You have to stay in your own lane

[Deleted member 4991]

A part of surviving in this society is knowing how to play your role as best as you can. I've been coming across a few people in real life where it seems like they get their lifestyle advice from channels like charisma on command.

In the workplace it becomes increasingly obvious when you see a coworker who was previously shy or kept to himself start to become extroverted and try to become the center of attention without having the looks to back it up, or physicality for that regard.

When men like this do this they just look like clowns; just imagine a short, skinny glasses wearing guy trying to act tough and "alpha" it just doesn't work. Everyone in the room knows something is off.

TLDR: just be yourself bro, if you dont look the part then don't attempt to be something you're not. Play up to your strengths, if youre funny just jestermaxx. It may not be what you want but it is the most viable strategy for you to succeed.

 

[Deleted member 8576]

WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY.

 

[Warlow]

going monkmode while looksmaxxing is legit

 

[justadude]

you can switch lanes but just make sure to turn on your signal and check blind spot

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Yep.

However people know you, you are kind of restricted to. I think it's best then to be unpredictable right?

Quiet some days extroverted others?

That's how I've been. They probably have no idea why though. It's not working either way jfl I have to try again next time in a different social group.

 

[Deleted member 4991]

Yep.

However people know you, you are kind of restricted to. I think it's best then to be unpredictable right?

Quiet some days extroverted others?

That's how I've been. They probably have no idea why though. It's not working either way jfl I have to try again next time in a different social group.

If you really want to change and have people treat you differently your only option is to make a new life elsewhere, another country. The people you've known for so long around you will never accept the new you.

 

[Deleted member 9989]

This is the reason i looksmax

i want to take girls without jestermaxxing or pua shitting. Just be myself

 

[Deleted member 4991]

This is the reason i looksmax

i want to take girls without jestermaxxing or pua shitting

Is jestermaxxing is humiliating

 

[Deleted member 9989]

In the movies ?

 

[Deleted member 4991]

In the movies ?

Wrong thread lol

 

[Gonthar]

just imagine a short, skinny glasses wearing guy trying to act tough and "alpha" it just doesn't work. Everyone in the room kows something is off.
TLDR: just be yourself bro, if you dont look the part then don't attempt to be something you're not.

LOL, I did this in college...

 

[Deleted member 4991]

LOL, I did this in college...

Hey man, we live we learn. I'm sure you knew deep down in your heart and brain that it was ridiculous xD

 

[KrissKross]

going monkmode while looksmaxxing is legit

This. I will not conform to the script and part I was given so I will re enter society when I can play the part I want to be.

 

[Deleted member 4991]

This. I will not conform to the script and part I was given so I will re enter society when I can play the part I want to be.

Its just that once you've gone monkmode you must find new friends and a new environment, people you know will feel threatened once they see you are not the wimp you once were.

 

[Gonthar]

Hey man, we live we learn. I'm sure you knew deep down in your heart and brain that it was ridiculous xD

It was either this or staying quiet and not talking to anyone, in high-school I was pretty much invisible, I didn't talk to any girls, I felt the need to overcompensate when I went to college...

 

[Deleted member 4991]

It was either this or staying quiet and not talking to anyone, in high-school I was pretty much invisible, I didn't talk to any girls, I felt the need to overcompensate when I went to college...

How did that work for you? Did you get girls on your dick?

 

[KrissKross]

Its just that once you've gone monkmode you must find new friends and a new environment, people you know will feel threatened once they see you are not the wimp you once were.

I’m finding that already. I can make new friends easily but my old ones or people who knew me before want even less to do with me now.

 

[Gonthar]

How did that work for you? Did you get girls on your dick?

Yes, I got a girlfriend eventually and found my place in a circle of cool people, after I toned down my act a little.

 

[Deleted member 4991]

Yes, I got a girlfriend eventually and found my place in a circle of cool people, after I toned down my act a little.

Just NT maxx theory confirmed???

 

[Deleted member 3323]

I remember back at summer camp when I was 16 everyone would always bully this short kid because he didn't stay in his lane. He wanted so hard to be a leader, so hard to be alpha. When he tried to gather people as teammates in a game, "Hey guys come on!" Someone just yelled, "Elvis, shut up you cant be a leader." It was brutal, poor kid tbh.

 

[MostGLSlayer]

LOL, I did this in college...

Same bro, but I learned real quick. Pretending to be someone you're not is actually exhausting and people can sense the fakeness.

 

[Deleted member 4991]

I remember back at summer camp when I was 16 everyone would always bully this short kid because he didn't stay in his lane. He wanted so hard to be a leader, so hard to be alpha. When he tried to gather people as teammates in a game, "Hey guys come on!" Someone just yelled, "Elvis, shut up you cant be a leader." It was brutal, poor kid tbh.

And they were right, Elvis will never be a leader with his shit frame and poor height all a product of poor genetic quality

 

[Deleted member 3323]

And they were right, Elvis will never be a leader with his shit frame and poor height all a product of poor genetic quality

It's kinda sad honestly. If you're short or ugly people have a certain expectation and perception of you and if you don't follow it you're hated for it. Darwinism at play - the meek are destined to be at the bottom of the barrel.

 

[Deleted member 4991]

It's kinda sad honestly. If you're short or ugly people have a certain expectation and perception of you and if you don't follow it you're hated for it. Darwinism at play - the meek are destined to be at the bottom of the barrel.

You're actually deemed as less attractive if you try to be something you're not.

 

[Deleted member 4991]

Sometimes you have to accept you will be the Jonah hill to decaprio. Its not all doom and gloom though you can still play a hell of a role as supporting actor....

 

[Deleted member 3323]

Sometimes you have to accept you will be the Jonah hill to decaprio. Its not all doom and gloom though you can still play a hell of a role as supporting actor....

 

[Warlow]

This. I will not conform to the script and part I was given so I will re enter society when I can play the part I want to be.

indeed, why struggle now, when i can live the good life soon? God willing

 

[Deleted member 4991]

I was gonna link this video LMAO

 

[DharkDC]

I remember back at summer camp when I was 16 everyone would always bully this short kid because he didn't stay in his lane. He wanted so hard to be a leader, so hard to be alpha. When he tried to gather people as teammates in a game, "Hey guys come on!" Someone just yelled, "Elvis, shut up you cant be a leader." It was brutal, poor kid tbh.

I remember in college, the leader role would always float to me

 

[Deleted member 3323]

I remember in college, the leader role would always float to me

As it did to me and I didn't even have to say a single word for the most part. I was a shy guy, barely spoke yet everyone liked me. I'm sure it had nothing to do with the fact that I was taller and better looking than them, my "aura" and personality were the causes. People like mysterious guys!