaching you or initiating something with you is because of performance anxiety and weak ego. If she initiates something with you there is high probability that you will embarass yourself such as you wont know how to make out, or if it ever came to sex your dick might be too small/thin etc. and she will laugh at you. All of that causes your ego defense system to start releasing cortisol which makes you anxious and scared so you simply give up and jerk it off to some sweet bbc granpda porn :feelsohh::feelsohh::feelsautistic:
 
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Reason why thinking of her approaching you or initiating something with you is because of performance anxiety and weak ego. If she initiates something with you there is high probability that you will embarass yourself such as you wont know how to make out, or if it ever came to sex your dick might be too small/thin etc. and she will laugh at you. All of that causes your ego defense system to start releasing cortisol which makes you anxious and scared so you simply give up and jerk it off to some sweet bbc granpda porn :feelsohh::feelsohh::feelsautistic:
Makes sense.
 
Reason why thinking of her approaching you or initiating something with you is because of performance anxiety and weak ego. If she initiates something with you there is high probability that you will embarass yourself such as you wont know how to make out, or if it ever came to sex your dick might be too small/thin etc. and she will laugh at you. All of that causes your ego defense system to start releasing cortisol which makes you anxious and scared so you simply give up and jerk it off to some sweet bbc granpda porn :feelsohh::feelsohh::feelsautistic:
I've been approached 3 times in the span of 6 months. Anxiety inducing every time.
 
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My college is 99% MTN- at best. It's just low competition to be fair.
Doesn't make statistical sense blud, that's not how gaussian distribution works. You prob overrate women bc you're attracted to them obv and underrate guys bc of people on PSL saying that chico is HTN etc.

Unless your college suffers from huge selection bias due to being high iq = full of asian incels?
 
Unsolicited rapid exposure therapy.
What do you mean by this?

- that she would have approached you because of you chad tier face

- or that you would have approached her because a chad face gave you the confidence
 
Doesn't make statistical sense blud, that's not how gaussian distribution works. You prob overrate women bc you're attracted to them obv and underrate guys bc of people on PSL saying that chico is HTN etc.

Unless your college suffers from huge selection bias due to being high iq = full of asian incels?
You're right that doesn't make statistical sense. It can be seen more as a hyperbole than an actual statement.
But the average attractiveness at my college is below a 5, and the average height is also below average.
 
What do you mean by this?

- that she would have approached you because of you chad tier face

- or that you would have approached her because a chad face gave you the confidence
I couldn't be in public without getting approached. Therefore, I would get exposure therapy (unasked for) and I wouldn't be high inhib anymore.
 
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What do you mean by this?

- that she would have approached you because of you chad tier face

- or that you would have approached her because a chad face gave you the confidence
 
I couldn't be in public without getting approached. Therefore, I would get exposure therapy (unasked for) and I wouldn't be high inhib anymore.
You said you have seen it with your own eyes, a guy getting this treatment, could you write some of those experiences? :feelscry:

Or maybe you have a thread about it
 

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