You can't "just be NT"

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

It's a big 5 personality trait.
You can't just change that shit it's just not possible.
You can pretend to be NT, but you can't be NT.
Every time I socialize I become a nervous wreck and depending on how well I manage and if there's alcohol I can act NT but really I have to try to keep the conversation going and I don't even like talking to people.

 

[Deleted member 9048]

 

[Deleted member 756]

It's a big 5 personality trait.
You can't just change that shit it's just not possible.
You can pretend to be NT, but you can't be NT.
Every time I socialize I become a nervous wreck and depending on how well I manage and if there's alcohol I can act NT but really I have to try to keep the conversation going and I don't even like talking to people.

Pretending is good enough however

 

[Deleted member 1182]

i know being nt is not possible for all people
but it doesnt really matter?
if you are good looking you can just go on tinder and get likes, unlike some others here like myself
and women will do the talking.
but if this thread is not about dating, why would you want to be NT anyway?

 

[tyronelite]

Legit you can't just switch it on/off. Luckily for me I was able to build up my NTness over the years

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

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you made me grit my teeth so hard out of anger and reminded me i bought a teeth guard kit.
im going to make a mold of my teeth now

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

Legit you can't just switch it on/off. Luckily for me I was able to build up my NTness over the years

how?

 

[Deleted member 9048]

you made me grit my teeth so hard out of anger and reminded me i bought a teeth guard kit.
im going to make a mold of my teeth now

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

i know being nt is not possible for all people
but it doesnt really matter?
if you are good looking you can just go on tinder and get likes, unlike some others here like myself
and women will do the talking.
but if this thread is not about dating, why would you want to be NT anyway?

because being not NT in the 21st century is a high indicator you are a mysogynist.
that is because people who are not NT can see through the bullshit, and they don't like that.

 

[Deleted member 1182]

because being not NT in the 21st century is a high indicator you are a mysogynist.
that is because people who are not NT can see through the bullshit, and they don't like that.

lol wtf? i actually keked reading this
being "introverted" is actually trendy in this times (only for good looking people tho)
mental illness is not an indicator of mysoginy at least i dont hope it is, yet

 

[ReverseNorwoodPill]

mdma will make you nt in a matter of 20 minutes

non-nt-ness is just a specific chemical state of your brain. it's largely influencable even without drugs mid to long term. stay of the internet. go for walks. talk to people. have hobbies. lower gut inflammation. eat clean etc.

all of this will shift everyone who is not on thne spectrum towards nt

 

[Deleted member 10536]

i know being nt is not possible for all people
but it doesnt really matter?
if you are good looking you can just go on tinder and get likes, unlike some others here like myself
and women will do the talking.
but if this thread is not about dating, why would you want to be NT anyway?

Nt is just cope. Literally forum is full of autists dropping pasta everywhere with girls fawning over them. Read a thread like that daily.

 

[tyronelite]

how?

I was always kind shy & introverted growing up since high school then when I hit my growth spurt & hit 6'3 I started feeling more confident, more people wanted to hang with me & be friends, I started going out to bars/clubs and became more extroverted. It was mostly the positive reinforcement I got after high school

 

[Deleted member 245]

Personality is harder to change (i.e pretty much impossible) than looks.

You can try to fake a different one but you will be outed very quickly and you will feel mentally exhausted from the pretending.

 

[potentialhabit1]

It's a big 5 personality trait.
You can't just change that shit it's just not possible.
You can pretend to be NT, but you can't be NT.
Every time I socialize I become a nervous wreck and depending on how well I manage and if there's alcohol I can act NT but really I have to try to keep the conversation going and I don't even like talking to people.

imma say this once bro, take phenibut before going out or into social settings, you will be NT

 

[Deleted member 4106]

Indeed

 

[Deleted member 9699]

@6ft7Mogger

 

[Deleted member 2968]

I was always kind shy & introverted growing up since high school then when I hit my growth spurt & hit 6'3 I started feeling more confident, more people wanted to hang with me & be friends, I started going out to bars/clubs and became more extroverted. It was mostly the positive reinforcement I got after high school

So if you magically get taller you NT is going to improve?

 

[tyronelite]

So if you magically get taller you NT is going to improve?

Naah me being taller increased my self esteem & confidence cuz of the positive reinforcement I was getting. You can’t just grow taller but not take action & sit around in the basement 24/7

 

[Curlbrahhh]

It's a big 5 personality trait.
You can't just change that shit it's just not possible.
You can pretend to be NT, but you can't be NT.
Every time I socialize I become a nervous wreck and depending on how well I manage and if there's alcohol I can act NT but really I have to try to keep the conversation going and I don't even like talking to people.

Youre right , you just dont become NT but with ALOT of exposure to social situations your mind will change and adapt and slowly become NT.It just takes alot of work for social anxiety bros

 

[Deleted member 12002]

because being not NT in the 21st century is a high indicator you are a mysogynist.
that is because people who are not NT can see through the bullshit, and they don't like that.

Yeah, I'm a mysogynist. I don't scream it from the rooftops, but I won't do anything to hide it either. I'm certainly not gonna lie about it.

If anybody doesn't like me for being a mysogynist (friends, family, or acquaintances of any kind), then good. I don't like you either. Now get the f*ck out of my face.

 

[Deleted member 1553]

Too busy being NT to read.